It depends on your level of expectation and what you class as successful.
There's no one size fits all and taking generic advice from strangers on the internet isn't going to make a great deal of difference.
Your own personality, demeanour and approach will differ from everyone else's so that's your USP and it's up to you how you market that. |
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over a year ago
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I saw a post yesterday on this that for me sumed it all up
Don’t look as it as a fast wham bang or hook up place
Look at this site as a place to talk with similar minded people
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"It depends on your level of expectation and what you class as successful.
There's no one size fits all and taking generic advice from strangers on the internet isn't going to make a great deal of difference.
Your own personality, demeanour and approach will differ from everyone else's so that's your USP and it's up to you how you market that. "
Whilst I don’t agree with some of this and think there are very specific things you can do (fab has been the ultimate game of two halves for me) I do absolutely agree that’s the USP is vital. 19 blokes for one lady or couple in some counties , How are you gonna stand out ? |
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I think putting in the effort with profile and pictures does help to reap the Fab rewards. For example I chatted to a brand new single guys profile on Monday as I loved his bio as it was well written. He's actually driving up from Cork this morning to get coffee to get verified now that's putting in the effort. |
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"It depends on your level of expectation and what you class as successful.
There's no one size fits all and taking generic advice from strangers on the internet isn't going to make a great deal of difference.
Your own personality, demeanour and approach will differ from everyone else's so that's your USP and it's up to you how you market that. "
This sums it up well and as others have said just be yourself. There’s something for everyone and no point in losing your way into someone’s good books. It also comes down to what you want as it won’t always be what everyone wants. A good bio and some pictures that appeal to those you are trying to interest, your bio and pictures are a big insure into who you are on here. Good luck |
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"I think putting in the effort with profile and pictures does help to reap the Fab rewards. For example I chatted to a brand new single guys profile on Monday as I loved his bio as it was well written. He's actually driving up from Cork this morning to get coffee to get verified now that's putting in the effort. "
I’ll look at this. Seems great advice also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am new here so wondering if anyone has advice for me. I hav sent a few messages,only one has replied. I hav been respectful and everything like that. Maybe my profile is wrong? Anybody any advice? |
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"Am new here so wondering if anyone has advice for me. I hav sent a few messages,only one has replied. I hav been respectful and everything like that. Maybe my profile is wrong? Anybody any advice?"
Effort and patience. In that order.
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over a year ago
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Ok thanks. I have been putting in the effort,looking at profiles,messaging,winking etc. And only contacting those that suit my preference. Have good patience so will wait and see how it goes. |
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"I think putting in the effort with profile and pictures does help to reap the Fab rewards. For example I chatted to a brand new single guys profile on Monday as I loved his bio as it was well written. He's actually driving up from Cork this morning to get coffee to get verified now that's putting in the effort.
I’ll look at this. Seems great advice also "
It was totally worth the spin in his case he got lots of advice a glowing verify and I'm going on hols to Cork soon just to meet him. So time and effort does pay off. |
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Yes for sure. Deffo meet for coffee and get all the advice from members sounds good to me. What to put in a message tho to get the conversation going. I have been on another site where i chatted to loads of people and met a few as well. But my messages on here arent having the same effect to get going as on the other site. |
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"Yes for sure. Deffo meet for coffee and get all the advice from members sounds good to me. What to put in a message tho to get the conversation going. I have been on another site where i chatted to loads of people and met a few as well. But my messages on here arent having the same effect to get going as on the other site."
Most people look at profiles before even opening a message so that's where the effort is required first and foremost before contacting anyone.
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean by successful and what your expectations are.
I’ve has a bit of a laugh here, good banter with nice people, for me so far that’s success and anything else is a bonus….?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely be yourself don't lie, don't bombard ladies with dick pics, read the profiles you'll generally find some ladies have a key word to put in the message header. Best of luck my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you. I dont send dick pics at all. Unless they want to see my pvt pics. Am really respectful in my messages and profile so we will see how it goes. Jst cant seem to get going the same as the previous site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I get that man, I was the same you'll get there eventually, but definitely be active on the forum's that definately helps. And I find taking the taking the chat to . another chatting app i.e k. I. K can help to spice up the chats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a newbie I was thinking exactly the same. Not getting any responses but yet I was being polite and not sending dick pics.is it not the polite thing to write back and say not interested tho? |
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As already said, you get out what you put in.
It's pointless being polite if the people you are being polite to can see little or nothing about you that may catch their eye beyond the few words in your opening message.
That comes from your shop window which is your profile.
If it isn't attractive or detailed enough they will move on to the next shop. |
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over a year ago
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"Yes sounds good lol. Most of the girls i hav messaged hav read the msg but havnt looked at my profile. Are the winks any good to send? "
You may think they haven't, but many on here will be in ninja mode so you won't be able to see that they've looked at your profile |
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