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Should I stay or Should I go now
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 but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go? | |||
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"Stay or go depending on how you feel fab is positively or negatively affecting you. Not because of what people on the forum say" Ach I just like perspective. And to open conversations for others who may be feeling the same.  | |||
"Stay or go depending on how you feel fab is positively or negatively affecting you. Not because of what people on the forum say Ach I just like perspective. And to open conversations for others who may be feeling the same. "As other have said leaving isn't a big deal its easy to come back. | |||
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"I suppose sometimes you can feel like an impostor or invalid here if you arent very 'active' " Never, paddle your own canoe  | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?"fook it stay sure we've to flirt outrageously yet  | |||
"I suppose sometimes you can feel like an impostor or invalid here if you arent very 'active' " Everyone's definition of active is different. I've only had one small group social meet since the beginning of last year. | |||
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"I suppose sometimes you can feel like an impostor or invalid here if you arent very 'active' " I get that or a "voyeur" even. I think everyone goes through phases of inactivity and its absolutely fine. Its about how Fab fits into your life not how your life fits into fab. Maybe leaving will give you the answer?? Leave and miss it(then come back) or realise you're better off and don't. Have you gotten all you wanted from fab?? | |||
"I suppose sometimes you can feel like an impostor or invalid here if you arent very 'active' " I've been here a long time and I have seen a lot of amazing people leave and a lot come come back. Take a break for a while. I'm not a huge participant in the forums but you don't have to be. Just do what you feel is right for you. We all need a little time out | |||
"My advice is always hide your profile and log out. If, after 6 months, you’ve had no desire to reactivate, delete the profile and walk away. " This | |||
"My advice is always hide your profile and log out. If, after 6 months, you’ve had no desire to reactivate, delete the profile and walk away. " That seems sensible xx | |||
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"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?"" If you leave Fab now...you'll take away a very special part of me...ooooh...ooooh baby please don't go " ..please note you sing that to the tune of Chicago's .." if you leave me now "  | |||
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"Before you even think of leaving... Check out the post re Curvey ladies... See what you'll be missing.. "You on your way down too | |||
"If you do leave ( and I'd rather you stayed ) I'd like to say I'm delighted to have had a coffee and cake with you and then chatting at the Galway Social..sometimes we never get a chance to say thanks " Ffs anoying how sound and genuine you are...really irritates pal | |||
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"If you do leave ( and I'd rather you stayed ) I'd like to say I'm delighted to have had a coffee and cake with you and then chatting at the Galway Social..sometimes we never get a chance to say thanks Ffs anoying how sound and genuine you are...really irritates pal "Hahaha he really bursts your beautifully linguistic directness sometimes rav! | |||
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"If you do leave ( and I'd rather you stayed ) I'd like to say I'm delighted to have had a coffee and cake with you and then chatting at the Galway Social..sometimes we never get a chance to say thanks Ffs anoying how sound and genuine you are...really irritates pal
Hahaha he really bursts your beautifully linguistic directness sometimes rav! "The bolix makes me want to be a better man | |||
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"We hid our profile. We arent meeting. Weve too much going on in the real world. And tbh the allure of meets etc has certainly waned. I pops on and off the forums but even at that now its not doing much for me. Have made some wonderful friends for which im grateful to fab for but personally for us fab is over for now. Maybe hide the profile and take a break for a while and come back when youre ready x" Great advise x | |||
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"I take lengthy times away usually 3 to 6 mts at a time I never delete my profile just log out and don't think about it..I don't meet much infact haven't met anyone for anything more than a coffee in over two years, I get called time waster and what's the point in me being here for not wanting to meet but only for the forum page chats and I social nights i wouldn't be here atal "it should be to anyone what they want it to be....to be enjoyed whatever way you want to | |||
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) and maybe even without an end-goal the journey can be valid...
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"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?"Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay  | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay "go on then... | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay "actually no, i quite like debate, the whys of choices and such. I like my mind to be challenged and im not into undeserved flattery or falsehoods. The people who told me id be missed know me, and I appreciate their appreciation. You i dont know from Adam and I take your response with a pinch of feckin salt tbh | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay "Sure isn't she right | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay
go on then... "Ok,, here we go,, ready? Please stay,, i will be heartbroken, your the only reason i come here, you lift my heart , make me see whats good in the world, the sky, sunsets, birds chirping ,, the sound of laughter,, you fulfill me !! If you go i dont know what i will do,, i might end up shaggin that pompous molly one, do you really want that ?? Please stay ,, we are one spirit | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay Sure isn't she right "She damn well is | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay
actually no, i quite like debate, the whys of choices and such. I like my mind to be challenged and im not into undeserved flattery or falsehoods.
The people who told me id be missed know me, and I appreciate their appreciation. You i dont know from Adam and I take your response with a pinch of feckin salt tbh"Great response,, love that ‘ go fuck yourself’ attitude lol,, | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay "Knob. | |||
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"Thanks all for the practicality, the positivity, and the PM's. I just realised sometimes I cant see the wood for the trees ( what a metaphor ) and maybe even without an end-goal the journey can be valid...
xxx"I’m sure you know the answer yourself by now…. 
I’m not as “active” here of late and have been keeping my head down a bit, but I like many others I’m sure, will miss you here, and your contribution, and look forward to seeing you back here again when the time is right… xx | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay
go on then...
Ok,, here we go,, ready? Please stay,, i will be heartbroken, your the only reason i come here, you lift my heart , make me see whats good in the world, the sky, sunsets, birds chirping ,, the sound of laughter,, you fulfill me !! If you go i dont know what i will do,, i might end up shaggin that pompous molly one, do you really want that ?? Please stay ,, we are one spirit "No need to worry about that  | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?
Basically your seeking bit of attention yeah ? And want people to tell you how great you are and to please stay "It sounds like someone else is seeking the attention . It’s difficult to properly leave IMO once you’ve discovered this world. Quite apart from the ‘hole getting’ stuff there is all sorts of voyeurism , social , and dopamine hits type reasons to keep coming back . Life outside would have to be properly physically and socially exciting with all sorts of wows and affirmations. I lasted 7 months last year but as I hadn’t deleted my profile it was so so easy to eventually come back in . | |||
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I know we have the option to hide your profile but I wish fab had the option to self lock yourself out for a given time.Give yourself the time you need away without having to delete your profile.
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"When the fun stops...STOP" this!! sometimes you get it so right, other times.... | |||
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"When the fun stops...STOP" The fun stopped for me ages ago, I still want the fun though, that's why I'm still here searching for it. | |||
"When the fun stops...STOP The fun stopped for me ages ago, I still want the fun though, that's why I'm still here searching for it. " Stay away from Fury and you will be fine | |||
"When the fun stops...STOP The fun stopped for me ages ago, I still want the fun though, that's why I'm still here searching for it. " I believe that’s called chasing the dragon | |||
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"In fairness...The clash had better songs than that one " Rock the casbah is better I think | |||
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"Lot lads here trying get u stay,, any agendas i wonder lol "Are lot lads like lot lizards? | |||
"Been here nearly a year, which I had given myself as my time here. I dont have a bucket list, I dont go perving on fellas, or to the chat rooms. And tbh too much sex talk bores me ... i like chatting and meeting people, and the flirting is fun but sex isnt my primary goal here now.
So now im having that moment that all Fabbers go through... should i stay or should i go?"In the words of Shakespeare’s sister “Staaaaay” | |||
