Fab is ALL about calculated minimised risk. Meeting a stranger in private is a risk. Taking sensible precautions minimises risk.
Meeting for outdoor sex might sound hot, but consider the risk to the child out walking the dog who might see something that scares them.
Take calculated risks for yourself, but don't involve others who haven't consented. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab is ALL about calculated minimised risk. Meeting a stranger in private is a risk. Taking sensible precautions minimises risk.
Meeting for outdoor sex might sound hot, but consider the risk to the child out walking the dog who might see something that scares them.
Take calculated risks for yourself, but don't involve others who haven't consented."
I like risk.. not risk that violates consent  |
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"Fab is ALL about calculated minimised risk. Meeting a stranger in private is a risk. Taking sensible precautions minimises risk.
Meeting for outdoor sex might sound hot, but consider the risk to the child out walking the dog who might see something that scares them.
Take calculated risks for yourself, but don't involve others who haven't consented.
I like risk.. not risk that violates consent "
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"Lot public places.. Even when people pass you and they not know what happen .
Or even in a restaurant ??"
Can't beat a bit of fun under the table or in a booth |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Secrecy i find a major turn on. Risk? I make a living out of if. After many years of needing just to free normal. But i do understand the pull it has for others"
Secrecy I don't like.. or lies. Taking risks in public places is one of my major kinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex in a public place risk?
Hot hot hot
Public such as where??... and don't say the freezer aisle of tesco ...  "
Restaurants are my personal favourite. But the options are pretty endless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lot public places.. Even when people pass you and they not know what happen .
Or even in a restaurant ??
We should try it some time  "
Yes we should try that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say outdoor fun is great and the chance of getting caught is a real turn on
But you gotta love work fun"
Oh ye. Good call. Many a fun evening had in a job I was working last year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This sounds boring but I don't like risk, I much prefer certainty, it's less stressful. Mrs  "
Somehow l wouldn't think there's anything boring about you Mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is ALL about calculated minimised risk. Meeting a stranger in private is a risk. Taking sensible precautions minimises risk.
Meeting for outdoor sex might sound hot, but consider the risk to the child out walking the dog who might see something that scares them.
Take calculated risks for yourself, but don't involve others who haven't consented."
Yes risk is exciting and fun, just to have respect of the public around us. Even the thrill of getting caught its all part of it. Its also risky meeting people from here but being calculated and knowing a bit about the person doesn't take from the thrill either, there's loads of unknowns |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"I love car meets
So hot "
Yeah but it's always a worry. Will your car like my car? Is yours overheating as much as mine? Are we in the same gear/revs? Will my head gasket blow before yours or can we get them to go at the same time?
It's not a surprise you say it's hot, with all that going on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you guys say "public"... what exactly do you mean?
Is it the thrill of someone seeing you? "
The thrill of almost getting caught or getting caught. Also the possibility of someone watching you without you knowing. |
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"When you guys say "public"... what exactly do you mean?
Is it the thrill of someone seeing you?
The thrill of almost getting caught or getting caught. Also the possibility of someone watching you without you knowing."
Which is a common fantasy that I understand... but as I said above, someone who hasn't (or cant) consent to viewing and who is being presented with it through no choice of their own is not cool. It's also potentially a criminal offense. Don't do that.
At a club or something where everyone is adults and everyone knows the score is a different thing. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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I remember an ex starting to unzip me in a park
Felt really uncomfortable . There was a guy walking near by and I felt that he might not want to see this . We weren’t exactly brangelina
But when we got home it was amazing . I am conflicted about it . When I overhear people in hotels I find it horrible yet I am very comfortable in groups . I think it’s purely about consent. Do me or others want to watch or hear this |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Maybe it's an age thing but I prefer to cut out risks so that I can relax and let myself go fully.
I do get it as a mental stimulation ie part of foreplay before you head to a more private location but physically I don't think I'd get much from it. |
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