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I've noticed several thinly veiled profiles where the lady says she is looking for professional men who are generous or like to give presents.
Ok, fair enough I say but that little voice in the back of my head is screaming a certain word which starts with h and ends with ooker.
Am I just being cynical or should that kind of activity be done on a different site?
Not trying to offend anyone. I know there may be a certain cohort for whom that is a part of the game but some are quite obvious. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it. |
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"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it."
It's not about the right or wrong of it. I'm just wondering if it has a place here? Draws perhaps unwanted attention to what is essentially quite a private site. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it."
Actually I have been clearly told that all future accommodation bookings will be paid equally between all attendees regardless of gender by the group I see regularly . I am not convinced this is a gender issue I think it depends on individuals. A lot of guys put on jeans and t shirts for meets with ladies spending a fortune getting ready sometimes as well between make up outfit etc . |
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"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it."
Strangely enough in 4 years here I've never once been asked for any form of payment. Never once seen a profile even hinting at it and never once chatted to anyone who has.
Maybe I'm just not in the right circles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it.
Strangely enough in 4 years here I've never once been asked for any form of payment. Never once seen a profile even hinting at it and never once chatted to anyone who has.
Maybe I'm just not in the right circles"
Ditto , makes ya wonder do they actually exist lol  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
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I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either. "
No you're probably right about that it doesn't make them what the op was calling them tho. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
How so?"
I just threw out this remark, which is often thoughtlessly said, in order to generate some feedback/ discussion.
This site is authentic, from my own experience, in that members express their opinions openly and honestly and are frank about they want.
I was formerly on two other sites where the raison d'etre, in many instances, was blatantly 'commercial', with requests for e-mail addresses, which was an instant red flag.
Clearly I cannot mention the name if the sites, but I left to find a more authentic site, which I did, which is why I became a site supporter, although there is no obligation to do so.
Covid has really messed things up, but possibly in due course, maybe next year, meets may be possible when people have regained their confidence, which has been severely dented.
Finally, if a tiny minority want to use this site to ply their trade, so be it.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it.
Strangely enough in 4 years here I've never once been asked for any form of payment. Never once seen a profile even hinting at it and never once chatted to anyone who has.
Maybe I'm just not in the right circles
Ditto , makes ya wonder do they actually exist lol "
They exist alright I once met a galwaygirl in a galway town where she had me book a room in a hotel we got to the room and I was asked what I was going to do for her since she was going to give me her body. when I asked for a clearer explanation I was told another way that to get sugar she needed sugar catch the drift now at this stage I was just out of the shower after arriving to the hotel straight from work, bollix nakid with a towel over my aroused cock it was hard it was very hard but I dropped the towel pulled on my trousers, shirt and shoes and asked where can I drop her on my way home.
Theres a place for it but not on a site for adults wishing to share in each others pleasure.
Believe it or believe it not  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either. "
What's up baby girl |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either.
What's up baby girl "
 . Would you be up to financing my phd? Alternatively a new hip joint could be handy too.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it.
Strangely enough in 4 years here I've never once been asked for any form of payment. Never once seen a profile even hinting at it and never once chatted to anyone who has.
Maybe I'm just not in the right circles
Ditto , makes ya wonder do they actually exist lol
They exist alright I once met a galwaygirl in a galway town where she had me book a room in a hotel we got to the room and I was asked what I was going to do for her since she was going to give me her body. when I asked for a clearer explanation I was told another way that to get sugar she needed sugar catch the drift now at this stage I was just out of the shower after arriving to the hotel straight from work, bollix nakid with a towel over my aroused cock it was hard it was very hard but I dropped the towel pulled on my trousers, shirt and shoes and asked where can I drop her on my way home.
Theres a place for it but not on a site for adults wishing to share in each others pleasure.
Believe it or believe it not "
I'm torn between saying fair play to you man and wondering if you couldn't have just stayed for the night and enjoyed our lovely city. You may even have got lucky! |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Most men I speak to know that they end up 'paying', no matter whether it is stated subtly, blatantly or otherwise.
You have to expect that on a free and anonymised site like this there is a broad spectrum of people of both genders; if they can be brought together, so be it.
Strangely enough in 4 years here I've never once been asked for any form of payment. Never once seen a profile even hinting at it and never once chatted to anyone who has.
Maybe I'm just not in the right circles
Ditto , makes ya wonder do they actually exist lol
They exist alright I once met a galwaygirl in a galway town where she had me book a room in a hotel we got to the room and I was asked what I was going to do for her since she was going to give me her body. when I asked for a clearer explanation I was told another way that to get sugar she needed sugar catch the drift now at this stage I was just out of the shower after arriving to the hotel straight from work, bollix nakid with a towel over my aroused cock it was hard it was very hard but I dropped the towel pulled on my trousers, shirt and shoes and asked where can I drop her on my way home.
Theres a place for it but not on a site for adults wishing to share in each others pleasure.
Believe it or believe it not
I'm torn between saying fair play to you man and wondering if you couldn't have just stayed for the night and enjoyed our lovely city. You may even have got lucky! "
Everyone has a boundary , and for many purchasing it is an absolute no no regardless of circumstances
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"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either.
No you're probably right about that it doesn't make them what the op was calling them tho. "
I wasn't actually calling anyone anything. I was highlighting something I felt I had noticed and was asking for opinions. The seedy side of this is where there is a guy hiding in the closet ready to jump out and........take you by surprise in one way or another! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"They could be looking a sugar daddy. Not my thing but each to their own I wouldn't necessarily jump to other conclusions .Everyone has their own kinks and turn ons.
People look for different things on here it's easy to just ignore those who aren't looking for the same thing as you.
I'd argue that sugar daddy stuff doesn't belong here either.
No you're probably right about that it doesn't make them what the op was calling them tho.
I wasn't actually calling anyone anything. I was highlighting something I felt I had noticed and was asking for opinions. The seedy side of this is where there is a guy hiding in the closet ready to jump out and........take you by surprise in one way or another! "
I don't think a guy hiding in a closet is quite the same thing and he'd get a shock anyhow as my dogs wouldn't take kindly to that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will always be those willing to pay for sex - for a variety of reasons - so there will always be someone ready to provide, also for a variety of reasons. I agree that it's perhaps not ideal that it's happening via this site, but it's not going to stop. No attempts at legal enforcement ever stopped it, nor did societal or religious condemnation. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
I think that one of the mistakes some individuals make about this site is that it is all about sex, in its many guises.
And that by plying their trade here, they will find a easy market to exploit.
For me, this is about a lifestyle choice: meeting like-minded individuals who want nonmonogamous relationships, and who want to explore their sexuality in an open-minded environment.
The potential for a quick s##g, and one I would have to make payment for, is the furthest thing from my mind.
One lady, on another site, seemed keen to know how desperate I was for sex, right then; but when I indicated my objective was one if sexual exploration, with a similarly minded female, or group, she disappeared.
Long-term swingers have a more patient, explorative, benign mindset and are prepared to wait for the 'right' people who understand each others aspirations and needs. |
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I've no problem as long as they are up front about it.
... but we DO need to make sure the site isn't inundated with this, because it could change the nature of the site. Nobody wants to see fab become another escort site. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"I've no problem as long as they are up front about it.
... but we DO need to make sure the site isn't inundated with this, because it could change the nature of the site. Nobody wants to see fab become another escort site."
It won't. There are lots of other outlets and methods for those individuals to use, but some combine their work with the opportunity for other scams such identity theft, etc.
I know one guy who was approached by a foreign lady in the street, in Belfast, fell for her hard luck story and lost tens of thousands.
He insists there was no sexual aspect to their so- called relationship, but I think he was paying for 'it'.
The skill on this site, is sifted out the wheat from the chaff.
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"I've no problem as long as they are up front about it.
... but we DO need to make sure the site isn't inundated with this, because it could change the nature of the site. Nobody wants to see fab become another escort site.
It won't. There are lots of other outlets and methods for those individuals to use, but some combine their work with the opportunity for other scams such identity theft, etc.
I know one guy who was approached by a foreign lady in the street, in Belfast, fell for her hard luck story and lost tens of thousands.
He insists there was no sexual aspect to their so- called relationship, but I think he was paying for 'it'.
The skill on this site, is sifted out the wheat from the chaff.
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Not all sex workers behave in that way... just like not all targets will give tens of thousands of euro to someone they met on the street. You have to engage a little grey matter is all. |
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