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Tips for a young guy
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"Young guy on here and seem to be struggling ... any tips or are younger guys just not wanted by most on here ? "Have fun ..and RESPECT the ladies here, do not throw the Toys out if you get no replies to your messages ,obviously you're not their type if no replies,learn to accept rejection if it happens, other than that it can be a cool place to land in and enjoy it ,don't take the fun out of it for yourself or anyone else, jump into the forums , enjoy the craic and banter there ,often wayyyyyy better than sending messages as others see your thoughts and opinions for themselves without you maybe even knowing it. | |||
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"Young guy on here and seem to be struggling ... any tips or are younger guys just not wanted by most on here ? "Check out another thread called only 2 weeks in. Similar advice being offer to the op as yourself. At the moment as you’re not verified most are either trying to catch you out as a fake or won’t respond because you’re not verified. It can take months for a single straight male to get a meet. I’m repeating myself here somewhat which will be clearer when you look at the other thread. You not going to be treated like the guy in the Lynx advertisement from years ago, women won’t run after you in their hundreds. Most couples and single women are inundated with messages and most go unread. Try to avoid sending dick pics, we’ve all seen one, this is a sex site after all! Lol Hopefully this will help you in some way. | |||
"It's very hard to have a profile that stands out on here as a guy. So sorry to say, yours currently has all the most common tropes that it seems every guy says, but don't tell others anything about you ... "easy going", "don't take myself too seriously", "looking for fun". Basically every single guys tinder profile. Obviously I can't speak for every woman, But there are a lot of general tips I've seen in other online communities about what makes good and bad profiles. here's a few of what seem to be common tips - Detailed profile bio's with a description of the dynamic you are looking for, play preference and boundaries. - Good grammar and spelling - Not just nude pictures, ok to hide your face but show a little of your personality and style with some well dressed pics. For a younger guy, you want to come across as confident, and sexy. Not passive. Are you into giving oral? Say that? Can you accommodate at your place? Do you like older women? Are you more dominant or submissive, do you want to go for drinks and see someone regularly, or are you looking for anonymous once off. If there something your interested in trying for the first time? Be specific! You want a profile that tells others "this guy is exactly what I'm looking for". There's simply too many men on here to have a passive profile. Women on this site aren't desperate and looking for a guy thinking "he'll do". " Some brilliant advice here op read it carefully and amend your profile accordingly or simply take a look at other profiles and adjust yours so the person reading it knows more about yourself and what you’re interested in and looking for. Regular fwb needed as an opening line or single genuine inexperienced male seeks older women who enjoys receiving oral. Basically be honest, chat about yourself and what you’re hoping to get from fab. | |||
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"am having same issue seems they don't young new joiners" You're hardly young anymore | |||
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"Hello OP Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet, and even if you can you should be aware that they might have doubts. It's best to stay local(ish). Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be something there to write about. Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. . Write a little more about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically on a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile in detail, making sure it is truthful, and likely to make a good first impression. Believe it or not Grammar and spelling can make an awful difference to whether people read a profile or switch off straight away. Put on some more pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, If people want to see your cock pics they will ask. Anything in between is great. The next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies in the local area, you can always blur your face for discretion if you prefer. However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. Then... get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck." Thanks very much great advice | |||
