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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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Voyeurism seems to Makes sense in dogging situations as the car provides a physical barrier I’d imagine. However has anyone been a voyeur or invited one to a hotel or indoor meet ? Presumably the voyeur ends up taking part eventually or are there some self control black belts out there ? |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"As in walk into a room sit down or actually lie on the bed beside them fully clothed watching and making eye contact as they fuck..then leave when told to "
As in any presence without taking part I guess |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"As in walk into a room sit down or actually lie on the bed beside them fully clothed watching and making eye contact as they fuck..then leave when told to
As in any presence without taking part I guess "
Sounds amazing ...wonder how much of a turn on for a couple it is |
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I did a role play thing for a couple as a pizza delivery guy. I was to arrive with the pizza and they were fuking as I got to their room. Door left open slightly so I could walk in and 'catch' then at it. They were happy for me to sit and watch and masterbate |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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I was nearly accidentally one a while ago. It was an f with many Ms and bloke number 1 kept going for ages and I could only stay for a while lol . Was close to needing to physically remove him but he did thankfully need a rest !! Who says romance is dead |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I did a role play thing for a couple as a pizza delivery guy. I was to arrive with the pizza and they were fuking as I got to their room. Door left open slightly so I could walk in and 'catch' then at it. They were happy for me to sit and watch and masterbate"
That took a lot of self control all round |
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"I did a role play thing for a couple as a pizza delivery guy. I was to arrive with the pizza and they were fuking as I got to their room. Door left open slightly so I could walk in and 'catch' then at it. They were happy for me to sit and watch and masterbate
That took a lot of self control all round "
Oh god yeah! Was a savage test of control ha |
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"Voyeurism seems to Makes sense in dogging situations as the car provides a physical barrier I’d imagine. However has anyone been a voyeur or invited one to a hotel or indoor meet ? Presumably the voyeur ends up taking part eventually or are there some self control black belts out there ? "
It has nothing to do with self control. You are there at the invitation of the couple if they wanted a threesome they would have said so.
I've watched on a number of occasions indoors and out and there have been times when I have become involved but just as many where I haven't but there should be no presumption |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Voyeurism seems to Makes sense in dogging situations as the car provides a physical barrier I’d imagine. However has anyone been a voyeur or invited one to a hotel or indoor meet ? Presumably the voyeur ends up taking part eventually or are there some self control black belts out there ?
It has nothing to do with self control. You are there at the invitation of the couple if they wanted a threesome they would have said so.
I've watched on a number of occasions indoors and out and there have been times when I have become involved but just as many where I haven't but there should be no presumption"
I understand that there are rules beforehand absolutely . It’s just that as the situation develops if you are both into group dynamics (and being watched or watching suggests a leaning ) it’s difficult to keep it that way . Clearly if the voyeur or the couple have no interest in it becoming a threesome then it won’t , but I d imagine , as someone who likes watching occasionally , that it’s very difficult to continue to be a viewer when the green light is given and it’s very easy to see how it would be |
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Yes it's something we've done several times. The outcome has varied and has ranged from the person watching being fully clothed, through being naked and masturbating up close, to me giving their cock the occasional teasing lick. Only once have we invited someone to join in, and no-one has ever tried to go beyond what was pre-agreed |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yes it's something we've done several times. The outcome has varied and has ranged from the person watching being fully clothed, through being naked and masturbating up close, to me giving their cock the occasional teasing lick. Only once have we invited someone to join in, and no-one has ever tried to go beyond what was pre-agreed"
I am pleasantly surprised by how boundaried the posters are. It’s something I am close to arranging and Much to learn here from more experienced dabblers |
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"Yes it's something we've done several times. The outcome has varied and has ranged from the person watching being fully clothed, through being naked and masturbating up close, to me giving their cock the occasional teasing lick. Only once have we invited someone to join in, and no-one has ever tried to go beyond what was pre-agreed
I am pleasantly surprised by how boundaried the posters are. It’s something I am close to arranging and Much to learn here from more experienced dabblers "
If there's anything you want or need to discuss out of the thread give us a message. I think, as with all things, the mantra is communication, communication, communication. Before, during, and after (if applicable) |
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Voyeurism to me is spying on people who are nude or are engaging in sex.. What others have described here like Watching a couple fuck each other in a hotel room with their knowledge is soft swinging not voyeurism.. To me voyeurism is upskirting.. Recording changerooms.. Toilets.. Looking in people's windows at night like a peeping Tom.. All of which are highly illegal of course and no consent has been given but this is true voyeurism.. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yes it's something we've done several times. The outcome has varied and has ranged from the person watching being fully clothed, through being naked and masturbating up close, to me giving their cock the occasional teasing lick. Only once have we invited someone to join in, and no-one has ever tried to go beyond what was pre-agreed
I am pleasantly surprised by how boundaried the posters are. It’s something I am close to arranging and Much to learn here from more experienced dabblers
If there's anything you want or need to discuss out of the thread give us a message. I think, as with all things, the mantra is communication, communication, communication. Before, during, and after (if applicable)"
Thanks . I just need to make a decision as to whether the ‘applicant’ is the appropriate inaugural voyeur !!
That’s a sentence i never thought I’d use |
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One of my first experiences here was voyeurism via webcam. Got to know the couple in advance via chats etc. It was very hot, very intimate and very kinky fun  |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"One of my first experiences here was voyeurism via webcam. Got to know the couple in advance via chats etc. It was very hot, very intimate and very kinky fun "
Oh yeah I remember you mentioning that . So intrigued as to who it was lol !! |
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"One of my first experiences here was voyeurism via webcam. Got to know the couple in advance via chats etc. It was very hot, very intimate and very kinky fun
Oh yeah I remember you mentioning that . So intrigued as to who it was lol !!"
Oh thats not for me to say  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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"Yes it's something we've done several times. The outcome has varied and has ranged from the person watching being fully clothed, through being naked and masturbating up close, to me giving their cock the occasional teasing lick. Only once have we invited someone to join in, and no-one has ever tried to go beyond what was pre-agreed"
The negotiation process is so important, so there are no misunderstandings about personal preferences, etc, particularly if previously untried options are suggested at subsequent meets as trust is built, confidence increases and pleasure escalates (to new levels).   |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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In the mid-70s, I inadvertently became a voyeur to a couple who were in full flow, the male being significantly more enthusiastic then the lady underneath him.
Suffice to say that her viasge remains with me to this day. Think about it !   |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Since this thread started a few weeks ago I actually got a chance to become a voyeur
While closing my curtains in a hotel room I noticed 5 or 6 people in a room 20 ft away that left their curtains and blinds open playing together
Since I was in darkness I pulled up a chair and watched them for an hour or so
Very erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs here we have done this a few times. 1st time guy just wanked in his car as he watched us he respected what i wanted. We invited him back and i let him wank close to my face and cum over my tits. It can be fun if rules are respected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Voyeurism seems to Makes sense in dogging situations as the car provides a physical barrier I’d imagine. However has anyone been a voyeur or invited one to a hotel or indoor meet ? Presumably the voyeur ends up taking part eventually or are there some self control black belts out there ? "
I guess its all about respecting whatever rules the couple or exhibitionist lays down. If they/she just want a watch & wank meet then thats what they should get. No point in the invitee overstepping the bounds as it spoils it for everyone. Ive found these sort of meets can be highly erotic and satisfying. |
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"Stall the ball. Where does "danger wank" belong in this spectrum?
On the other end over there with penfold
Further away please
Straight into baron greenbacks trap
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And beat it until it's dead (shudders) |
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"Stall the ball. Where does "danger wank" belong in this spectrum?
On the other end over there with penfold
Further away please
Straight into baron greenbacks trap
And beat it until it's dead (shudders)"
Prefer sharks with lasers on their heads |
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