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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Just for those that are unsure if you're reading this
My very first experience on here was a bi mmf and I kept it to myself
Always wondered how people would treat me if I said anything
I finally mentioned it one day on a thread and got a few positive remarks and actually a weight was lifted off my shoulders
No one has ever said anything negative to me about it
I know everyone holds back on a site like this ...it has to be done but be honest about your own sexuality...even for your own sake |
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It's actually getting to the stage where I'm beginning to just want to meet with bi guys find them alot more down to earth and trustworthy and aren't afraid to express their wants and desires and yes there is something very horny about watching 2 guys lol |
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"Just for those that are unsure if you're reading this
My very first experience on here was a bi mmf and I kept it to myself
Always wondered how people would treat me if I said anything
I finally mentioned it one day on a thread and got a few positive remarks and actually a weight was lifted off my shoulders
No one has ever said anything negative to me about it
I know everyone holds back on a site like this ...it has to be done but be honest about your own sexuality...even for your own sake "
Well said and good on you Bogm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for those that are unsure if you're reading this
My very first experience on here was a bi mmf and I kept it to myself
Always wondered how people would treat me if I said anything
I finally mentioned it one day on a thread and got a few positive remarks and actually a weight was lifted off my shoulders
No one has ever said anything negative to me about it
I know everyone holds back on a site like this ...it has to be done but be honest about your own sexuality...even for your own sake "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have far more respect for bi guys on here, at least they have the strength and conviction to be honest with people instead of hiding in the fab-straight continuum.
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Thanks from all us bi guys - it’s just so great being bi I find. |
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"I have far more respect for bi guys on here, at least they have the strength and conviction to be honest with people instead of hiding in the fab-straight continuum.
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So no respect for those who are genuinely straight but seem to have to justify that more and more recently? |
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There is no problem with females being bi and a lot are. Males being bi is more taboo. I find it liberating and from my experience in group play females love it either watching or joining in.Maybe initially I had a problem putting bi on my profile but not now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no problem with females being bi and a lot are. Males being bi is more taboo. I find it liberating and from my experience in group play females love it either watching or joining in.Maybe initially I had a problem putting bi on my profile but not now. "
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"So no respect for those who are genuinely straight but seem to have to justify that more and more recently?
Somebody, please think of the poor straight, white, middle-aged men.  "
Why bring colour and age into it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have straight on my profile but only get messages of men. Women don't even reply to messages on here."
Yep have had a lot of that over the years here unfortunately. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"So no respect for those who are genuinely straight but seem to have to justify that more and more recently?
Somebody, please think of the poor straight, white, middle-aged men. "
White lives matter never took off
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"I have straight on my profile but only get messages of men. Women don't even reply to messages on here.
Yep have had a lot of that over the years here unfortunately. "
Block the guys . If you are playing a quiz or something unblock then re block |
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"So no respect for those who are genuinely straight but seem to have to justify that more and more recently?
Somebody, please think of the poor straight, white, middle-aged men. "
Shit thing to say |
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"Why do guys who have Straight on their profile message me because I have Bisexual on mine. "
Why do bisexual and gay guys message me despite the fact I clearly state I'm straight on my profile.. Works both ways! |
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The delusion!
These allegedly straight men that message me I just ignore.
Once they have come to terms with their true sexuality, then they may get the time of day. But until then, I have no time for the foolishness and f*ckery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fully agree. I get a lot of straight guys messaging me because I am bi on my profile.your either straight or bi. You know so tick the box accordingly. "
Really I didn’t know that.
I thought hetero-flexible was another category but there is no “box” to tick for that. |
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Is it any different from women who literally change their profile depending on who they are chatting to? One day they are straight and the next bicurious and back again.
Sometimes fomo can be a big influence. |
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Want a laugh on a Monday
I had location switched o on my phone some time ago and was in Dublin
Think I got for or five mails from guys offering me bjobs
Most prob had straight on profile
And no am not bi just sayin was funny though |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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As a bi guy I have a very specific type and don’t meet with guys here on a 1:1.
I don’t use filters though. I don’t mind getting messages from blokes I have no interest in .
It balances sending messages which go nowhere which I did for ages .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have straight on my profile because its more true than bi. I've been sucked by guys before and have no problem with that and more in the right setting
I am not attracted to guys and have zero interest in sucking or being fucked. If I put bi on my profile people would assume I'd be into all of that. Its not the same as being bi as a woman. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Im bi and impossible to meet ladies on here even though im honest about what i am into  "
Not trying to be smart but I'd imagine it's nothing to do with it
Your profile is your shop window but your shutters are down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im bi and impossible to meet ladies on here even though im honest about what i am into
Not trying to be smart but I'd imagine it's nothing to do with it
Your profile is your shop window but your shutters are down "
in what way  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Im bi and impossible to meet ladies on here even though im honest about what i am into
Not trying to be smart but I'd imagine it's nothing to do with it
Your profile is your shop window but your shutters are down in what way "
Blank profile....most people wont even stop to look |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"Im bi and impossible to meet ladies on here even though im honest about what i am into "
Not enough are put off by it for it for it to become a huge deal , and for a small number it’s actually a plus |
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Bi guy here have it on my on my profile ,I can also play straight, just because now and and again I like cock, doesn't mean I'm going to jump on a guy if I met a couple unless that was their preference. 
I've had a couple of mmf meets and none of them ended up with me playing with the guy and it was thoroughly enjoying.
Now there are times I change my profile from bi to straight, because as someone earlier in the thread said it SEEMS bi guys (especially single bi guys  )aren't particularly welcome.
Disclaimer:I'm not saying everybody on here treats bi guys that way but some do. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"Bi guy here have it on my on my profile ,I can also play straight, just because now and and again I like cock, doesn't mean I'm going to jump on a guy if I met a couple unless that was their preference.
I've had a couple of mmf meets and none of them ended up with me playing with the guy and it was thoroughly enjoying.
Now there are times I change my profile from bi to straight, because as someone earlier in the thread said it SEEMS bi guys (especially single bi guys )aren't particularly welcome.
Disclaimer:I'm not saying everybody on here treats bi guys that way but some do."
Important to discuss this beforehand. Have had meets with straight guys present and very important to chat to avoid situations people are uncomfortable with |
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"Bi guy here have it on my on my profile ,I can also play straight, just because now and and again I like cock, doesn't mean I'm going to jump on a guy if I met a couple unless that was their preference.
I've had a couple of mmf meets and none of them ended up with me playing with the guy and it was thoroughly enjoying.
Now there are times I change my profile from bi to straight, because as someone earlier in the thread said it SEEMS bi guys (especially single bi guys )aren't particularly welcome.
Disclaimer:I'm not saying everybody on here treats bi guys that way but some do.
Important to discuss this beforehand. Have had meets with straight guys present and very important to chat to avoid situations people are uncomfortable with "
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do guys who have Straight on their profile message me because I have Bisexual on mine. "
Everyone is at a different place in their development of their own sexuality... it can be fluid sexuality for some in both genders...which is cool
I get messages like you have described from genuine guys who are curious and those who's attitude is any hole is a goal...
Usually bored males with nothing to offer anyone and are only passing through a or a phase treating it as a "sex site" forgetting that there is real people attached to a profile and ignorant to the disrespect they display..
..it can be hard to separate the genuine guy sometimes as everyone is on their best behaviour to catch ones attention...
Genuine people will always shine through.
Good topic and will always be one for discussion and debate
Happy Fabbing
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I admire the guys who have bi or curious on theirs, I get a lot of male from straight guys who want to suck my cock.
Would it not make more sense for the bi guys to say so and get more action then from bi guys as they'd know your bi rather than putting straight down.
It's 2021, it no longer bothers people if your straight/bi/trans etc It normal now and not something you should be hiding. Embrace it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a very considerate woman (with a dick  ), so I normally ask if a man wants a verification from me. Though if he doesn't, it is very unlikely we will meet again. "
I want a verification from you so Eileen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talking from personal experience.
Men are curious and especially when the horn hits any hot mouth would do and as such will go out and experiment. It's that age old saying.. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
I consider myself straight as I prefer women above men. I must admit I did play with 1 or 2 male singles in the past. Will I do it again? That depends on the situation. But it would not be my first choice..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do guys who have Straight on their profile message me because I have Bisexual on mine. "
There time wasters move on I get loads of them mostly married guys playing alone and living a fantesty out in there heads.esp when you mail them back and you get the notice your that your not what there looking for, I screenshot it along with being polite and send it to them they don't like it one bit. Some of them very abusive.. |
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?"
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex. "
I'd agree with that.
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex. "
Or the same sex |
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex.
Or the same sex "
That too lol. I need more tea |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex.
Or the same sex
That too lol. I need more tea"
Freudian slip ? |
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex.
Or the same sex
That too lol. I need more tea
Freudian slip ?"
No |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"is there any such thing as 100% straight, are we not all somewhat bi curious?
Theres plenty of women and men on here who have zero interest in playing in any shape or form with the opposite sex.
Or the same sex
That too lol. I need more tea
Freudian slip ?
No"
I wasn’t too sure where in Ireland Asgard was then I copped on |
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"Why do guys who have Straight on their profile message me because I have Bisexual on mine. "
And why do couples expect every woman on here to be bi  .. And to "go with the flow" for the sake of the guys even if they aren't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not bi but I'm hoping at some stage I'll have a mmf or be with a trans/cd and try something new. Should I enjoy it I'll openly announce my new preferences to bi if need be. In the meantime it's just something on the to do list. And just because someone has beer dosnt make them an alcoholic.
Unfortunately there are a lot of 'straight' guys on here that message me looking for different things but I'm guessing they're just not confident enough in their own sexuality to openly call themselves anything other than straight.
Just my 2 cents.
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"They think women won't meet them if they have bi on their profile
Do you think it's the majority of women on this that don't like bi guys "
You don't have to worry about the majority of women or men on here as you're never going to meet them all
Just look after yourself and find who you're looking for instead of waiting on them to find you |
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"Because bi men are often treated like shit on the soles of people's shoes whereas bi women are put on a pedestal "
Can’t say I have ever been treated like shit on this site for being bi. Quite the opposite. It’s one of the only sites you can actually meet people who enjoy bi guys.
As for the comments from people saying most women don’t like bi guys or won’t meet bi guys can’t say I’ve ever found that a problem Either. |
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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago
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"Because bi men are often treated like shit on the soles of people's shoes whereas bi women are put on a pedestal
Can’t say I have ever been treated like shit on this site for being bi. Quite the opposite. It’s one of the only sites you can actually meet people who enjoy bi guys.
As for the comments from people saying most women don’t like bi guys or won’t meet bi guys can’t say I’ve ever found that a problem Either. "
Maybe that's because you don't reside in Ireland |
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