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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I am very late to the party here, I have only just watch Sex life on Netflix.
It got me thinking.
Does everyone have an ex they think of ? Like unfinished business, or what might have been? Maybe the fantasy is better than the reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is the odd time where I find myself thinking “what if…”
But at the end of it all there are waaaaaay more days, even hours, where I think “no, my life good and I’m happy”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its mostly physiological if you start to romantaise ex partners. Over time you forget about the bad things ie why u broke up but remember the good.
As many above has said normally there's a reason they are an ex and ud have to think long and hard about why u would ever think that would change.
Personally I try to live in the present so wouldn't fantasise over an ex, whats done is done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very recently I crazily thought about going back to an ex…. The sex was always amazing but everything else wasn’t 
Thankfully he quickly reminded me the reality of why I left him so I came to my senses.
So yes an ex is an ex for a very good reason - and should stay that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As many have so finely put it, an ex is usually an ex for very valid reasons.
I've had lingering thoughts of exes and wanting to go back and make amends. But, the person I was when I was with them isn't the person that I am now, and any lessons I learned from how I messed up those relationships just stand to show me where not to go wrong next time out.
I still haven't seen Sex Life though. |
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I have an ex that I was utterly infatuated with, even though the relationship was a disaster in so many ways. I still think of him wistfully once in a while. But I'd never get back with him. I've grown & changed, and I would hope he has as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never seen the show. But I know the premise,of it. Some people have came across someone that they think about now and again.
The lucky few, have met people who have gave them memories and feelings that they will never forget or have again.
Other people might satisfy them but will never replace what they once had.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option 
I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good
Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience |
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"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option
I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good
Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience"
Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option
I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good
Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience
Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7 "
 you're worse than me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I am very late to the party here, I have only just watch Sex life on Netflix.
It got me thinking.
Does everyone have an ex they think of ? Like unfinished business, or what might have been? Maybe the fantasy is better than the reality. "
Yes ,there is one in particular l always think of everyday ,l can't lie ,we met here and things went to a level we both never thought would.. ,clicked..sparked big time and everything was just absolutely phenomenal so yes l would have thoughts of her and all in a great way,why wouldn't l ?..she filled my soul and made me feel alive. |
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"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option
I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good
Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience
Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7
you're worse than me! "
The black widows  |
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