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Do you get dissappointed when you see the face pic ?
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"It happens. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. " Exactly. It's happened when I've seen guys faces and visa versa as well it's no big deal. | |||
"But seemingly according to the Karens and pc crowd we not allowed ‘ not to attracted’ ???????" Why do you care what other people think? No one is forcing you to do anything. If you're not into someone then just move on. | |||
"It happens. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. Exactly. It's happened when I've seen guys faces and visa versa as well it's no big deal. " | |||
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"It happens. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. Exactly. It's happened when I've seen guys faces and visa versa as well it's no big deal. " Absolutely,, what someone thinks of your looks is their business,, lets face it, you wouldnt want to be the sensitive type here,, maybe i should upload 55 pics ,, ermm | |||
"Have you ever heard of the word superficial ? " You just posted the perfect reply to your own thread...that's impressive  | |||
"Of course. It's always disappointing when you end up not being physically attracted to someone you were mentally attracted to. I don't care if that makes me shallow or superficial. I'm not going to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to just because someone else thinks I should." Tut tut,, thats not allowed lol,, sure its about the inner beauty  | |||
"It happens. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. Exactly. It's happened when I've seen guys faces and visa versa as well it's no big deal. Absolutely,, what someone thinks of your looks is their business,, lets face it, you wouldnt want to be the sensitive type here,, maybe i should upload 55 pics ,, ermm " It's your profile do whatever you want with it. | |||
"Have you ever heard of the word superficial ? You just posted the perfect reply to your own thread...that's impressive "Its called irony  | |||
"Have you ever heard of the word superficial ? You just posted the perfect reply to your own thread...that's impressive
Its called irony "In your endo | |||
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"But seemingly according to the Karens and pc crowd we not allowed ‘ not to attracted’ ??????? Why do you care what other people think? No one is forcing you to do anything. If you're not into someone then just move on." Its a forum,, i’m asking opinions ,, setting the tone,, its called discussing,, if you dont want them off with ya | |||
"Have you ever heard of the word superficial ? You just posted the perfect reply to your own thread...that's impressive
Its called irony
In your endo "True lol | |||
"To prevent disappointment I supply a brown paper bag at my meets . I'm a BOBFOC Body off Baywatch Face off Crimewatch " I find the Tesco brown bags the best,, can re use time and time again,, and jeez i need plenty brown bags lol | |||
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"I've been surprised at times. I've had this image I suppose in my head and then ya see the pic and it's like huh, I wasn't expecting that. But I have yet to be disappointed "Thats great ,, youve no type | |||
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"c'est la vie...beauty is only skin deep though" It can take 20 mins to get to the skin sometimes with all the make up though, and thats just the guys | |||
"Beer goggles are also a good idea " I know we will be friends lol | |||
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"I'm lush I look in the mirror 5 times a day and go "hell yea!! Hardy you da man" "Thats a lie hardy. Its at least 6 times | |||
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"I'm lush I look in the mirror 5 times a day and go "hell yea!! Hardy you da man"
Thats a lie hardy. Its at least 6 times"I'd hedge my bets it's more like 10 times | |||
"I've been surprised at times. I've had this image I suppose in my head and then ya see the pic and it's like huh, I wasn't expecting that. But I have yet to be disappointed
Thats great ,, youve no type"I don't see how what I've said says I have no type. I just message the women that I am attracted to. But I'd be interested in understanding how you came to your conclusion | |||
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"I've had a few coffe meets and then nothing so I guess it works both ways bit I don't dwell on it as I always say I don't chase I replace.." Ok…….. | |||
"In answer to your original question, yes. Or maybe more accurately they're not what I had envisaged. I'm sure the reverse has also been true. With regards to your other statement, I've yet to meet anyone (whether they be called Karen or not) who has said we must sleep with anyone we're not attracted to. " Your obviously not married lol | |||
"In answer to your original question, yes. Or maybe more accurately they're not what I had envisaged. I'm sure the reverse has also been true. With regards to your other statement, I've yet to meet anyone (whether they be called Karen or not) who has said we must sleep with anyone we're not attracted to. Your obviously not married lol" What has that got to do with the price of fish? | |||
"I've had this happens from both points and both ways I still went out and enjoyed the company of the women I was with. If you're here for more than just sex(for me I am interested in the social side also) then the looks will be less important and your ego won't be as hurt when you're not it too. Enjoy the trip I say." Very well said ,, without the social aspect its just like dogs sniffin holes | |||
"I've been surprised at times. I've had this image I suppose in my head and then ya see the pic and it's like huh, I wasn't expecting that. But I have yet to be disappointed
Thats great ,, youve no type
I don't see how what I've said says I have no type. I just message the women that I am attracted to. But I'd be interested in understanding how you came to your conclusion"Just stirrin the pot is all ,,  | |||
"Anyone speak Trollish? " That hurt ,, | |||
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"Yes and I'm sure plenty of guys have thought the same when they have seen my face and I definitely know one who ran for the hills when we met for coffee. But that's life we all have our likes and dislikes. " EXACTLY ,, and i can tell you ive had women jump out 5 th floor windows when theyve seen my mug,, but i always finished ther drink off, priorities | |||
"In answer to your original question, yes. Or maybe more accurately they're not what I had envisaged. I'm sure the reverse has also been true. With regards to your other statement, I've yet to meet anyone (whether they be called Karen or not) who has said we must sleep with anyone we're not attracted to. Your obviously not married lol What has that got to do with the price of fish?" Lol | |||
"I've had this happens from both points and both ways I still went out and enjoyed the company of the women I was with. If you're here for more than just sex(for me I am interested in the social side also) then the looks will be less important and your ego won't be as hurt when you're not it too. Enjoy the trip I say. Very well said ,, without the social aspect its just like dogs sniffin holes" Dead right and thats what makes this place poison at times. So many not interested in swinging but just to get their hole!! Thats ok I suppose but it does impact negatively on thos actually interested in the "lifestyle". | |||
"Sure I get disappointed just looking at my own face in the mirror shaving every morning ffs" I bought my first full length mirror this year | |||
"I've had this happens from both points and both ways I still went out and enjoyed the company of the women I was with. If you're here for more than just sex(for me I am interested in the social side also) then the looks will be less important and your ego won't be as hurt when you're not it too. Enjoy the trip I say. Very well said ,, without the social aspect its just like dogs sniffin holes Dead right and thats what makes this place poison at times. So many not interested in swinging but just to get their hole!! Thats ok I suppose but it does impact negatively on thos actually interested in the "lifestyle"." Sounds like you get turned down alot | |||
 just think of that when yas are slapping on the war paint in the morning  | |||
"Girls natural beauty is like the northern lights has to be looked at just think of that when yas are slapping on the war paint in the morning "Fecking hell Hardy you wouldn't be saying that if you saw me first thing in the morning it's more warning lights than northern lights | |||
"I've had this happens from both points and both ways I still went out and enjoyed the company of the women I was with. If you're here for more than just sex(for me I am interested in the social side also) then the looks will be less important and your ego won't be as hurt when you're not it too. Enjoy the trip I say. Very well said ,, without the social aspect its just like dogs sniffin holes Dead right and thats what makes this place poison at times. So many not interested in swinging but just to get their hole!! Thats ok I suppose but it does impact negatively on thos actually interested in the "lifestyle". Sounds like you get turned down alot " I was alluding to the ladies who being impacted negatively tbh. Alot sound very pissed off with us single lads.
I'm happy with my experience so far, otherwise I wouldn't still be here. | |||
"Girls natural beauty is like the northern lights has to be looked at just think of that when yas are slapping on the war paint in the morning "I have a highlighter palette thats based on the northern lights so feck outa here with that natural beauty talk. They gonna see me from feckin space yo | |||
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"I've had this happens from both points and both ways I still went out and enjoyed the company of the women I was with. If you're here for more than just sex(for me I am interested in the social side also) then the looks will be less important and your ego won't be as hurt when you're not it too. Enjoy the trip I say. Always,, never ever ever have had a Meet,, ugly as pigs arse, but surely there must be one desperate woman out there lol Very well said ,, without the social aspect its just like dogs sniffin holes Dead right and thats what makes this place poison at times. So many not interested in swinging but just to get their hole!! Thats ok I suppose but it does impact negatively on thos actually interested in the "lifestyle". Sounds like you get turned down alot " | |||
"Girls natural beauty is like the northern lights has to be looked at just think of that when yas are slapping on the war paint in the morning
Fecking hell Hardy you wouldn't be saying that if you saw me first thing in the morning it's more warning lights than northern lights "Lol, your not supposed to have s sense of humour about yhis very serious deep topic | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality " I can see that ..  | |||
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"I rely entirely on my personality I can see that .. " | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality I can see that .. " | |||
"Sure I get disappointed just looking at my own face in the mirror shaving every morning ffs I bought my first full length mirror this year " Me to,, but when i unwrapped it and put on floor it walked back to the shop,, | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality " I rely entirely on my ass | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass "Works for me | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass "I have an arse for a personality tbf whereas your ass has a personality of its own | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass
I have an arse for a personality tbf whereas your ass has a personality of its own "Yeah, best not go there | |||
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"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass "It is a great ass in fairness!!  | |||
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"Of course. It's always disappointing when you end up not being physically attracted to someone you were mentally attracted to. I don't care if that makes me shallow or superficial. I'm not going to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to just because someone else thinks I should." It is a drop isnt it. and hard to 'fess up to as well  | |||
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"This is simple...Ass up, Face down, solved "I actually have that written on undies | |||
"Had a few not my type messages! God I'm an ugly b*****d lol" Had a few block me after a face pic……I win | |||
"Of course. It's always disappointing when you end up not being physically attracted to someone you were mentally attracted to. I don't care if that makes me shallow or superficial. I'm not going to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to just because someone else thinks I should. It is a drop isnt it. and hard to 'fess up to as well "Sometimes i think an instant face pic is a good idea. You can get quite into a chat and start planning and then meh.... balloon deflates.... | |||
"Of course. It's always disappointing when you end up not being physically attracted to someone you were mentally attracted to. I don't care if that makes me shallow or superficial. I'm not going to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to just because someone else thinks I should. It is a drop isnt it. and hard to 'fess up to as well
Sometimes i think an instant face pic is a good idea.
You can get quite into a chat and start planning and then meh.... balloon deflates...."Balloon - is that what you call it  | |||
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"We never ask for face pics as they say nothing about attitude, confidence or personality, all the things that make a person attractive. Mrs "Being totally honest though, they should be 'okay' looking too because a face like a slapped arse won't do it for me regardless of personality or size of appendage  | |||
"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass
It is a great ass in fairness!! "Thank you kindly - it's served me well for decades | |||
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"I've only met a few without a face pic first... that's why I have face pics so people know what they are getting before they message me.. I am not one bit vien but I have to be attraced to the person " Think this is a pretty fair assessment. There needs to be mutual attraction as well as a connection through banter realistically. Easier to be told ur not for me when you send a face pic on here than have an awkward getaway in person so it mostly makes sense to share one for both parties. The odd time it maybe worth a gamble without a face pic if ur feeling it tho | |||
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"I rely entirely on my personality I rely entirely on my ass "Lol,, a good attribute to have no doubt | |||
"I thought it's all about chemistry and personality on here.... "Of course it is ,,,, | |||
"We never ask for face pics as they say nothing about attitude, confidence or personality, all the things that make a person attractive. Mrs "Saying all the right things there ,, | |||
"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic " But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, | |||
"I've only met a few without a face pic first... that's why I have face pics so people know what they are getting before they message me.. I am not one bit vien but I have to be attraced to the person " Obviously some people cannot show their faces publicly, for different reasons, me personally is that i wud never get a reply cause i’m puck ugly | |||
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"Never happened to me, nobody could not like my face, impossible. Its a curse, men and women doing a double take whenever I walk down the street. Dead serious. Not a moments peace. I'd swap it for a completely ripped body "Give me a look then | |||
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"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,," Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh | |||
"Never happened to me, nobody could not like my face, impossible. Its a curse, men and women doing a double take whenever I walk down the street. Dead serious. Not a moments peace. I'd swap it for a completely ripped body "Love the confidence | |||
"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh " Well i used to be a martyr for the 3 am shift tbh,, in my younger days obviously lol,, that time night, full as an egg n hornitis,, lets say i wasnt to choosey ,, and neither were they | |||
"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh " I don’t think you can interpret what I said in terms of mantelpieces and holes . A very reductive summary | |||
"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh I don’t think you can interpret what I said in terms of mantelpieces and holes . A very reductive summary " Reductive ,, ok,, i just need google that before i reply,, but i’m sure its very intelligent,, which i am def not,, your the MAN | |||
"But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh I don’t think you can interpret what I said in terms of mantelpieces and holes . A very reductive summary " Ah i wasnt summarising your post at all, just adfing to tbe last bit They were attitudes some of my friends would have had back in the freer days | |||
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"Tbh if you fancy their body and their attitude from the pics and bio and you get on well from the chat, the face would have to be catastrophic for it to be a deal breaker imo Perhaps I am not super model esque enough to make very high demands in the face department , or perhaps I feel its difficult enough to be vetu attracted to someone and have it all Collapse based on a face pic But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh I don’t think you can interpret what I said in terms of mantelpieces and holes . A very reductive summary Reductive ,, ok,, i just need google that before i reply,, but i’m sure its very intelligent,, which i am def not,, your the MAN " ?? | |||
"But the reality is different,, if u dont find the person attractive physically ( including face) then very few will go there, ok there are some guys who once a woman has a wanny and a pulse will hop on,,and thats ok also if both parties want that,, Two holes and a heartbeat? Who cares about the mantlepiece when your poking the fire? Never worked for me tbh I don’t think you can interpret what I said in terms of mantelpieces and holes . A very reductive summary Ah i wasnt summarising your post at all, just adfing to tbe last bit They were attitudes some of my friends would have had back in the freer days" | |||
"Had a few not my type messages! God I'm an ugly b*****d lol" Same experience! | |||
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"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. " What!!?? Nobody has EVER asked for a face pic? Wow. | |||
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"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. " Actually I guess you have your _antra massage USP which is such a good selling point as that perhaps people don't ask. In my experience most sex meets will ask for facepics up front | |||
"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. Actually I guess you have your _antra massage USP which is such a good selling point as that perhaps people don't ask. In my experience most sex meets will ask for facepics up front" Well yippee yi yah | |||
"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. " Erotic intelligence ,, now theres one ,, interested in her whole persona ,,stimulating,, wow,, your a womans dream , you’ll ride her if she watches pornhub, has a personality ( whatever that is) , stimulating ( has a big vibrator) ,, tbh i look at a woman and if she is ‘ my type’ and if she a bit craic, if yes then i burst on | |||
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"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. Erotic intelligence ,, now theres one ,, interested in her whole persona ,,stimulating,, wow,, your a womans dream , you’ll ride her if she watches pornhub, has a personality ( whatever that is) , stimulating ( has a big vibrator) ,, tbh i look at a woman and if she is ‘ my type’ and if she a bit craic, if yes then i burst on "Why the need to insult people's replies? Does it make you feel better about yourself? It's quite tragic really | |||
"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. Erotic intelligence ,, now theres one ,, interested in her whole persona ,,stimulating,, wow,, your a womans dream , you’ll ride her if she watches pornhub, has a personality ( whatever that is) , stimulating ( has a big vibrator) ,, tbh i look at a woman and if she is ‘ my type’ and if she a bit craic, if yes then i burst on
Why the need to insult people's replies? Does it make you feel better about yourself?
It's quite tragic really "Tragic is not the word, i’m a pathetic human being, imagine not being serious about organised riding ,, and people who think they are somewhat ‘ cool’ regarding it,, there are no words to describe me ,, an utter moron | |||
"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. Erotic intelligence ,, now theres one ,, interested in her whole persona ,,stimulating,, wow,, your a womans dream , you’ll ride her if she watches pornhub, has a personality ( whatever that is) , stimulating ( has a big vibrator) ,, tbh i look at a woman and if she is ‘ my type’ and if she a bit craic, if yes then i burst on
Why the need to insult people's replies? Does it make you feel better about yourself?
It's quite tragic really
Tragic is not the word, i’m a pathetic human being, imagine not being serious about organised riding ,, and people who think they are somewhat ‘ cool’ regarding it,, there are no words to describe me ,, an utter moron"Ive seen worse | |||
"I never ask for a face pic. It doesn't matter what her appearance is like. I'm more interested in her whole persona. Is she interesting, stimulating, charming, does she have erotic intelligence? Nobody has ever asked me for a face pic. Erotic intelligence ,, now theres one ,, interested in her whole persona ,,stimulating,, wow,, your a womans dream , you’ll ride her if she watches pornhub, has a personality ( whatever that is) , stimulating ( has a big vibrator) ,, tbh i look at a woman and if she is ‘ my type’ and if she a bit craic, if yes then i burst on
Why the need to insult people's replies? Does it make you feel better about yourself?
It's quite tragic really
Tragic is not the word, i’m a pathetic human being, imagine not being serious about organised riding ,, and people who think they are somewhat ‘ cool’ regarding it,, there are no words to describe me ,, an utter moron
Ive seen worse "Lol | |||
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