I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! |
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A lot of women never cum (10-15%).
Most need vibrator or a lot of clit / g spot stimulating (about 75%, some had it as high as 85%).
Very few cum from just penetration
% based on quick Google from few sites
Ask her what else she likes, or turns her on, maybe other zones will help increase chances. Adding pressure to you or her that she has to cum from penetration will do opposite. Other zones can be nipples, or inside of thighs or nape of neck etc |
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! "
Try bringing her into the swing lifestyle and then as a cpl you two can explore different things & kinks  
That could help  |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
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Very few women ( including wife ) cum through penetration and need a toy or fingers to climax.
We’ve had over a hundred meets and probably only a handful have cum during fucking.
But making a woman (or man) cum during a meet is not the before all, what’s more important is the whole package, having fun! |
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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! "
does she ever come when she is on top? This would be a go to position for lots of women.
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! does she ever come when she is on top? This would be a go to position for lots of women. "
Definitely mine. Deep with pubic bone friction |
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! does she ever come when she is on top? This would be a go to position for lots of women.
Definitely mine. Deep with pubic bone friction "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As someone who doesn't cum it honestly doesn't bother me, i still enjoy sex, I enjoy making my partner cum, I enjoy oral giving and receiving, I enjoy the whole experience and I try not to.thing about it anymore, it if happens it happens if not I still have a great time.
There is a great podcast called Orgasmic Enlightment maybe give that a listen some good advice and topics discussed. |
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Ya this is the norm really, Hollywood (and porn) has brainwashed us to believe penetrative sex is all it takes but its actually the other way around.
It's the equivalent of trying to make a man cum without touching his penis. |
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With me my mind has to be in the zone..mental stimulation, knowing he is loving it, hearing him verbalise what it's doing for him allows me to "let go" and get in the moment, when I am there, anything can make me cum... if that makes any sense  |
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens! "
As mentioned below, few of us cum through penetration alone. I need a certain position, depth, speed etc to be able to cum through penile penetration alone - often it's what goes through the mind that gives it the final push to get me over the edge in that instance.
My personal opinion is that the orgasm isn't the be all and end all of sexual intercourse as you have stated your partner seems to think. If the only aim of sex is the final destination, the orgasm, it puts a huge amount of pressure on both parties. I wouldn't be able to perform, nor would I want to! And I'd expect any partner of mine would feel the same way...
For me, sex is about intimacy, exploring each others bodies, turn-ons and kinks, finding mutual fantasies, possibly living those and having a laugh, even a cry (yes, it's you, not me ) and a cuddle...
Talk to her, tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels... explore, without judgement, but within your boundaries, enjoy the journey. |
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens!
As mentioned below, few of us cum through penetration alone. I need a certain position, depth, speed etc to be able to cum through penile penetration alone - often it's what goes through the mind that gives it the final push to get me over the edge in that instance.
My personal opinion is that the orgasm isn't the be all and end all of sexual intercourse as you have stated your partner seems to think. If the only aim of sex is the final destination, the orgasm, it puts a huge amount of pressure on both parties. I wouldn't be able to perform, nor would I want to! And I'd expect any partner of mine would feel the same way...
For me, sex is about intimacy, exploring each others bodies, turn-ons and kinks, finding mutual fantasies, possibly living those and having a laugh, even a cry (yes, it's you, not me ) and a cuddle...
Talk to her, tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels... explore, without judgement, but within your boundaries, enjoy the journey. "
Sounds like runner up speak |
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"I’ve been with my partner for a number of years and have never made her cum through penetration alone. She will cum before or after we have sex when we use a vibrator. I was wondering if anyone else is in this position too? My partner says she doesn’t mind how it happens either with my pen is it her toy as long as it happens!
As mentioned below, few of us cum through penetration alone. I need a certain position, depth, speed etc to be able to cum through penile penetration alone - often it's what goes through the mind that gives it the final push to get me over the edge in that instance.
My personal opinion is that the orgasm isn't the be all and end all of sexual intercourse as you have stated your partner seems to think. If the only aim of sex is the final destination, the orgasm, it puts a huge amount of pressure on both parties. I wouldn't be able to perform, nor would I want to! And I'd expect any partner of mine would feel the same way...
For me, sex is about intimacy, exploring each others bodies, turn-ons and kinks, finding mutual fantasies, possibly living those and having a laugh, even a cry (yes, it's you, not me ) and a cuddle...
Talk to her, tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels... explore, without judgement, but within your boundaries, enjoy the journey.
Sounds like runner up speak "
Who's the runner up |
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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago
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I prob wouldn't cum just from penetration the first time , I'd find the more times I get there during sex eventually I might !....
I wouldn't worry about it op of she is happy whtever say she cums then happy days |
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"I prob wouldn't cum just from penetration the first time , I'd find the more times I get there during sex eventually I might !....
I wouldn't worry about it op of she is happy whtever say she cums then happy days "
C'mere you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we've all been in that position and it's nothing to worry about. In my experience most haven't came. The Sitting up cowgirl position is always a good call with some Durex tingle lube and a vibrating cock ring. You'll have her shaking at the knees |
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"Very few women ( including wife ) cum through penetration and need a toy or fingers to climax.
We’ve had over a hundred meets and probably only a handful have cum during fucking.
But making a woman (or man) cum during a meet is not the before all, what’s more important is the whole package, having fun!"
Very true and I’d say a meet with you guys is a hell of a lot of fun  |
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