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To PM or not to PM

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When it comes to private messaging what rules someone like me or out for you? What are you looking for when you’re browsing profiles? What would rule my profile in or out when it comes to private messaging? Besides where I live and my sexual orientation I mean. Lol Thoughts on this please folks.

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By *ileen_cdTV/TS over a year ago

Dublin

Your profile is good, it is descriptive enough. Photos are decent enough too.

My own pet peeve when receiving DMs is people asking short pointless questions like "you horny" or "wanna meet". Even if I want to meet, I want to know what are you looking for and exactly when and where.

Another turn off is a message that does not mention my name or anything specific about me. There is a suspicion that the person just spamming everyone with the same generic message.

In summary, a good DM is short, personal and descriptive.

But the main deciding factor are your verifications. Everything else is much less important.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have a well written profile just take out the bit about Sydney university that's total bullshit even Fab admin mentions it in the FAQ section

Your face photos are very blurry so upload better quality ones

Besides from that you have a great profile you are verified have well written profile and good photos. It just takes while to get established on Fab as a single guy. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have a well written profile just take out the bit about Sydney university that's total bullshit even Fab admin mentions it in the FAQ section

Your face photos are very blurry so upload better quality ones

Besides from that you have a great profile you are verified have well written profile and good photos. It just takes while to get established on Fab as a single guy. Good luck "

Sydney university bullshit and face pic’s deleted thanks for the advice.

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By *orny unicornsCouple over a year ago

Tipperary

Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

From the FAQ section of fab

We've noticed a legal disclaimer paragraph that some people have on their profiles. Should we have one too? What are they about? Do they do any good?

The "legal disclaimer" is pointless nonsense and all does is take up extra space on our servers. Please remove it if you have it on your profile. If you're worried about privacy please set your account to be hidden from non-registered users on your privacy page (this also hides it from search engines but may take a week or two to drop out of search) and remove the notice (and encourage others to do likewise).

Common sense advice would be NOT to put any information on your profile (here, or on any such site) that could identify you or that you don't want to become public! So for your own benefit, don't post phone numbers, real names or email / instant message addresses on your profile that people might see or "Google".

Some people may put non-identifying pics on their public profile but keep face pics private or for friends, for example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

Photos can be easily copied and pasted into other profiles, not sure about the Sydney University speech to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

I would advise you to watermark photos. See where I have Rosyredlips written on mine. Mine were taken last week and used on a fetish site to set up a new profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

From the FAQ section of fab

We've noticed a legal disclaimer paragraph that some people have on their profiles. Should we have one too? What are they about? Do they do any good?

Some people may put non-identifying pics on their public profile but keep face pics private or for friends, for example."

Nothing wrong with your profile as is, love your list of hobbies, I’d give myself a higher mark than a 5 if I was you. Flawless looking bum, but that’s me for you love a nice bum. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

I would advise you to watermark photos. See where I have Rosyredlips written on mine. Mine were taken last week and used on a fetish site to set up a new profile. "

Good luck with your masters, believe you’ve been studying at the Sydney University. Lol Okay let me in on the secret how do I watermark my pics, haven’t a bloody clue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

I would advise you to watermark photos. See where I have Rosyredlips written on mine. Mine were taken last week and used on a fetish site to set up a new profile.

Good luck with your masters, believe you’ve been studying at the Sydney University. Lol Okay let me in on the secret how do I watermark my pics, haven’t a bloody clue.

Go into your gallery of photos select photo you are using. Select edit and text button and type in name ie Rosyredlips. People are less likely to take your photos if they have to crop out the name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it really a thing with the Sydney University speech.i never had any worries about my pics bein stolen and used for anything.my better half I would have more concerns about tho

I would advise you to watermark photos. See where I have Rosyredlips written on mine. Mine were taken last week and used on a fetish site to set up a new profile.

Good luck with your masters, believe you’ve been studying at the Sydney University. Lol Okay let me in on the secret how do I watermark my pics, haven’t a bloody clue.

Go into your gallery of photos select photo you are using. Select edit and text button and type in name ie Rosyredlips. People are less likely to take your photos if they have to crop out the name. "

Thanks, I owe you one.