I'm talking about this literally, not about the profile.
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Ladies, is the dadbod OK or does it have to be ripped and athletic looking. How important are experience and knowledge in relation to the body? 50:50? 70:30?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The main thing that attracts me to a guy physically is his face.
I have met guys whos bodies have been ripped and amazing but were they the sexiest guys ive met? Definitely not. |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
"The main thing that attracts me to a guy physically is his face.
I have met guys whos bodies have been ripped and amazing but were they the sexiest guys ive met? Definitely not. "
Definitely agree |
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"The main thing that attracts me to a guy physically is his face.
I have met guys whos bodies have been ripped and amazing but were they the sexiest guys ive met? Definitely not.
Definitely agree"
l feel there is hope for me yet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're a dick it doesn't matter if you're ripped, have a dad bod or any other body type descriptor, you won't be getting in my vajayjay. Likewise me fancying someone enough to invite them between my legs will never be solely down to body type or any other physical attribute
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"If you're a dick it doesn't matter if you're ripped, have a dad bod or any other body type descriptor, you won't be getting in my vajayjay. Likewise me fancying someone enough to invite them between my legs will never be solely down to body type or any other physical attribute
K"
Yep this exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To address the other part of your post OP experience and knowledge would also never be enough on their own either. I couldn't put a percentage on it either as every person is an individual and I'll react to each individual differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're a dick it doesn't matter if you're ripped, have a dad bod or any other body type descriptor, you won't be getting in my vajayjay. Likewise me fancying someone enough to invite them between my legs will never be solely down to body type or any other physical attribute
K"
Couldn't put it better myself x |
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"If you're a dick it doesn't matter if you're ripped, have a dad bod or any other body type descriptor, you won't be getting in my vajayjay. Likewise me fancying someone enough to invite them between my legs will never be solely down to body type or any other physical attribute
K"
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Give me a dad bod over a gym rat any day, to be honest it's as much a personality thing than just aesthetics. If a guy is sculpted physically & manicured & possibly spends more time in the mirror than me, then he his not in the same mindset as me. If that makes sense  |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
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"Give me a dad bod over a gym rat any day, to be honest it's as much a personality thing than just aesthetics. If a guy is sculpted physically & manicured & possibly spends more time in the mirror than me, then he his not in the same mindset as me. If that makes sense "
Makes sense to me.
I find personality more attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people got to know themselves and became better humans, inside and out during lockdown.
I sat on a couch, watched Netflix ate sandwiches and drank beer.
Am now the proud owner of a highly accomplished dad bod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people got to know themselves and became better humans, inside and out during lockdown.
I sat on a couch, watched Netflix ate sandwiches and drank beer.
Am now the proud owner of a highly accomplished dad bod "
Not all heroes wear capes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give me a dad bod over a gym rat any day, to be honest it's as much a personality thing than just aesthetics. If a guy is sculpted physically & manicured & possibly spends more time in the mirror than me, then he his not in the same mindset as me. If that makes sense "
Feck the gym, just use filters |
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Think at this point everyone knows my weakness for muscles. Obviously if said muscular dude is an arse its not happening. But damn the shoulders and the biceps and the thighs and the back tapering into the waist and...
Alright im off to have a cold shower |
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"The main thing that attracts me to a guy physically is his face.
I have met guys whos bodies have been ripped and amazing but were they the sexiest guys ive met? Definitely not.
Definitely agree"
Damn. That explains it. 
Body positive needs to include ugly heads too. ??
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By *iva69Woman
over a year ago
Limerick |
Personality and sense of humour are key for me, there has to be an attraction and connection or it's not happening and I do like a fit guy. But it was said earlier, the gym rats are not always the sexiest. |
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I’ve swayed off topic here, but more so on the body positivity side - Bodies are all subjective in my opinion and not all encompassing. Some people enjoy keeping fit, others don’t, but that certainly doesn’t mean one is more attractive than the other.
For me, it’s a lady’s eyes and lips that initially draw me in and bodies are largely irrelevant if there’s a spark and chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv no idea what a dadbod is
Just look at most of the profiles on this thread
Like a bag of revels  "
A bag of revels is the perfect description of fab! Never know what you're gonna get and sometimes you get a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
Assuming because he felt like it"
He said he had a definite reason which he'd share later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
Assuming because he felt like it
He said he had a definite reason which he'd share later"
Ah...so he did  |
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
Assuming because he felt like it
He said he had a definite reason which he'd share later"
I got the impression he was only sharing his reason with the two ladies who initially responded |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"I hate it when there is a thread I really want to comment on and I can’t as it’s unwise to !!
Do it lol
Fuck the consequences expressed yourself"
I can’t believe I am listening to you but hey !!!
I have no comments to make about ladies’ bods
If you Rock your look you rock it whether you’re a waif or curvy or whatever
As a bi guy I have a preference in mixed gender group meets for dad bod types
Yet I am obsessed with being In good shape myself
I have no idea why these preferences exist really
I think research shows that people with slightly higher BMIs are happier and live longer btw
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I think i read somewhere there are better health outcomes for those who are a bit overweight than for those who are a bit underweight.
I know the daddy/bear thing is a big deal in the gay/bi scehe. I guess its very similar to the DDLG thing in the straight kink world. Its very common. Freud would have a lot to say about it |
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread "
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size."
Just because that's what is fulfilling for you doesn't mean it is or has to be for everyone.
Just Just as judgemental calling people superficial for having physical preferences |
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size.
Just because that's what is fulfilling for you doesn't mean it is or has to be for everyone.
Just Just as judgemental calling people superficial for having physical preferences"
But that is literally the definition of superficial lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size.
Just because that's what is fulfilling for you doesn't mean it is or has to be for everyone.
Just Just as judgemental calling people superficial for having physical preferences
But that is literally the definition of superficial lol."
Actually superficial when relating to a person actually means lacking depth or character but ok |
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size.
Just because that's what is fulfilling for you doesn't mean it is or has to be for everyone.
Just Just as judgemental calling people superficial for having physical preferences
But that is literally the definition of superficial lol.
Actually superficial when relating to a person actually means lacking depth or character but ok"
So you mean facile? The word I actually used? Not the word you put in my mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because that's what is fulfilling for you doesn't mean it is or has to be for everyone.
Just Just as judgemental calling people superficial for having physical preferences
But that is literally the definition of superficial lol.
Actually superficial when relating to a person actually means lacking depth or character but ok
So you mean facile? The word I actually used? Not the word you put in my mouth."
Ummmmm firstly you were giving me the "literal definition of superficial" with a nice little "lol" too.... your just using it incorrectly.
Facile is another word people can use for superficial but still doesn't mean people are facile or superficial for having physical preferences and you still come off judgemental as fuck in your post.
But semantics are fun aren't they |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind either way… personality is a big preference and then the bedroom as long as he don’t need a break every 5 mins for a breather "
Ya I think
I’d need a breather every five minutes with you Well that’s me gone anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think at this point everyone knows my weakness for muscles. Obviously if said muscular dude is an arse its not happening. But damn the shoulders and the biceps and the thighs and the back tapering into the waist and...
Alright i
m off to have a cold shower"
Gotta be honest here and say ditto - this gets an instinctive Ooomph from me. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size."
Saying and doing are completely different |
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"Think at this point everyone knows my weakness for muscles. Obviously if said muscular dude is an arse its not happening. But damn the shoulders and the biceps and the thighs and the back tapering into the waist and...
Alright i
m off to have a cold shower
Gotta be honest here and say ditto - this gets an instinctive Ooomph from me.
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Especially in a crisp white shirt thats juuuust tight enough around said muscles without looking like he squeezed into it. Dribble |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size."
You say this like one excludes the other. You know it's perfectly possible to have a physical preference and to seek a mental connection too. Just because you like a certain type of body doesn't mean you're automatically superficial. |
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size.
You say this like one excludes the other. You know it's perfectly possible to have a physical preference and to seek a mental connection too. Just because you like a certain type of body doesn't mean you're automatically superficial. "
Agree totally. Which is why I said it also doesn't matter how well I get on with someone or how experienced they are (to use the OP's turn of phrase) if I don't find them physically attractive then I won't be having sex with them.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for the OP to share his "definite reason" for starting this thread
I thought it was pretty obvious lol.
I was waiting for more women to have their say but the post was meant to show who the least facile ladies are. I'm really heartened by the responses I've read. It just goes to show that the vast majority of women here on the forums are a different group the the general site member. You can't have a meaningful, fulfilling sexual experience without some kind of mental connection, regardless of how many abs the gut has or the ladies bra size.
You say this like one excludes the other. You know it's perfectly possible to have a physical preference and to seek a mental connection too. Just because you like a certain type of body doesn't mean you're automatically superficial. "
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