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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
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so your basically saying you like big strong black men  |
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
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Interesting.
We all have preferences and we all have a way of expressing preferences. We all also have good and bad days.
I think when it comes to the regular Forum users, most of us "know" what's "supposed" to be tongue in cheek and who the "trolls" are when it comes to discussions over preferences on the Forum.
As for reading a profile for the first time which explicitly state certain preferences, first impressions and all that, so negativity or insults would sit with me to an extent.
But I wouldn't approach a profile off the bat where I get the impression that any kind of preferences are expressed with an "attitude" unless it comes across as an attitude with a sense of humour. But sense of humour is very subjective!
And, in fact, I think my profile text might very well fall into one or the other category, depending on your sense of humour?
If you catch my drift
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 54yo chubby guy and not overly well endowed. When I look at a profile and I don't fit the requirements I just move on. Why create issues where none exists. I like big people women and men that's my preference doesn't suit everyone but it doesn't have too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm all for people having preferences and discussing those.
If they use those preferences as a stick to beat others with I've no interest in engaging with them.
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Indeed. It's a bit like "I'm not like those people who ruin it for the rest of us"
It's totally fine to be yourself and express your needs and desires. Dragging others down whilst doing so can be dreadfully off-putting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
Interesting.
We all have preferences and we all have a way of expressing preferences. We all also have good and bad days.
I think when it comes to the regular Forum users, most of us "know" what's "supposed" to be tongue in cheek and who the "trolls" are when it comes to discussions over preferences on the Forum.
As for reading a profile for the first time which explicitly state certain preferences, first impressions and all that, so negativity or insults would sit with me to an extent.
But I wouldn't approach a profile off the bat where I get the impression that any kind of preferences are expressed with an "attitude" unless it comes across as an attitude with a sense of humour. But sense of humour is very subjective!
And, in fact, I think my profile text might very well fall into one or the other category, depending on your sense of humour?
If you catch my drift
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I do. I know our profile also skirts that fine line and not everyone will appreciate the humour. But that's ok too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
Thank fuck for the ** "
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
Interesting.
We all have preferences and we all have a way of expressing preferences. We all also have good and bad days.
I think when it comes to the regular Forum users, most of us "know" what's "supposed" to be tongue in cheek and who the "trolls" are when it comes to discussions over preferences on the Forum.
As for reading a profile for the first time which explicitly state certain preferences, first impressions and all that, so negativity or insults would sit with me to an extent.
But I wouldn't approach a profile off the bat where I get the impression that any kind of preferences are expressed with an "attitude" unless it comes across as an attitude with a sense of humour. But sense of humour is very subjective!
And, in fact, I think my profile text might very well fall into one or the other category, depending on your sense of humour?
If you catch my drift
I do. I know our profile also skirts that fine line and not everyone will appreciate the humour. But that's ok too. "
You have a great profile - very appealing, you know what you want, what you don't want. It's not offensive, in my opinion, and laced with humour. Straight up (or not  , as the case may be), and no bullsh*t  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has they’re own preferences. If you don’t like them, move on. No amount of coercion is going help you. If anything it will go against you.
Yes this is a site that allows you to explore but you shouldn’t feel pressured to go out of your comfort zone or about what you want. That’s a decision that is up to you and everyone needs to respect each other’s preferences and boundaries. |
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Interesting topic!!
During my younger years I would have a certain “type” and yes who doesn’t!!!
As I’m older now and more mature in my attitude towards women , you have to realise we all have bumps a bits we’d like changing.
Yes first impression are everything a nice smile , eyes contact ,dental hygiene little things you would process with out actually knowing
Being in the presence of someone comfortable with there sexuality not shy and can laugh would be a “type” that would make me stand up and notice
Beauty is skin deep cliche I know but maybe I’m just an old romantic lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being in the presence of someone comfortable with there sexuality not shy and can laugh would be a “type” that would make me stand up and notice
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That certainly resonates with us. |
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There’s definitely been a load of “lads” here in the last few days, but they never last.
They burst on the scene acting billy big balls follows by a “why can’t I get meets?” post before shuffling out the back door.
I think a bit of tact gets you a long way here. Whilst certain body types mightn’t be my cup of tea, I still respect the person posting the pics etc as it’s not easy to put yourself out there
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone has they’re own preferences. If you don’t like them, move on. No amount of coercion is going help you. If anything it will go against you.
Yes this is a site that allows you to explore but you shouldn’t feel pressured to go out of your comfort zone or about what you want. That’s a decision that is up to you and everyone needs to respect each other’s preferences and boundaries."
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Everyone has preferences and I have no issue with anyone saying theirs. If they say it in a way that is derogatory to others though it's a major turn off and I won't bother interacting with them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have preferences. I'd rather a guy be honest about what he likes than "pretend" to like me just to get his leg over.
But I have also learned since joining here preferences change and I've been quite surprised at the guys I've hit it off with.
Now where s all the Tom Hardy lookalikes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone has preferences and I have no issue with anyone saying theirs. If they say it in a way that is derogatory to others though it's a major turn off and I won't bother interacting with them ."
That's it...if someone doesn't have the ability to express their preference in a way which isn't derogatory to others whilst doing so, it colours my general opinion of them. I don't understand what purpose it serves. It's less about the preferences themselves but how they're communicated and where the line is crossed.
"You're not my type"
"You're not my type as I'm not interested in guys with beards"
"I'm not interested in guys with beards. Beards are horrible food encrusted dirt traps and you're not coming near with that on your face"
"You're not my type"
"You're not my type because I'm only interested in slim women"
"No offence love but I couldn't get it up for a fat woman no matter how d*unk I was"
"You're not my type"
"You're not my type because I prefer plus size women"
"BBWs only. They're real women. Nobody wants to cuddle a stick insect"
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Well this might go against the grain a little but as my career teacher said just because you don’t tick all the boxes doesn’t mean you should rule yourself out. But then again, the argument is sometimes you don’t tick any boxes so no need applying.
Anyway, nothing ventured nothing gained I suppose but ultimately we must HAVE MANNERS AND RESPECT.
PS careers teacher was useless anyway!! ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We state our preferences clearly on our profile and for the most part people respect them so why not ? M is unfortunately sizeest as are many ladies hence the midget reference but no offence intended just a bit of tongue in cheek reality.
We do like the social side and while you may not meet our preferences we still could end up best of mates at a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were discussing earlier the thread which took a little diversion regarding preferences. We all have them and, as Kenny Rogers famously said, there's someone for everyone. But do you consider how you and others express preferences? If someone expresses a preference but in doing so is insulting to another group do you view the person differently? Do you laud the person regardless for asking for what they want? Are there right & wrong ways to express truthfully held preferences? Have you encountered any shockers? Can you tell the difference?
I prefer fit, toned men.
Fit, toned men only. If you can't see your cock without using a mirror
then don't contact me. There's no point...you leave me drier than the Sahara.
BBC only please
BBC only. Choady white cocks need not apply. No offence meant, I have lots of friends with choady white cocks. But don't bring one near my fanjita because I'm not taking one of those, not even if I'm off my tits
*the views expressed above are for illustrative purposes only*
so your basically saying you like big strong black men "
Ehmmmmm yes please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember when I was a single male here years ago I had "no bbws they do nothing for me"
I thought it was polite enough to the point etc. I often got random messages saying I was fatist etc. Never understand it. Found out later why I was getting these random mails but alas I can't talk about it on the forums. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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Everyone has preferences but it’s more palatable to state your preferences in a positive way rather than a negative. As in “my preference is gym fit bodies” rather than “I’m not attracted to people with fat bodies” |
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