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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has you all ready may know getting verified is probably key for single guys on here.
Any fabbers I chat to basically tell me sorry no verification no meet. 
Any cpls or single females want to possibly chat to me video call or how ever to help me get verified.
Ant help greatly appreciated
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Honestly don’t get hung up on I’m not verified, and basically wanting to meet anyone just to get the green tick. Have chats and fun on the forums interact with people and it will happen"
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The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol magnet that little tick it’s a no win situation you either don’t have one, haven’t had one in a long time or you have too many  "
Need the healthy balance.
Its like applying for a job sometime on this site lol. Might just get cpls and females to send me an application form, hopefully get shortlisted for a interview lol |
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"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents."
coming from a single woman’s point I agree but, who’s to say that a woman can banish someone who really hasn’t done anything. Been on this site a time and have heard of many things certain people was supposed to have done turned out that person was innocent….. so I don’t think that system would work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents."
This guy is what fab is all about, don't pass him by, with that glint in his eye...not to be missed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a thread 'help a fabber out" where you can post and say where you are to see can someone help with a veri. A social coffee/ chat.
One tip about profile pics your single with a pic of a female, do you have permission to post that pic,( obviously nothing recognisable in pic but it does turn women off ) and the whole pic/job thing no need to explain why no face pics on profile we all have our reasons |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday."
Sure all the women will come running once they smell the cake .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Sure all the women will come running once they smell the cake .... "
There's cake woohoo |
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"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents.coming from a single woman’s point I agree but, who’s to say that a woman can banish someone who really hasn’t done anything. Been on this site a time and have heard of many things certain people was supposed to have done turned out that person was innocent….. so I don’t think that system would work. "
Yep I agree that it wouldn't be a perfect system but surely there must be a way to makes veris more practical and factual. |
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday."
Can I come along just for the stories and the laughs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Sure all the women will come running once they smell the cake .... "
But its unverified only cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Can I come along just for the stories and the laughs "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday."
Yes boy. Sounds like a great night out |
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Can I come along just for the stories and the laughs
I'll have to ask the lads "
I'll buy the cake |
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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago
just about northside |
"Honestly don’t get hung up on I’m not verified, and basically wanting to meet anyone just to get the green tick. Have chats and fun on the forums interact with people and it will happen"
Top advice there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Can I come along just for the stories and the laughs
I'll have to ask the lads
I'll buy the cake "
OK deal but if your found out I didn't know about it |
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"I'm starting a fab gang for the unverified. we will get together on Thursday nights and share tales of rejection there will be beverages and cakes. After that we will send out loads of one liner msgs and dick pics so we have more tales for the following thursday.
Can I come along just for the stories and the laughs
I'll have to ask the lads
I'll buy the cake
OK deal but if your found out I didn't know about it"
I won't say a word  |
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I heard there'd be punch and pie?!
Tbh - I don't see the big hoohah about meet veris for men! There aren't too many women pretending to be guys from what I can gather, so it's only women I get particular about it with. No excuse for not being photo veri'd mind you...
Clubs want them because there's a huge issue with single men not turning up, but otherwise??? Doesn't bother me in the slightest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I heard there'd be punch and pie?!
Tbh - I don't see the big hoohah about meet veris for men! There aren't too many women pretending to be guys from what I can gather, so it's only women I get particular about it with. No excuse for not being photo veri'd mind you...
Clubs want them because there's a huge issue with single men not turning up, but otherwise??? Doesn't bother me in the slightest."
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By *erticalMan
over a year ago
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Hang out a bit in the chat zoom and just be yourself fella its a good way to meet People and might help things move along, Lack of the green tick didn't wold me back, and out of the blue i came across a lady i met years ago in the chat room only last week. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents."
You can have your 2 cents back there are a fair few female crazies on here as well.
The veri system is as good as it can be granted its as usefulas tits on a bull, having to show them would lead to chaos.
An example,,,,, I can leave a veri for you right now and preech that you are a fruitcake with a limp one eye and a crusty cock.
Would you show that? |
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"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents.
You can have your 2 cents back there are a fair few female crazies on here as well.
The veri system is as good as it can be granted its as usefulas tits on a bull, having to show them would lead to chaos.
An example,,,,, I can leave a veri for you right now and preech that you are a fruitcake with a limp one eye and a crusty cock.
Would you show that?"
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"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents."
Wtf?
If someone is dangerous you contact the gardaí, r*pe crisis centre, etc.
Not leave cryptic messages on here.
Also, anyone is capable of causing harm. |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
I don't really pay much attention to veris, I've yet to read a bad one! I don't even display most of mine as one poster said if you have to many you are also judged! damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Once he is a male then il take a chance and make up my own mind.. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"The whole veri system on here is flawed anyway. If a woman meets a guy and he's a complete dickhead she can't write that because it's down to him to let it be shown. So you'll only ever see positive veris.
Personally I think that women on here should have their own veri system to alert others that a guy may be someone who could be dangerous. The way things are these days it's a certainty that there are guys on here that are looking for women to meet and not in a good way.
I may sound dramatic but it's the way the world is. Women should have a way to protect each other from the predators that are without doubt trawling this site.
My 2cents.coming from a single woman’s point I agree but, who’s to say that a woman can banish someone who really hasn’t done anything. Been on this site a time and have heard of many things certain people was supposed to have done turned out that person was innocent….. so I don’t think that system would work. "
Exactly this |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I don't really pay much attention to veris, I've yet to read a bad one! I don't even display most of mine as one poster said if you have to many you are also judged! damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Once he is a male then il take a chance and make up my own mind.. "
Yep that's the best way to do it |
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You can have your 2 cents back there are a fair few female crazies on here as well.
The veri system is as good as it can be granted its as usefulas tits on a bull, having to show them would lead to chaos.
An example,,,,, I can leave a veri for you right now and preech that you are a fruitcake with a limp one eye and a crusty cock.
Would you show that?"
Woman Crazies?
Yeah, the news is full of stories of guys getting kidn@pped, r@ped and murdered.
Join the real world pal. |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"I don't really pay much attention to veris, I've yet to read a bad one! I don't even display most of mine as one poster said if you have to many you are also judged! damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Once he is a male then il take a chance and make up my own mind..
Yep that's the best way to do it "
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"We've talked to women who complained that a guy was rough and frightened her in a meet yet still gave him a good vert so much for looking out for other ladies "
Exactly, veris are nonsense. Absolutely meaningless.
It'll change to a more effective safe system once Fab ends up on the news when a user turns up murdered. Typical corporate response reacting when it's too late.
If anyone thinks I'm being dramatic Tinder have had several female members murdered by guys they met on the site. There was even that poor girl that was tricked by her ex with a fake profile and she went to meet the 'fake' guy and was murdered in a hotel in Tallaght.
I suspect this type of site has more predators than Tinder but the women here are much smarter and clued in thankfully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've talked to women who complained that a guy was rough and frightened her in a meet yet still gave him a good vert so much for looking out for other ladies
Exactly, veris are nonsense. Absolutely meaningless.
It'll change to a more effective safe system once Fab ends up on the news when a user turns up murdered. Typical corporate response reacting when it's too late.
If anyone thinks I'm being dramatic Tinder have had several female members murdered by guys they met on the site. There was even that poor girl that was tricked by her ex with a fake profile and she went to meet the 'fake' guy and was murdered in a hotel in Tallaght.
I suspect this type of site has more predators than Tinder but the women here are much smarter and clued in thankfully. "
I honestly think some women have been murdered from here too...It was just never revealed or known by anyone that they were a fab member. Women still go missing regularly & it isn't broadcast in the news media.
Omg I didn't know about that case in Tallaght. May she rest in peace. But I do know a guy who's Aunty was murdered by a guy she met on POF... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course there are predators on this site. People like that will always be attracted to anonymous means of meeting people
And yes the veri system doesn't work to protect against it.
However this site is far safer than something like tinder if people use all the available tools here.
On tinder for example you have no way to speak to other people ans get a feel for situations, ask advice and meet in groups in social settings.
Meeting strangers for sex is a high risk behaviour all people can do it mitigate those risks of they choose to partake.
The veri system is better than nothing but a single green tick isn't a green means go situation and shouldn't be treated as such |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really pay much attention to veris, I've yet to read a bad one! I don't even display most of mine as one poster said if you have to many you are also judged! damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Once he is a male then il take a chance and make up my own mind.. "
Totally agree. |
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"Of course there are predators on this site. People like that will always be attracted to anonymous means of meeting people
And yes the veri system doesn't work to protect against it.
However this site is far safer than something like tinder if people use all the available tools here.
On tinder for example you have no way to speak to other people ans get a feel for situations, ask advice and meet in groups in social settings.
Meeting strangers for sex is a high risk behaviour all people can do it mitigate those risks of they choose to partake.
The veri system is better than nothing but a single green tick isn't a green means go situation and shouldn't be treated as such "
Exactly this
Not to mention most of the creeps have multiple profiles and just verify themselves. |
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"We've talked to women who complained that a guy was rough and frightened her in a meet yet still gave him a good vert so much for looking out for other ladies
Exactly, veris are nonsense. Absolutely meaningless.
It'll change to a more effective safe system once Fab ends up on the news when a user turns up murdered. Typical corporate response reacting when it's too late.
If anyone thinks I'm being dramatic Tinder have had several female members murdered by guys they met on the site. There was even that poor girl that was tricked by her ex with a fake profile and she went to meet the 'fake' guy and was murdered in a hotel in Tallaght.
I suspect this type of site has more predators than Tinder but the women here are much smarter and clued in thankfully.
I honestly think some women have been murdered from here too...It was just never revealed or known by anyone that they were a fab member. Women still go missing regularly & it isn't broadcast in the news media.
Omg I didn't know about that case in Tallaght. May she rest in peace. But I do know a guy who's Aunty was murdered by a guy she met on POF..."
Isn't this where Graham Dywer met Elaine O Hara. RIP Elaine |
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"Has you all ready may know getting verified is probably key for single guys on here.
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We're not bothered about verifications. We'd rather rely on our own judgements based on our conversations and whether or not the guy can meet our requirements. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course there are predators on this site. People like that will always be attracted to anonymous means of meeting people
And yes the veri system doesn't work to protect against it.
However this site is far safer than something like tinder if people use all the available tools here.
On tinder for example you have no way to speak to other people ans get a feel for situations, ask advice and meet in groups in social settings.
Meeting strangers for sex is a high risk behaviour all people can do it mitigate those risks of they choose to partake.
The veri system is better than nothing but a single green tick isn't a green means go situation and shouldn't be treated as such "
Plenty of predators here !!
There was a case in Killarney just 12 months ago of a guy who met a lady on fab and seriously assaulted her
He got a jail sentence |
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" An example,,,,, I can leave a veri for you right now and preech that you are a fruitcake with a limp one eye and a crusty cock.
Would you show that?"
I take offence to this. I haven't got a limp |
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Isn't this where Graham Dywer met Elaine O Hara. RIP Elaine
It's really suss that this is at the forefront of your mind"
How so? Also, why do you seem to think you know what's at the forefront of my mind?  |
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