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"Hi, I have never posted here and I occasionally read, so I hope I will stick to the forum charter. I am continuously debating my presence on here, even though I find elements of the site interesting. However, after once again being subjected to a tirade of condescending, rude messages, followed by a swift block on his end, I would like to know if this behaviour is common on here. It has happened to me at least five times now and it is always after somebody has portrayed themselves as somebody quite different. Then, the mask slips... While we were merely conversing, and I had already highlighted several times that I didn't think we were suited, I was really surprised by this outburst. And, while I won't be taking any of it to heart, I just cannot believe how anybody would think it okay to send such condescending, mocking messages, using information contained within my profile, or information I had shared, as a basis to mock my presence on here. Repeatedly, I get feedback about how guarded I am on here... This is a huge part of why! I have had some nice interactions, but too many are anything but. I don't mislead anybody and I go out of my way to respond to messages, once they aren't rude/abusive. Anyway, I feel jaded by the misrepresentation and I have only been on here since July. I am quite happy to leave everybody in their respective corners and respectfully salute them, if we come into contact. I am fully aware that the vast majority on here will be seeking something different to what I am open to and I am fully okay with that. I wish some others could be just as okay with my choices or, at least, not feel they have to send me message, after message, pulling me apart. " I am really sorry to hear that. That really unnecessary | |||
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"Hi all, Thank you all for your thoughtful responses, much appreciated! I will come back to these replies, once I have taken a little time to reevaluate. Some great points have been made, so thank you! In some ways, I think the crux of it is that I don't know how able I am for some of the messages on here. I don't have the thickest of skins. I am almost incapable of being rude, but I am very, very clear with people, in terms of whether I am open to anything more, or not. Anyway, thanks again. It helped to let it out... " Keep the head up ![]() ![]() | |||
"Always a few that let the rest of us down. Very sorry to here this!!" Once again as has been said many times, you can only let yourself down. Nasty comments by random men on the internet are no reflection on those who don't act that way. | |||
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"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes I think going on the forum specifically to ‘pull’ is something I have observed quite a bit recently. I think it’s best to properly engage with it both for it to be of decent quality and also for those one is hoping to meet to get to know them . | |||
"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lick ass on the forums? Where do I sign up? | |||
"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just wondering have you found me yet ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() A little of column a and a little of column b | |||
"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I choose 3....Why did you leave me? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hope you are ok xxx and be carefull of the lick asses on the forums ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That queue is particularly loooooong ![]() ![]() | |||
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