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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag
Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag
Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every pic on a profile slightly out of focus so reverse image search doesn't pick up on them.
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What is the better app, not having much satisfaction with results |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag
Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag
Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile. "
Don't agree with this 1, it's not easy to get a verification on here even for couples, took us a year and we are very much real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having the green tick on a profile shows you have been verified. However if someone has has left the site or has blocked the person, the verification itself disappears but shows in the verification summary |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!"
Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri
Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!
Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri
Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex "
Anyone who wants to meet for a lot of cake . A big big red flag lol . |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag
Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag
Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile.
Don't agree with this 1, it's not easy to get a verification on here even for couples, took us a year and we are very much real"
These are just my opinions so don't take it personally. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!
Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri
Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex
Anyone who wants to meet for a lot of cake . A big big red flag lol . "
Nice of you to say 
Surely everyone gets to use the site and meet people in whatever way works for them and the people they meet |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Yes absolutely
I suppose it’s being contacted thinking you’re talking to someone genuinely then it turns out you were being sold a pup then on reflection you notice x and y red flags you should have noticed earlier
Once you’re here a while you look for them immediately
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:
Pics of one member of the couple only;
Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and
Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.
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"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:
Pics of one member of the couple only;
Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and
Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.
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Yup yup..
And same on the previous comments on veris.. Can be hard to get! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Silhouette avatar sorry the excuse people use they don't want to be recognised so won't put any pic up is just an excuse.
Blank 'fill in later' etc bios.
One veri from a hidden profile from ages ago .
Misogyny or misandry coming through on profile text .
Thinking just because they can accomadate is a good enough reason to meet them .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait 
How the flup have you not been verified?
I actually asked him the same thing a few weeks ago "
More importantly... "flup"? |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait
How the flup have you not been verified?
I actually asked him the same thing a few weeks ago
More importantly... "flup"?"
Flup off ya flupping eejit 
I’m being a lady  |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait
How the flup have you not been verified?
Haha.. So is this the new thread? How to get that reaction?  "
Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.
Will take one for the team if needs be  |
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Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.
Will take one for the team if needs be "
If that's an open offer I'll buy the coffee tomorrow morning  |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
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Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.
Will take one for the team if needs be
If that's an open offer I'll buy the coffee tomorrow morning "
Lol some of us have work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where to start,
Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc
Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball "
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles"
Those cocks are now a publicly floated bodies |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles"
I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles
I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth "
Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it |
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"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles
I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth
Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it "
I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles
I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth
Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it
I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it "
Very good RB ....even said with an Aussi accent |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball
What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles
I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth
Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it
I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it
Very good RB ....even said with an Aussi accent "
Gday maaaaaaaaaate |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Chameleon penis. Different length,girth shape and colour in each pic.
Is Chameleon penis a new member (!) of the Suicide Squad ?"
I was thinking a new song by Culture club .....you're singing it now aren't you  |
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"Where to start,
Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc
Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar. "
What is the story with that warning? Do people really think that's what a publicly traded entity is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad news for swinging pro photographers so... "
You can tell the difference between a swinging photographer and something that being copied off the Internet though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where to start,
Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc
Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar.
What is the story with that warning? Do people really think that's what a publicly traded entity is? "
No idea. It's been around for as long as we've been on fab though so ten plus years |
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Requesting pics on their fourth message or so surely brings down the checkered flag for me..
Please make sure and provide a clear unobscured face pic. One whereby your eyes aren't concealed by sunglasses, your hair isn't hidden by a hat and you are clearly in the pic as opposed to half a mile from the camera hidden by dark clouds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:
Pics of one member of the couple only;
Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and
Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.
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^^^^^^^ This 
Quote - "Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique"...
Must definitely & even after requesting other pics such as body or legs they point blank refuse to. They just keep sending terrible close up Dick Pics 
Also there's 2 profiles here who claim to be men but their crotch jean photos look like a female crotch
 
I've also asked these 2 people for other pics & they point blank refuse to send them too. I said to one of them today "I think you're a wonan" & I haven't heard anything since. I told the same 'guy' months ago he'd need to change his profile pic cos I see pussy in his crotch pic not cock. He didn't change it & has only the 1 pic up & has never sent me any other photos even though `he`s asked me to meet him many times  very strange behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:
Pics of one member of the couple only;
Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and
Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.
^^^^^^^ This
Quote - "Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique"...
Must definitely & even after requesting other pics such as body or legs they point blank refuse to. They just keep sending terrible close up Dick Pics
Also there's 2 profiles here who claim to be men but their crotch jean photos look like a female crotch
I've also asked these 2 people for other pics & they point blank refuse to send them too. I said to one of them today "I think you're a wonan" & I haven't heard anything since. I told the same 'guy' months ago he'd need to change his profile pic cos I see pussy in his crotch pic not cock. He didn't change it & has only the 1 pic up & has never sent me any other photos even though `he`s asked me to meet him many times very strange behaviour"
Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense "
"Those people"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"? "
Yeah "those" people like swingers are THOSE people, haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"? "
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?"
Which bit should I find odd? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?"
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male "
Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.
Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male
Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.
Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances."
I could have been clearer to be fair.
My point was I don't think the guy ment "Those people" in an offensive way at all. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male "
You just don't get it young man, if you want the full package of deceit, drama, abuse and a weirdo story to tell about on the forums later on, you've to go that extra mile. |
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male
You just don't get it young man, if you want the full package of deceit, drama, abuse and a weirdo story to tell about on the forums later on, you've to go that extra mile. "
I'm glad it's not just me then that picked that up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male
Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.
Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances."
I rarely "engage" with `him` tbh... I'm challenging 'him' to admit He is a She. 'He' has never been abusive or anything like that so why would I "block" `him`.
I never "demand more pics". I did ask nicely after chatting for awhile as `he` has only 1 photo, & I did tell him only very recently his one & only photo looks Female after he asked to meet me again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense
"Those people"?
Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?
Which bit should I find odd?
Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male
Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.
Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances.
I rarely "engage" with `him` tbh... I'm challenging 'him' to admit He is a She. 'He' has never been abusive or anything like that so why would I "block" `him`.
I never "demand more pics". I did ask nicely after chatting for awhile as `he` has only 1 photo, & I did tell him only very recently his one & only photo looks Female after he asked to meet me again."
Also I would never ever meet him ever & `he's` finally realising this. I never encouraged 'him' either as I never ever meet unless there's a strong connection/chemistry/attraction etc... & the person can prove who they say they are |
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