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"get to know one another on here, meet see if there is attraction and fuck. meet again down the line but not regularly and often, seeing one another loads. easy peasy, right? "
sorry, not seeing one another loads I ment.
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"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "
Absolutely.
i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!
If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its up to every person to know what they like and don't.
Some like no strings
Others like a few strings attached.
To each their own as long as they are happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its up to every person to know what they like and don't.
Some like no strings
Others like a few strings attached.
To each their own as long as they are happy "
Concur  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc. "
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "
Very romantic |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "
Ah jaysus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it's possible to meet a women who is just into no strings attached sex. I have been lucky enough to meeting up with a one such very cool and easygoing lady regularly for nearly eight years without any drama. She is a self proclaimed slut with a very high sex drive who just loves to fuck for hours on end.
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
I don’t think it’s related to gender and in fact changes within individuals over a lifeTime . I was furious 20 years ago With someone whom I was fond of enormously who preferred booty calls to a relationship . These days I would build her a statue if she reappeared in my life ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"My experience on here was a woman who wanted nsa fun with guys she had been meeting up to that point but she insisted I had to be exclusive to her. I left the site as a result of the drama. "
A guy I know doesn’t verify or get verified because his female fab fwb gets upset , which is frankly odd. It’s not bloody e harmony |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.
Absolutely.
i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!
If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh. "
The exclusive thing is a bit weird isn't it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.
Absolutely.
i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!
If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh.
The exclusive thing is a bit weird isn't it?
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More ego-driven than anything, I suspect |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. "
This is a very sensitive issue. When arranging group meets I send separate messages referring to the cohort as ladies/girls/women depending on personal preferences ! |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "
Wtf is this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.
Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits.
Wtf is this? "
Its mostly drivel.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?"
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "
Sometimes unexpectedly we can all meet someone who is just a bit extra special snd that we suddenly don't want to lose. It's impossible to have no feelings but you do have to manage them,in a way that respects the original agreement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."
Jasis! |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."
This should be in the back to school thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.
This should be in the back to school thread "
It's just a pet peeve ha ha |
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.
This should be in the back to school thread
It's just a pet peeve ha ha "
This made my day as it goes above and beyond the usual misuse of words  |
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."
So it's not "come here and sit on me sexy" it's "I find you very sexy, come sit on me"
Got it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can you females actually do It?
Of course we can.
Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?
I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.
So it's not "come here and sit on me sexy" it's "I find you very sexy, come sit on me"
Got it.
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You've got it  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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Some can, some can't, on both sides.
Having been in no strings scenarios with both attached and unattached women before, it varies. My recollection is that it was the attached who were more prone to "the feels". Those divorcees I engaged with were actually the most definitive No Strings means Absolutely No Strings.
I didn't ever get emotionally attached myself, despite that earlier post saying men were more likely to, so mustn't have had the over protective mother, thankfully.
Keep it clean, keep it safe and enjoy it for what it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though OP's question is a female related one , l found that if during a " meet " a same mental wavelength is discovered it goes way deeper than " no strings " very fast and very naturally and " feelings " develop very fast and very naturally...so the question then becomes...what now ?... |
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During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.
It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.
It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.
That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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We have very well developed brains which should serve to overcome some of our natural biological tendencies, like rutting at a dinner party or wanting an nsa partner to be exclusive to us when she or he have zero interest |
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"During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.
It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.
It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.
That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists."
I'm a safe bet than |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.
It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.
It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.
That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists."
This is my experience definitely and when I heard about the couple 'reclaim' sex, I thought to myself us singletons also need to reclaim ourselves after it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find em
Feel em
Fuck em
And
Forget en
Ain't that it boys an girls
You forgot finger em
Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?
The art of fingering is timeless, classic!  "
Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Find em
Feel em
Fuck em
And
Forget en
Ain't that it boys an girls
You forgot finger em
Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?
The art of fingering is timeless, classic!
Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing "
Who says romance is dead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find em
Feel em
Fuck em
And
Forget en
Ain't that it boys an girls
You forgot finger em
Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?
The art of fingering is timeless, classic!
Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing
Who says romance is dead "
Pure no strings |
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"Find em
Feel em
Fuck em
And
Forget en
Ain't that it boys an girls
You forgot finger em
Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?
The art of fingering is timeless, classic!
Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing
Who says romance is dead "
Heeeere luvv, will you ask your mate if I can finger her?  |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"Find em
Feel em
Fuck em
And
Forget en
Ain't that it boys an girls
You forgot finger em
Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?
The art of fingering is timeless, classic!
Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing
Who says romance is dead
Heeeere luvv, will you ask your mate if I can finger her? "
No strings and no demands on height age size married not married single or singer lol |
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