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I don't send messages so all my mail is unsolicited.
I average one message every couple of weeks but that can increase depending on forum engagement and it's not rare for me to go a month with no messages at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do ye receive unsolicited mail? Ye often have someone else make the first move?
It's a rarity for me but wondering what others have experienced regarding this"
Unsolicated mails been offered
BJ 19 times , sex 16times , both at same time 12 times, being rimmed 4 times and been asked if can piss on them once...was common theme none from Woman  |
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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"From men, a fair amount.  . From women. 
The nature of the beast though and I would expect the same from 99% of guys. "
Yeah I hear ya! I only have lads not blocked so I can get invites to parties etc. but yes the majority of mine are of the 'not for me thanks lads and I say that in my profile' variety |
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"I’m on fabswingers over a year and still haven’t found anyone I don’t know how people get so lucky."
You get out what you put in and it depends on your level of expectation. It has nothing to do with luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do ye receive unsolicited mail? Ye often have someone else make the first move?
It's a rarity for me but wondering what others have experienced regarding this"
A lot from men but none from women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do ye receive unsolicited mail? Ye often have someone else make the first move?
It's a rarity for me but wondering what others have experienced regarding this
A lot from men but none from women "
A mails a male !
Wait, that's not right... |
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Every once in a while I’ll log in to see the highlighted inbox with a message from someone I haven’t spoken to before. Always a nice surprise, who knows where it will lead. Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn’t. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
I continue conversations everyday with people that I've been talking to for months at this stage
None of the conversations are about sex and the start of most of them were puzzles that I'd posted
Don't know whether they count or not but during the pandemic it was the thing to do as most people were not having meets amyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a lot of mail from seemingly straight men offering discreet oral sex totally out of the blue, This is worrying because some of these men have validations from couples saying no gay or bi men on their profiles. |
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Got a few from males offering various things when I first signed up and then figured out how to set mail preferences.
Have gotten a couple of messages from women and couples from forum use. No unsolicited messages as regards meeting etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Averaging about 1 every other day. Always men and CD/TVs and 9/10 they clearly haven't read my profile or sent any pics so straight in the bin they go.
The odd time it's worth responding to but they never seem as exciting as when I message first and get a response. The chase is better than the catch and all that. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
In the last month women and couples have started to write first which I am shocked by
Men writing three word messages ? Daily but I have not blocked them and it’s ok. I am needy enough for it to be an ego boost . Never act on it though as I have a very specific type which includes ‘chatty’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of them come from me for me. All asking if I want them to suck me off. The clearly didn’t read the profile, especially when it says that I’m not into guys.
Hardly any from women |
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"Most of them come from me for me. All asking if I want them to suck me off. The clearly didn’t read the profile, especially when it says that I’m not into guys.
Hardly any from women "
Offering to suck yourself off? Fair play!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do ye receive unsolicited mail? Ye often have someone else make the first move?
It's a rarity for me but wondering what others have experienced regarding this
A lot from men but none from women
A mails a male !
Wait, that's not right..."
Nope that's not right lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I receive on average 4 mails a week, and 100% are from fellas offering me a blowjob
I get all excited when I see I've got mail, then I open it "
Know that feeling man lol |
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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Isn’t all mail unsolicited? I think that term is misused here
I rarely send a first message and have had women make the first move  "
Unsolicited adjective :
given or supplied without being requested or asked for:
If you send a message a response to your message isn't unsolicited. If you receive a first message from someone else it can be unsolicited. I don't see any 'misuse' on my part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every once in a while I’ll log in to see the highlighted inbox with a message from someone I haven’t spoken to before. Always a nice surprise, who knows where it will lead. Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn’t. "
Not often but occasionally get some messages like this .. I’ve blocked guys early on because it’s easier.. although couples profiles lately I’m getting suspect about some.. possible fakes..  |
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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Most of them come from me for me. All asking if I want them to suck me off. The clearly didn’t read the profile, especially when it says that I’m not into guys.
Hardly any from women
Offering to suck yourself off? Fair play! "
That's the dream there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very rarely send out msgs but I have been know to send about 23 since I joined. I'm some a horndog really. I need to step up my game I think. Always good for chats though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of them come from me for me. All asking if I want them to suck me off. The clearly didn’t read the profile, especially when it says that I’m not into guys.
Hardly any from women
Offering to suck yourself off? Fair play!
That's the dream there. "
Ffs! I meant “most of them come from men for me” lol can’t type for shit |
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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Outside of forum threads/games and good friends my inbox would be virtually empty.
I don't even get offers from other men! I feel kinda left out  "
That's just an invite for lads to mail you
I even had a lad proposition me yesterday when I was out for a walk in dublin, I don't know what kinda feckin signals I'm giving off recently
And no I wasn't in a known dogging spot or anything similar, just a regular Dublin street in a residential area. I'm glad I'd left my short shorts behind |
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"Outside of forum threads/games and good friends my inbox would be virtually empty.
I don't even get offers from other men! I feel kinda left out
That's just an invite for lads to mail you
I even had a lad proposition me yesterday when I was out for a walk in dublin, I don't know what kinda feckin signals I'm giving off recently
And no I wasn't in a known dogging spot or anything similar, just a regular Dublin street in a residential area. I'm glad I'd left my short shorts behind "
Walking around in your underwear will always elicit those type of responses.  |
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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Outside of forum threads/games and good friends my inbox would be virtually empty.
I don't even get offers from other men! I feel kinda left out
That's just an invite for lads to mail you
I even had a lad proposition me yesterday when I was out for a walk in dublin, I don't know what kinda feckin signals I'm giving off recently
And no I wasn't in a known dogging spot or anything similar, just a regular Dublin street in a residential area. I'm glad I'd left my short shorts behind
Walking around in your underwear will always elicit those type of responses. "
It may have been the thong that did it alright |
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"Outside of forum threads/games and good friends my inbox would be virtually empty.
I don't even get offers from other men! I feel kinda left out
That's just an invite for lads to mail you
I even had a lad proposition me yesterday when I was out for a walk in dublin, I don't know what kinda feckin signals I'm giving off recently
And no I wasn't in a known dogging spot or anything similar, just a regular Dublin street in a residential area. I'm glad I'd left my short shorts behind
Walking around in your underwear will always elicit those type of responses.
It may have been the thong that did it alright "
Mother of God! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Outside of forum threads/games and good friends my inbox would be virtually empty.
I don't even get offers from other men! I feel kinda left out
That's just an invite for lads to mail you
I even had a lad proposition me yesterday when I was out for a walk in dublin, I don't know what kinda feckin signals I'm giving off recently
And no I wasn't in a known dogging spot or anything similar, just a regular Dublin street in a residential area. I'm glad I'd left my short shorts behind "
too funny
Would love to have seen your face |
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By *man79Man
over a year ago
newry dundalk. warrenpoint |
"How often do ye receive unsolicited mail? Ye often have someone else make the first move?
It's a rarity for me but wondering what others have experienced regarding this"
Every day! Thinking of cloning myself |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
Weekly usually off guys suffering the sunday morning horn and the occasional female friend asking does my ass look big in this (pic attached) as they are off out to get shagged by some fecker other than me dont you just hate the fooking friend zone
Really some of my best meets have being from first contacts from females usually trough interaction on the forums or chat rooms these are not often, but I think of them as the diamonds in the rough the cream of the crop so to speak
Moral of the story is ladys if u want to be in the cream mail me |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Doesn't happen.
Between my filters, my specifically shite pics and my profile, I'm blissfully not in need of a secretary.
Previous profile was inundated, don't ya know, though I learned my lesson and adjusted accordingly.
Now I only get a rare ping that I might have interest in.
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And on Fab it seems like there's bi bi and straight bi, whatever that means.
My all time favourite unsolicited message on Fab was the single line "I want to be a straight man's fart cushion".
Now if I was straight, which my profile clearly says I'm not, why would I want to sit on a guy's face? 
Answers on a postcard please for that one. |
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