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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any 1 else have bother coming during sex.. I've never been able to come an always finished myself off was wondering if any 1 has the same problem or any ideas to make urself come |
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It used to affect me too man. It was totally psychological. I couldn't relax in bed with a woman. I kept thinking "is she enjoying herself," "she has a great body and I'm a shambles" "am I doing this right," "DONT cum too fast" and ultimately wouldn't cum atall.
I had an erection but there was nothing happening.
Until one night I ended up in bed with the most beautiful women I had ever seen. She was giving me head and again the same thoughts were going around the noggin. In that situation I just told meself to relax and concentrate on the physical feeling of the experience. Next thing me loins were stirring and a minute or two later me legs started to do an involuntary Highland gig. And  .
A few months later I was having sex with another woman again the same thoughts but this time they beat me and no "happy ending" my end.
Fast forward a few weeks later I was in bed with a woman and all the thoughts came into me head. I concentrated on the moment, the woman, the sensations.
I never had a problem since. If you can cum off your wrist then it's not physical so I'd say in my experience have a look at the psychology side. But I'm not a qualified anything so take what I've said as just one person from the internet, who you've never meet, opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Often had sex and not cum. Would stay hard but get feckin wrecked. I think sometimes a woman at a certain stage in the month gives off hormones that stop us cumming so that she can get a good sorting. I’ve had this a lot, it’s not a brag. I’m very satisfied if she is cumming. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Often had sex and not cum. Would stay hard but get feckin wrecked. I think sometimes a woman at a certain stage in the month gives off hormones that stop us cumming so that she can get a good sorting. I’ve had this a lot, it’s not a brag. I’m very satisfied if she is cumming. "
What time of the month would that be so that I can arrange future rides around it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often had sex and not cum. Would stay hard but get feckin wrecked. I think sometimes a woman at a certain stage in the month gives off hormones that stop us cumming so that she can get a good sorting. I’ve had this a lot, it’s not a brag. I’m very satisfied if she is cumming.
What time of the month would that be so that I can arrange future rides around it?"
Lol! All I’m saying is that it happens, don’t know why. Mind you, not much happening these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a big deal in my opinion. and when you stop thinking it is , it becomes even less of a one "
This, overthinking is the cause of a lot of sexual issues, as the other poster above suggested, relaxing and being in the moment is key. |
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