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over a year ago
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?"
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane. |
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"Whst is a true swinger?
You have joined this site knowing the name but you get from it what you wish. "
I often down true time have found you're frowned upon if your outlook is just sex and that's it. I always associated swinging as partner swapping. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane."
good post. I originally got told about here from a female, who at the time was on this site. told me I'd enjoy it (love fun). it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. not saying I'd never meet from here again, it's just a pure lottery at the best of times. |
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over a year ago
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Who knows, some days yes I'd just love if "dial a ride" was a real thing.
Sexually liberated people are easier to find on places like this.
Like a previous poster not sure about the party side of things but enjoy a threesome very much which are pretty hard to come by at this age (out-there)
So definitely looking for sex but on my terms so I'm not going begging, but for the right woman I would, clear as mud, huh....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane.good post. I originally got told about here from a female, who at the time was on this site. told me I'd enjoy it (love fun). it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. not saying I'd never meet from here again, it's just a pure lottery at the best of times. "
I think that we'd get better odds in the lottery.
I'm at a point in my life where I can't be arsed with the whole politics of dating and would like to meet someone who's on the same wavelength. And since my job doesn't have me meeting or intereacting with a lot of people, it's a tough one trying to get a chance to meet others. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane.good post. I originally got told about here from a female, who at the time was on this site. told me I'd enjoy it (love fun). it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. not saying I'd never meet from here again, it's just a pure lottery at the best of times.
I think that we'd get better odds in the lottery.
I'm at a point in my life where I can't be arsed with the whole politics of dating and would like to meet someone who's on the same wavelength. And since my job doesn't have me meeting or intereacting with a lot of people, it's a tough one trying to get a chance to meet others."
would you head out much on weekends? |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane.good post. I originally got told about here from a female, who at the time was on this site. told me I'd enjoy it (love fun). it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. not saying I'd never meet from here again, it's just a pure lottery at the best of times.
I think that we'd get better odds in the lottery.
I'm at a point in my life where I can't be arsed with the whole politics of dating and would like to meet someone who's on the same wavelength. And since my job doesn't have me meeting or intereacting with a lot of people, it's a tough one trying to get a chance to meet others.would you head out much on weekends?"
Now that restrictions are easing up, I will be getting out more...
Mind you, I'm somewhat quiet and reserved, so I tend to just enoy going out and people watching. PLus, not drinking can make nights in a bar realllllly long  |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane.good post. I originally got told about here from a female, who at the time was on this site. told me I'd enjoy it (love fun). it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. not saying I'd never meet from here again, it's just a pure lottery at the best of times.
I think that we'd get better odds in the lottery.
I'm at a point in my life where I can't be arsed with the whole politics of dating and would like to meet someone who's on the same wavelength. And since my job doesn't have me meeting or intereacting with a lot of people, it's a tough one trying to get a chance to meet others.would you head out much on weekends?
Now that restrictions are easing up, I will be getting out more...
Mind you, I'm somewhat quiet and reserved, so I tend to just enoy going out and people watching. PLus, not drinking can make nights in a bar realllllly long "
ye I'd probably only go for a couple of hours if wasn't drinking. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?"
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only?  because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title. "
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only. 
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? |
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? "
not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. "
that's fair enough. you're intent on swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? "
I'd love a woman's perspective on something like this.
I had asked someone before about here and Tinder...
On both I appear to be drawing blanks, and I was stumped. Would genuinely value some female insight and input. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. that's fair enough. you're intent on swinging "
I like women too much that a life of monogamy would be difficult |
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too?
I'd love a woman's perspective on something like this.
I had asked someone before about here and Tinder...
On both I appear to be drawing blanks, and I was stumped. Would genuinely value some female insight and input."
I find on this site, a womans outlook to just sex is different to alot of men. you have to jump through alot of hoops, many areas before you get between the sheets. I'm not saying other sights are 'wam' and away you go but they're alot more straightforward. id use the word complicated when it comes to women on here and NSS. another huge area is the lopsided numbers. |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. that's fair enough. you're intent on swinging
I like women too much that a life of monogamy would be difficult "
just stay single and fuck variety been the spice of life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started as lookin for NSA fun after coming out of being in not intimate for 5 years relationship. Then it turned to enjoyment of social side while having amazing meets now I happily single on here and liking myself again... naturally be nice to be involved in a secure swinging relationship but not actively lookin for it...if it happens it happens |
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"Started as lookin for NSA fun after coming out of being in not intimate for 5 years relationship. Then it turned to enjoyment of social side while having amazing meets now I happily single on here and liking myself again... naturally be nice to be involved in a secure swinging relationship but not actively lookin for it...if it happens it happens "
would you go back to a normal relationship again, just the two of ye, 1 to 1?
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. that's fair enough. you're intent on swinging
I like women too much that a life of monogamy would be difficult just stay single and fuck variety been the spice of life. "
Ah I'm looking for more than fucking long term. More than physical. So a swinging long term partner in a trusted relationship would be the best of both worlds as I'm sure couples on here would agree |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
I'm here to experiment sexually and to have more varied and imaginative sex with like minded people than one would have in a conventional sense but the thoughts of a swinger long term partner would appeal to me very much. that's fair enough. you're intent on swinging
I like women too much that a life of monogamy would be difficult just stay single and fuck variety been the spice of life.
Ah I'm looking for more than fucking long term. More than physical. So a swinging long term partner in a trusted relationship would be the best of both worlds as I'm sure couples on here would agree "
I get ya. enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Started as lookin for NSA fun after coming out of being in not intimate for 5 years relationship. Then it turned to enjoyment of social side while having amazing meets now I happily single on here and liking myself again... naturally be nice to be involved in a secure swinging relationship but not actively lookin for it...if it happens it happens would you go back to a normal relationship again, just the two of ye, 1 to 1?"
To be honest can't say aye or naw... but there will be full on conversation on lifestyle and friends that has been part of my life for last 5 years... and take from there ... |
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"Started as lookin for NSA fun after coming out of being in not intimate for 5 years relationship. Then it turned to enjoyment of social side while having amazing meets now I happily single on here and liking myself again... naturally be nice to be involved in a secure swinging relationship but not actively lookin for it...if it happens it happens would you go back to a normal relationship again, just the two of ye, 1 to 1?
To be honest can't say aye or naw... but there will be full on conversation on lifestyle and friends that has been part of my life for last 5 years... and take from there ... "
that's exactly what I mean, "this lifestyle". you have incorporated into it and the site is more then just sex to u. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?
That's a good question... I'll start the ball rolling.
For me, I suppose I've never really thought about an "endgame" in this. I originally joined out of curiousity and intrigue as to what the lifestyle entailed.
I'm not sure if I'd like to do this "full time" but it is a good escape for me, as I have quite a stressful work life and I do need an outlet for that. That's not just a quick jump though, and I'm not sure about the club scene yet - I'd love to meet a partner who could ease me into that.
So, short answer - a bit of fun to help me stay sane."
Same for me, in short just casual fun with NSA |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only?
I was thinking the same thing I myself am a single lady so that question would apply to myself as well I think.."
And how would you answer it |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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When I stated out first it was just out if curiosity then alo g the way I loved the social side of it and have made some amazing friends ur self Included..I was very self concous at first and was very wary of even playing with people and that has completely gone. I'm not here to find a relationship but stranger things have happened .. |
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over a year ago
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"When I stated out first it was just out if curiosity then alo g the way I loved the social side of it and have made some amazing friends ur self Included..I was very self concous at first and was very wary of even playing with people and that has completely gone. I'm not here to find a relationship but stranger things have happened .."
So ya open to idea of husband number 3 mmmm interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread. "
You’re alienating the females that single guys want to meet  |
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread.
You’re alienating the females that single guys want to meet "
I'm not. I'm clearly asking single men, are u here for some casual fun or do u class yourself as a true swinger and want more. |
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread.
You’re alienating the females that single guys want to meet "
We playing hard to get lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread.
You’re alienating the females that single guys want to meet
We playing hard to get lol "
Oh the tables are turning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? not looking for any particular answer. it's a free forum, if you want to do one for women only, start a thread.
You’re alienating the females that single guys want to meet
We playing hard to get lol
Oh the tables are turning "
Viva La Fab Revolution |
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over a year ago
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"Why is the thread directed at single men only? because I'm talking to single men and aiming the post at them hence the title.
Uuuuuuh! Look at you, big boy talking to the lads only.
I know what answers you're after, wouldn't it be wise to see if there's matching answers from women too? "
If we give the op credit he started this with 2 intentions.
1. to get some answers to his questions
2. To get the single females to start a thread and thus the op has identified single females who like to engage on the forum.
I say well played that man and I tip my hat to you |
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I am single and enjoy being single, I'm in no hurry to find a relationship but if the "right" one cpmes alomng great.
In the meantime I am here for drama free uncomplicated fun and orgasms with like minded people. Im not sure what label that puts me in |
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" it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier. "
Which sites?? Asking for myself.
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I'd love a woman's perspective on something like this.
I had asked someone before about here and Tinder...
On both I appear to be drawing blanks, and I was stumped. Would genuinely value some female insight and input."
Well since you asked so nicely! I'd love to have GOOD sex, or date, or find a relationship. I'm open to all, but what I'm not open to is impersonal, anonymous, "dial a ride" type encounters.
Essentially what I'm looking for is to connect with someone, fancy them, enjoy them, and see what happens. Could be a ONS, could be regular NSA, could be a romantic fling, could be a ring and a baby. From my perspective this is hard to find on Fab (or anywhere tbh) because the majority of men I speak to, while they agree that connected sex is better and say they don't just want a ride, they don't seem to want to dedicate any time to exploring that connection without a guarantee of sex (and just sex) at the end of it.
As for what I'd want from a potential relationship, if it were to happen, I'd want some level of involvement in kink and swing, mostly between the two of us, but also attending events. I'm not a swinger by any definition of the word but I'm open to being monogamish when it feels right.
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" it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier.
Which sites?? Asking for myself.
I'd love a woman's perspective on something like this.
I had asked someone before about here and Tinder...
On both I appear to be drawing blanks, and I was stumped. Would genuinely value some female insight and input.
Well since you asked so nicely! I'd love to have GOOD sex, or date, or find a relationship. I'm open to all, but what I'm not open to is impersonal, anonymous, "dial a ride" type encounters.
Essentially what I'm looking for is to connect with someone, fancy them, enjoy them, and see what happens. Could be a ONS, could be regular NSA, could be a romantic fling, could be a ring and a baby. From my perspective this is hard to find on Fab (or anywhere tbh) because the majority of men I speak to, while they agree that connected sex is better and say they don't just want a ride, they don't seem to want to dedicate any time to exploring that connection without a guarantee of sex (and just sex) at the end of it.
As for what I'd want from a potential relationship, if it were to happen, I'd want some level of involvement in kink and swing, mostly between the two of us, but also attending events. I'm not a swinger by any definition of the word but I'm open to being monogamish when it feels right.
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I'm with ya other than the ring and baby lol |
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I joined because I’d like to get into the lifestyle, having mentioned swinging as a fantasy to many people I’ve dated, it nearly always leads to problems...
I felt that if I met someone here then at least then it’s not such a shock when the fantasies come up.
Haven’t been quite a successful as I’d hoped but I live in hope that my swinging soul mate is out there, going through her millions of messages |
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Tbh Fab can be used as back to front Dating scene ...
Meet someone
instant attraction
(visual first impression)
arrange date get to know more
Arrange more dates , start to get feelings
Then take next step and head to bedroom
Then fully start relationship
Well let's say in Vanilla life ya did that and meet several times to get to know someone ya get feels Then have sex and find out Jesus it's not great... Then more than likely ya going to say nope not for me but ya have invested a lot of feelings and emotions into thinking this can be great relationship...just to turn around and say nope sorry....
But Fab ya have got instant attraction , then coffee meet then play meet...before any real emotions or feelings kick in....
So if person the sex is great least ya know before ya think about investing your emotions and feelings into possible relationship.
If sex is shit then it's simple No and move on no hassles
That's my two cents probably complete bullshit lol |
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Meet someone
instant attraction
(visual first impression)
arrange date get to know more
Arrange more dates , start to get feelings
Then take next step and head to bedroom
Then fully start relationship
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I have very bad news for you about the modern dating scene...  |
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Meet someone
instant attraction
(visual first impression)
arrange date get to know more
Arrange more dates , start to get feelings
Then take next step and head to bedroom
Then fully start relationship
I have very bad news for you about the modern dating scene... "
I am old fashioned haven't been on a proper date since 2004 lol |
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Meet someone
instant attraction
(visual first impression)
arrange date get to know more
Arrange more dates , start to get feelings
Then take next step and head to bedroom
Then fully start relationship
I have very bad news for you about the modern dating scene...
I am old fashioned haven't been on a proper date since 2004 lol "
OK REALLY REALLY bad news 
I haven't been on a proper date since 2015 because they went extinct |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Meet someone
instant attraction
(visual first impression)
arrange date get to know more
Arrange more dates , start to get feelings
Then take next step and head to bedroom
Then fully start relationship
I have very bad news for you about the modern dating scene...
I am old fashioned haven't been on a proper date since 2004 lol
OK REALLY REALLY bad news
I haven't been on a proper date since 2015 because they went extinct "
Why was there no forum post about this ??? |
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"are you on here just for a bit of casual fun or would you eventually like to turn into a true swinger? basically, is your outlook here just pure sex?"
Being honest am here atm to try and find firstly casual fun with a liked minded female and if that happened then take it on whatever road of adventure both desired. |
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" it's ok but other sites are much better if your endgame is just fun. much better in the sense of achieving your goal easier.
Which sites?? Asking for myself.
I'd love a woman's perspective on something like this.
I had asked someone before about here and Tinder...
On both I appear to be drawing blanks, and I was stumped. Would genuinely value some female insight and input.
Well since you asked so nicely! I'd love to have GOOD sex, or date, or find a relationship. I'm open to all, but what I'm not open to is impersonal, anonymous, "dial a ride" type encounters.
Essentially what I'm looking for is to connect with someone, fancy them, enjoy them, and see what happens. Could be a ONS, could be regular NSA, could be a romantic fling, could be a ring and a baby. From my perspective this is hard to find on Fab (or anywhere tbh) because the majority of men I speak to, while they agree that connected sex is better and say they don't just want a ride, they don't seem to want to dedicate any time to exploring that connection without a guarantee of sex (and just sex) at the end of it.
As for what I'd want from a potential relationship, if it were to happen, I'd want some level of involvement in kink and swing, mostly between the two of us, but also attending events. I'm not a swinger by any definition of the word but I'm open to being monogamish when it feels right.
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can't comment on here about other sites but if you're here for plain and pure no strings sex, other sites are far more straightforward in my view. v few other sites have a decent forum like here though. |
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On to chat with women/couples and see what happens. Chat to start with people I like based on their profile, that are chilled, easy going and have similar outlook on life both socially and sexually. Message very few profiles, rather than any and all. Prefer a meet that isn't rushed, establish some friendship and trust with everyone being more comfortable and open as a result |
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