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Naming and shaming
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Can we set up a post with all the time wasting people that don't show up for meets,just a suggestion it might discourage people from making fools of people, it takes a lot of organising to get away between babysitters and hotel and to be stood up is very frustrating, we are all here for a bit of excitement there is no need for this kind of carry-on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think the powers that be would allow naming and shaming over forums.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No because it's against the site rules and open to abuse & misuse |
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potentially libellous assuming a person was minded to sue, which probably wouldnt be the case, given people like their privacy |
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What's to stop someone adding a person's name out of spite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone doesnt show for a meet you can report them to admin. Public naming and shaming is open to abuse and i think people get enough of that on here as it is. I understand the frustration as we have been in the same situation but just report, block and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well simple advice choose wisely who you want to meet. More chat, webcam , phone call get to know the person may be you will come to know who he or she really is before the meet day.
Some people are expert in camouflage
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Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?
I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?
I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs "
I always assume some of the no-show are for socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get why this keeps happening. Why are we here for if its not to meet each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we set up a post with all the time wasting people that don't show up for meets,just a suggestion it might discourage people from making fools of people, it takes a lot of organising to get away between babysitters and hotel and to be stood up is very frustrating, we are all here for a bit of excitement there is no need for this kind of carry-on "
This is what private notes are for. So you can make notes about a person for your own reference without naming and shaming.
Naming and shaming is generally bad form.
Although I do share your frustration as Missus and I get stood up all the time. Our best method of dealing with this is just a simple block and move on. |
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"Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?
I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs
I always assume some of the no-show are for socials."
I'm referring specifically to fun meets, not socials as they require more preparation and expense |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
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Have never not shown up when I said I would but have been stood up loads of times by girls and couples.
Even been ghosted a few times where they just vanished |
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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago
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Maybe a "name and commend" list and put all the good ones there.
Especially the genuine singles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe a "name and commend" list and put all the good ones there.
Especially the genuine singles. "
So verifications then? |
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No you can't use the forums, your profile or status to name and shame other members.
If someone has arranged a meet and are a no show, then please report so Admin can have a look. |
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