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What do you hope to get out of fab ?
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
For me the priority is
1. Meeting with people that I feel fulfilled by
2. That I get on with well enough to see regularly and for us to care for another but not to develop a relationship as such
3. To have online friends and acquaintances that I can chat to here or through PMs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first got introduced to it in Oz I fell in love with the community sense of it all. Very hippyish. No judgement easy going and social.
I was hoping to find that with my reintroduction in Eire. Still looking though covid has got in the way.
Still hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart.. "
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
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Just avoid them. I'm on/ off the site a few years abd there is always neg threads that's why I try and post fun threads. Ignore the toxic people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me the priority is
1. Meeting with people that I feel fulfilled by
2. That I get on with well enough to see regularly and for us to care for another but not to develop a relationship as such
3. To have online friends and acquaintances that I can chat to here or through PMs "
When I joined first I was told fab would get me back in the saddle and improve my confidence.
I'm on/off a few years and for me now I enjoy the threads most of the time, I've made good friends.
So my wants from fab for the rest of 2021
1) def still looking for the elusive fwb to explore sex and have a laugh at the same time.
2) get to a few socials
3) maybe chance a party |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
I would be happy to get any meets cause so far Xmas happens to me more often... .
Looking for genuine people id be on the same vibe
Not being judged
Just pure joy of being with someone and share the passion back to them
Find positive and vibrant relationship
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Some mutually pleasureable time occasionally with a sane hot guy. I make it sound so easy!   "
I guess Women on Fab, can not complain about choice of man on here?
I am pretty sure there is plenty "good" once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some mutually pleasureable time occasionally with a sane hot guy. I make it sound so easy!
It can be easy just need to find the right person xx"
Oh i have found a few, i just dont find them that often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have any expectations from fab, although I have met some lovely genuine people since I joined over six months ago. Thankfully I have a few good honest fwb's I have known for years, so can afford to be fairly selective. |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Some mutually pleasureable time occasionally with a sane hot guy. I make it sound so easy!
It can be easy just need to find the right person xx
Oh i have found a few, i just dont find them that often "
Maybe if have them so often you would not take more notice...this way you can appreciate them more  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
When I joined it was to get me back in the saddle so to speak as I had been celibate for a long time. And I wasn't sure about the site and if I would stay on here for long.
Over time what I look for has slightly changed and I have learned to more open about what I like and want.
I've also learnt to enjoy the social side and getting to know others on here . |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"When I joined it was to get me back in the saddle so to speak as I had been celibate for a long time. And I wasn't sure about the site and if I would stay on here for long.
Over time what I look for has slightly changed and I have learned to more open about what I like and want.
I've also learnt to enjoy the social side and getting to know others on here ."
Bravo! That is such a positive spirit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
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What type of threads do you enjoy?
What threads have you started recently?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
What type of threads do you enjoy?
What threads have you started recently?
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I enjoy quite a few truth be told.
I try to inject some laughter and fun in my replies but its hard at times as stated above... when i do start a thread it will be what interests me.. its been a while since i did.. anymore questions? |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
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It's these kinda threads that keep me here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
What type of threads do you enjoy?
What threads have you started recently?
I enjoy quite a few truth be told.
I try to inject some laughter and fun in my replies but its hard at times as stated above... when i do start a thread it will be what interests me.. its been a while since i did.. anymore questions?"
Do you find that the general vibe and tone on the forums affects your own mood? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
It's these kinda threads that keep me here. "
Me too... I think we are damaged.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
What type of threads do you enjoy?
What threads have you started recently?
I enjoy quite a few truth be told.
I try to inject some laughter and fun in my replies but its hard at times as stated above... when i do start a thread it will be what interests me.. its been a while since i did.. anymore questions?
Do you find that the general vibe and tone on the forums affects your own mood?"
My therapist doesn't ask me as many questions. The answer is no they dont affect my mood. |
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I'd like to meet open minded people and see what new discoveries I can make sexually. My most enjoyable and best years have been the last 10 or so as I've experimented and communicated more and would like to continue in this vein. Drama free sex. Fun sex. Playful sex. Better sex.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To meet new and exciting ppl, no expectations but so far it's been good but would definitely like to meet more that are in my hot list"
Somebody start a "am I on your hotlist?" thread quick  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
As I was formerly on another two sites, that proved to be disappointing my ambitions are simple; make some contacts, enjoy the forum and get a feel for what is really happening on the swinging scene; if this progresses to any meets, well and good........ |
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I came on here to try to connect with more open minded people than I know personally.
To get an idea of what the world of swinging is like for all sides, read peoples stories, experiences, advice etc. Make myself more aware of the community.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined for a FWB,
quickly changed that to 'for the fellas and the craic' and learning more about myself and others sexually.
I love the chats, the flirts the forums and making friends.
Fabtastic |
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart..
Thread titles
Violence
Shocking
Unhinged
Must include face pic
Vaccinated vs Unvaccinated
That's in the last day
Just avoid them. I'm on/ off the site a few years abd there is always neg threads that's why I try and post fun threads. Ignore the toxic people."
I thought the same. That's why I did the theme song one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting back to socials, party's, nights out basically. We never had any high expectations . For us it was about letting our hair down and enjoying meetings people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no expectations, but I know what I'd like...
Well don't keep us in suspense! Lol"
I think I'm brave enough now to visit a club.. so that's on my list anyway
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"I have no expectations, but I know what I'd like...
Well don't keep us in suspense! Lol
I think I'm brave enough now to visit a club.. so that's on my list anyway
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Yea, I can see how that's a big step. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"I have no expectations, but I know what I'd like...
Well don't keep us in suspense! Lol
I think I'm brave enough now to visit a club.. so that's on my list anyway
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My persona outside of fab would inhibit me from doing so so much . It’s almost like there is a second me who takes over when stepping into all things fab , with fewer inhibitions and more of a ‘why not?’ Attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to tie two women together and to tease them til they exploded.
Still have not gotten there.
However what we have done is far beyond our expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no expectations, but I know what I'd like...
Well don't keep us in suspense! Lol
I think I'm brave enough now to visit a club.. so that's on my list anyway
My persona outside of fab would inhibit me from doing so so much . It’s almost like there is a second me who takes over when stepping into all things fab , with fewer inhibitions and more of a ‘why not?’ Attitude "
I've made some really good friends from being here, and had a lot of fun, but like you I've now got more of a "why not" attitude. I want to try more, I want to be braver.
If I don't like something, I won't do it again - simple. But at least I won't be looking back wishing I'd taken the chance/opportunity. |
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Find a gent to ride for a long time
Woman like you should have no problem with finding one
One would think right  "
I am more then sure that in your forest there is plenty of useful dwarfs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good laugh with like minded people and sex when it comes. "
Pretty much the same as this for me as well, and to get to attend a party/socials as well and really get to explore qnd experience the full experience of sex and being around like minded people as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart.. "
the bitchyness and cliques on fab are sad in fairness. Fab is supposed to be about sex and an escape from real life so many pour their souls into it . They live n breathe fab. Iv been at parties where a woman was crying over a guy shagging someone else. Tears in full flow all night then she verified me that it was a great night . Like wtf , believe me I didn't return a veri because I'd only want to speak the truth of her. Wat do I say in that veri ? Stunning girl, although she spent the night crying over an attached guy. I'm not here for the rows and lick arsing. As a friend once said , I'm here for the banging
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart.. the bitchyness and cliques on fab are sad in fairness. Fab is supposed to be about sex and an escape from real life so many pour their souls into it . They live n breathe fab. Iv been at parties where a woman was crying over a guy shagging someone else. Tears in full flow all night then she verified me that it was a great night . Like wtf , believe me I didn't return a veri because I'd only want to speak the truth of her. Wat do I say in that veri ? Stunning girl, although she spent the night crying over an attached guy. I'm not here for the rows and lick arsing. As a friend once said , I'm here for the banging"
That sounds a bit odd, did she not get the memo ? Surely the only point of attending a party over a 1:1 encounter is the possibility of multiple sexual encounters |
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"That the forums would get better and not so depressing as of late.. seriously the negativity and rudeness is off the chart.. the bitchyness and cliques on fab are sad in fairness. Fab is supposed to be about sex and an escape from real life so many pour their souls into it . They live n breathe fab. Iv been at parties where a woman was crying over a guy shagging someone else. Tears in full flow all night then she verified me that it was a great night . Like wtf , believe me I didn't return a veri because I'd only want to speak the truth of her. Wat do I say in that veri ? Stunning girl, although she spent the night crying over an attached guy. I'm not here for the rows and lick arsing. As a friend once said , I'm here for the banging
That sounds a bit odd, did she not get the memo ? Surely the only point of attending a party over a 1:1 encounter is the possibility of multiple sexual encounters "
Jealousy is a strange emotion. It can affect anyone. I prefer one to one's rather than parties. I've been at a club where I saw the most beautiful woman, great personality, great chat.. And even though it was a swingers club, and we had been intimate, when I saw "my girl" with another guy, I felt a stab of jealousy. It didn't affect me for long, and I got over it quickly, but i can understand how someone feels seeing their fav fabber in flagrante delicto with someone else in the hot tub. |
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There are no words. Or at least I can't make sense of it. this is a grown lady we speak of not just some young girl with no life experience. As a woman ,criticise me if u wish , she should know better b4 coming into this game. just one of many things iv witnessed at parties/socials , it pays to sit in the background voyeuring my surroundings. Il be found in the corner stoned at a party it helps to be able to listen to the drama iv encounter throughout the evening. If u see me lads sure throw your cock my way . Il suck it because surely that's wat sex parties are for ? 