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Positive signs - Green flags?
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I see chats about red flags and what they are in relation to chatting or social meets and what can warn you off meeting someone.
Wondering now about green flags? Something someone you are chatting with does that makes you think - Yep, I wanna meet them - (other than there being a bit of physical attraction). |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Verifications from people I know . Helps me check if they’re good craic
Clarity that we are heading towards a coffee meet rather than endless chat
Ticking safe sex
A bio that doesn’t suggest an erratic personality
A willingness to make the effort during the conversation and to travel for the meet |
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For me,I love to read comments that make me smile or laugh...the poster not taking themselves too seriously. At the same time,they don't change their view just to get approval from someone they want to Impress! While a don't engage frequently on the forums there are definitely a few here I'd enjoy pints with based on the above!! |
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"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs  "
I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though  |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs
I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though "
SD done with confidence is great
But coming across as ‘grateful’ for a chat or a meet not so much |
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By *erticalMan
over a year ago
dark side of the moon |
Again as my profile reads i like class/substance/ style but how the mind works might be the most attractive quality they have? But if they have a decent level of self respect i’d meet anyone for a coffee and chat male or femaleIf its a lady and the hope is for sexual relations i’d at the very least hope we are not related…….,.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with a similar sense of humor to mine.
People with some perspective on fab and life in general (or at least a perspective which matches mine).
The ability to argue without belittling.
Boobs |
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"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs
I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though "
Phoarrrr ... grab your coat love you're pulled  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of people in the last few people have been catfishers/fake or whatever. In fact after chatting and seen the friends pics they were of a famous porn star 
Red flag.
Not being fake, green flag. |
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"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs
I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though
Phoarrrr ... grab your coat love you're pulled "
Damn, why didn’t I act sooner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Solid level of interest in texts. Meaning you send a paragraph they send one back. Even just getting questions is a rarity when I feel I'm interviewing someone I just stop.
Otherwise nice pace to convo, but of humour, bit naughty.
What gets me is when people ask what you do. That's just an attraction killer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A smart sense of humour definitely, and a facility with double-entendres especially
Not taking themselves too seriously in general
And last but not least - excellent spelling and grammar skills |
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When they list a bunch of things they require, and you click their veries and all the people meet them.
Only big dick black men, and it's white men and black men with little dicks. Vs nothing but black men with big dicks.
Tall bearded men only, and first Veri is a short clean shaven guy.
Its very rare to click through veris and for them to match what was said. But it's a green flag when it happens, even if what they asked for rules me out, at least they are an upfront, honest person, and get a green flag. |
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