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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Genuine question and looking for honest replies from women, men, couples. My man can last for an eternity before eventually cumming, is this normal, or am I a lucky woman. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Being able to delay ejaculation is a skill that most men aspire to; but the average time from penetration to cumming is usually in minutes, single figures.
A man can train himself to be a slow cummer, but it reqires skill and patence.
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"Genuine question and looking for honest replies from women, men, couples. My man can last for an eternity before eventually cumming, is this normal, or am I a lucky woman."
I think it comes (no pun intended) with age ... What u used to do all night, now takes all night  |
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I used be average (whatever that is) but now (after a circumsision 10 years ago, it now (due to a certain loss of sensitivity) can take me ages to achieve orgasm, not sure if it's a blessing or a curse!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling. |
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling. "
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session. |
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session. "
Just as well |
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
Just as well "
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You’re lucky if that is what you like.
I have to say I love making a man cum, I love to see his pleasure, hear him, feel him it’s a great turn on…
I love to be able to make a man lose control and give in to the pleasure… if he can edge that’s great but only if he shows me his pleasure…
and if he can come more than once even better 
I can cum and cum but if he lasts forever and come at the end of the night… meh I’m afraid that’s not for me… |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session. "
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session. "
Dear Lord Redhott you are giving me impure thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too. "
But id want him to. I get as much pleasure in experiencing that as I would myself having an orgasm. Id much prefer several shorter sessions where we both had an orgasm than him lasting 6 hours without cumming. Just my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
Dear Lord Redhott you are giving me impure thoughts "
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too.
But id want him to. I get as much pleasure in experiencing that as I would myself having an orgasm. Id much prefer several shorter sessions where we both had an orgasm than him lasting 6 hours without cumming. Just my preference. "
That’s fair enough . Quick recoverers do have an advantage and it’s not something slower recoverers can work on i don’t think . Hence they may prefer a staying power type approach
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too.
But id want him to. I get as much pleasure in experiencing that as I would myself having an orgasm. Id much prefer several shorter sessions where we both had an orgasm than him lasting 6 hours without cumming. Just my preference. "
That's ideal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too.
But id want him to. I get as much pleasure in experiencing that as I would myself having an orgasm. Id much prefer several shorter sessions where we both had an orgasm than him lasting 6 hours without cumming. Just my preference.
That’s fair enough . Quick recoverers do have an advantage and it’s not something slower recoverers can work on i don’t think . Hence they may prefer a staying power type approach
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"I think if you set out to ensure that the lady is looked after first, then the mind and the body will normally wait. Yes, we have all had the straight in the door, bodice ripping sessions, where neither can wait and that is human nature. Under normal circumstances bringing the lady to her special place first is just a magical and sensual feeling.
Yep, sometimes you just cant beat a fast and furious cant hold back session.
But it’s possible to have fast and furious and not cum too.
But id want him to. I get as much pleasure in experiencing that as I would myself having an orgasm. Id much prefer several shorter sessions where we both had an orgasm than him lasting 6 hours without cumming. Just my preference. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used be average (whatever that is) but now (after a circumsision 10 years ago, it now (due to a certain loss of sensitivity) can take me ages to achieve orgasm, not sure if it's a blessing or a curse!!"
Same here. Circumcision in my late 20s helped me last longer...a good thing I found! |
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Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
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I'm more concerned with the number of people with tick lists and lists of priorities such as who cums first or that it's all about the woman's pleasure.
Chill out lads, stop making everything mathematical or looking at the stopwatch and you might be surprised how enjoyable it becomes. |
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"Genuine question and looking for honest replies from women, men, couples. My man can last for an eternity before eventually cumming, is this normal, or am I a lucky woman."
That depends on what you are looking for I guess. For us there is definitely such a thing as too long. If you're both into long sessions then you're in luck. |
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
I'm more concerned with the number of people with tick lists and lists of priorities such as who cums first or that it's all about the woman's pleasure.
Chill out lads, stop making everything mathematical or looking at the stopwatch and you might be surprised how enjoyable it becomes. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s all about enjoying pleasuring other and enjoying being pleasured by others than worrying about am I going to cum to early sex is fun it’s the best feeling in the world to be pleasured and to hear so as you pleasure them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Genuine question and looking for honest replies from women, men, couples. My man can last for an eternity before eventually cumming, is this normal, or am I a lucky woman."
After reading the replies, it seems all ppl are different, we do it in all positions possible, and great mutual oral before, we actually have sex, I do have few orgasms, and he can go on and on, without cumming, and when exhausted from sex, he finishes by hand, so I guess I'm lucky, definitely not complaining |
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By *ukahnMan
over a year ago
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Ya alot of guys as they get older can last longer, it's the practice ?
I for one can last a fairly decent amount of time but do certain things or certain positions and it will make sure I don't last much longer. ?? ?? ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need a lots and lots of stimulation, it usually takes me several hours of hot n heavy passionate sex before I am ready to cum. Funny story- I was enjoying a fun and passionate session with one of my lovely fwbs a few weeks ago, and after about five hours she exclaimed "I just want to go home, can you please hurry up finish for fluck sake" |
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By *ussie MMan
over a year ago
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"You’re lucky if that is what you like.
I have to say I love making a man cum, I love to see his pleasure, hear him, feel him it’s a great turn on…
I love to be able to make a man lose control and give in to the pleasure… if he can edge that’s great but only if he shows me his pleasure…
and if he can come more than once even better
I can cum and cum but if he lasts forever and come at the end of the night… meh I’m afraid that’s not for me…"
Isn't it better being able to cum several times in a session.
I always cum quickly the first time but I'm ready for section again about 5 minutes
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Isn't it better being able to cum several times in a session.
I always cum quickly the first time but I'm ready for section again about 5 minutes
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Yes imo!
But the refractory period is a bit longer now than when i was younger  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
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Do you really think a man can fuck for ages if he's not turned on enough? I'd say the cock goes limpy rather sooner than later like your theory. |
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"You’re lucky if that is what you like.
I have to say I love making a man cum, I love to see his pleasure, hear him, feel him it’s a great turn on…
I love to be able to make a man lose control and give in to the pleasure… if he can edge that’s great but only if he shows me his pleasure…
and if he can come more than once even better
I can cum and cum but if he lasts forever and come at the end of the night… meh I’m afraid that’s not for me…"
I'm with you on this.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
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There's a lot documented on this. I watched and heard two banging away for well over an hr and neither came at all.
I'm guessing there were misplaced expectations, which is also another consideration in all of this.
That's why imo it's better to get to know the other first. There are times when a quickie is all that's needed.
Maybe another thing is for many guys the next time is not as certain than for ladies so the guys got to make it last |
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
Do you really think a man can fuck for ages if he's not turned on enough? I'd say the cock goes limpy rather sooner than later like your theory."
It's possible. For a certain length of time anyway. And maybe if on viagra the cock is hard but the brain isn't turned on. The cock acts on signals from the brain. Also, if you've cum already maybe following times will be longer. This usually goes for me anyway |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
Do you really think a man can fuck for ages if he's not turned on enough? I'd say the cock goes limpy rather sooner than later like your theory.
It's possible. For a certain length of time anyway. And maybe if on viagra the cock is hard but the brain isn't turned on. The cock acts on signals from the brain. Also, if you've cum already maybe following times will be longer. This usually goes for me anyway "
Ya well if you're on viagra different story. But lack of arousal and/or attraction normally results in deflation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re lucky if that is what you like.
I have to say I love making a man cum, I love to see his pleasure, hear him, feel him it’s a great turn on…
I love to be able to make a man lose control and give in to the pleasure… if he can edge that’s great but only if he shows me his pleasure…
and if he can come more than once even better
I can cum and cum but if he lasts forever and come at the end of the night… meh I’m afraid that’s not for me…
I'm with you on this.. "
Me too. I love a good session but penetrative sex for hours on end does very little for me. |
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
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A big factor which is often overlooked - or perhaps rarely discussed - is the prevalence of taking SSRIs. That can seriously inhibit being able to finish, whether you're a man or a woman, no matter how turned on you are. As well as being incredibly frustrating, it can also be difficult to talk about, especially for many men. |
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
A big factor which is often overlooked - or perhaps rarely discussed - is the prevalence of taking SSRIs. That can seriously inhibit being able to finish, whether you're a man or a woman, no matter how turned on you are. As well as being incredibly frustrating, it can also be difficult to talk about, especially for many men. "
I was on them for a while a couple years back and was extremely difficult to finish but made for some extended sessions |
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"Anyone wonder something that could be one obvious reason...that some guys are just not turned on enough or into the partner as much as they might think. Would they have the same staying power with a new partner or top hottie? The theory seems to be always overlooked when this is discussed. All very plausible.
A big factor which is often overlooked - or perhaps rarely discussed - is the prevalence of taking SSRIs. That can seriously inhibit being able to finish, whether you're a man or a woman, no matter how turned on you are. As well as being incredibly frustrating, it can also be difficult to talk about, especially for many men.
I was on them for a while a couple years back and was extremely difficult to finish but made for some extended sessions "
I remember for the first couple of months using them I (Mrs) couldn't have cum if you paid me. Dear God I was nearly up the walls. Then it gradually changed. I didn't have one big enormous orgasm but lots and lots and lots of more gentle ones, which over the past couple of years have increased in intensity. I kinda like the sweet spot I'm at now Obviously I'm not a man but we've both enjoyed the unexpected benefits |
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A big factor which is often overlooked - or perhaps rarely discussed - is the prevalence of taking SSRIs. That can seriously inhibit being able to finish, whether you're a man or a woman, no matter how turned on you are. As well as being incredibly frustrating, it can also be difficult to talk about, especially for many men. "
I take one currently and it does change things pretty drastically.
You do become a little accustomed to it after a while though. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"You’re lucky if that is what you like.
I have to say I love making a man cum, I love to see his pleasure, hear him, feel him it’s a great turn on…
I love to be able to make a man lose control and give in to the pleasure… if he can edge that’s great but only if he shows me his pleasure…
and if he can come more than once even better
I can cum and cum but if he lasts forever and come at the end of the night… meh I’m afraid that’s not for me…
I'm with you on this..
Me too. I love a good session but penetrative sex for hours on end does very little for me. "
The same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve always wondered about this topic myself so it’s an interesting thread to read.. my own experiences are a mixture but would have experience with both not lasting long and thankfully recovering in a reasonably quick time.. and I’ve also went past the point of being able to cum.. mostly it’s down to a few factors .. being relaxed and comfortable but staying power or stamina I think is something that is learnt to control how excited you get.. probably sounding a little like self promotion but I think the older I’ve got the more in control I am.. |
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It's a complex topic because there are any number of causes for men taking longer or shorter to orgasm. Age and health pay a big factor. Obviously medication can have an effect. Tiredness and stress effects it. How attracted you are to your partner and their skill levels also make a big difference. Drugs or alcohol obviously too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Premature ejaculation- it only becomes complicated when you over think it. Some guys are just ultra sensitive and have a hair trigger, while some of us have a very long fuse need many hours of stimulation before detonation |
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"Premature ejaculation- it only becomes complicated when you over think it. Some guys are just ultra sensitive and have a hair trigger, while some of us have a very long fuse need many hours of stimulation before detonation "
True for some people. For others it's not so easy. |
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Mrs here it's my worst nightmare a long goer since I can cum with a durty thought
But I can understand the pressure men are under to put on a good experience but that's what fingers and a tongue are made for |
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"Mrs here it's my worst nightmare a long goer since I can cum with a durty thought
But I can understand the pressure men are under to put on a good experience but that's what fingers and a tongue are made for "
I thought I was the only one . My heart sinks at the thought of an all nighter |
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I'd be more the quick recoverer than the big long sessions, though as I'm getting older the recovery isn't quite as quick!
For a longer session, is it not a lot about managing yourself? i.e. not letting yourself get to the point of no return either by slowing down, changing positions/doing something different or thinking of something non-sexy for a bit |
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