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What turns couples off from young guys
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im a young guy and im finding it hard to attract couples. I feel its becase of my age. Im mature. Ik how this stuff works. But i dobt have any on the ground experence so how much can i really know. |
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I think most couples struggle to make a connection with guys that are very very different in age from them. Conversation might be difficult/awkward. Interests might be different. Body types will be different.
Also as per the "expert" thread you need 10,000 hours of something to master something. Experience counts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You say you know how this stuff works. What do you mean by that? You're a similar age to one of our younger children and I guarantee that they and their peers don't have the life experience and emotional maturity for this lark. Of course there are older people who don't either but I'm speaking generally.
But quite simply for us it's as has already been said...it's unlikely we'd have enough in common to make a sexual connection, we've children around the same age, and whilst legal I'd not feel at ease fucking a teenager...it just doesn't sit well with me |
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"Im a young guy and im finding it hard to attract couples. I feel its becase of my age. Im mature. Ik how this stuff works. But i dobt have any on the ground experence so how much can i really know. "
I’m a lot older than you and finding it hard to attract couples too
Jokes aside though, you kind of answered your own query by saying you know how this works! People are on here to make connections with people on the same level as them. While technically you’re an adult…….people won’t be too keen on having sex with a teenager! |
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"You say you know how this stuff works. What do you mean by that? You're a similar age to one of our younger children and I guarantee that they and their peers don't have the life experience and emotional maturity for this lark. Of course there are older people who don't either but I'm speaking generally.
But quite simply for us it's as has already been said...it's unlikely we'd have enough in common to make a sexual connection, we've children around the same age, and whilst legal I'd not feel at ease fucking a teenager...it just doesn't sit well with me"
Would this be the same for a teenage girl? How do men in couples feel about fucking a teenager |
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"You say you know how this stuff works. What do you mean by that? You're a similar age to one of our younger children and I guarantee that they and their peers don't have the life experience and emotional maturity for this lark. Of course there are older people who don't either but I'm speaking generally.
But quite simply for us it's as has already been said...it's unlikely we'd have enough in common to make a sexual connection, we've children around the same age, and whilst legal I'd not feel at ease fucking a teenager...it just doesn't sit well with me
Would this be the same for a teenage girl? How do men in couples feel about fucking a teenager "
I feel exactly the same. I won't meet anyone within 10 years of my eldest daughter.
I don't have the slightest interest in anyone that age and it's the very first thing I look at on a profile before deciding to look at the pics or not. If they are that age I close the profile and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From experience younger men can cause drama, get attached too fast and expect more but on the other hand I've met some who are mature, understand the lifestyle and are incredibly respectful. We've learned to chat and see how they behave in mails before moving to socials. Luckily we've met some genuine younger guys. Just be patient, persevere and be respectful and you'll find there are people who do enjoy meeting younger |
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By *andaCouple
over a year ago
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It’s all been said in the previous posters. So many reasons. For us it’s a case of we have kids your age and jeans older than you. Highly unlikely we would get that spark to progress to play. Maybe fabbers in their 20s might be interested though. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s all been said in the previous posters. So many reasons. For us it’s a case of we have kids your age and jeans older than you. Highly unlikely we would get that spark to progress to play. Maybe fabbers in their 20s might be interested though. Good luck "
I think I may have knickers older than him and I definitely have a piece of underwear that was bought in Ann summers in 94 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say you know how this stuff works. What do you mean by that? You're a similar age to one of our younger children and I guarantee that they and their peers don't have the life experience and emotional maturity for this lark. Of course there are older people who don't either but I'm speaking generally.
But quite simply for us it's as has already been said...it's unlikely we'd have enough in common to make a sexual connection, we've children around the same age, and whilst legal I'd not feel at ease fucking a teenager...it just doesn't sit well with me
Would this be the same for a teenage girl? How do men in couples feel about fucking a teenager "
It absolutely would having a teenage girl myself. In fact we have on a couple of occasions said no for that very reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The same things that turn us off older guys: immature or diva behaviour, arrogance or cockiness, being treated like a box to be ticked rather than as human beings, blowing hot and cold, it's just that these are a bit more prevalent in younger males.
Also, something that seems to be peculiar to younger men, ending every sentence with "ha"
Plus the multiple reasons given above by other couples |
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It is hard to meet them anyway. It's not like going to a pub where you can start chatting and click with someone and go home with them.
Online you have to just be polite and stand in line and wait and hope.
It's the same online on all dating sites. On tinder maybe 5 people will speak to you today, but realistically probably swiped on 100 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s all been said in the previous posters. So many reasons. For us it’s a case of we have kids your age and jeans older than you. Highly unlikely we would get that spark to progress to play. Maybe fabbers in their 20s might be interested though. Good luck
I think I may have knickers older than him and I definitely have a piece of underwear that was bought in Ann summers in 94 "
Hahaha
The thought of it!
Good one
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yea i mean i understand how the people in the life style arnt old angry pervs who cheat on echother every nighy. I u derstand why people swing. The diffrence between swinging and cheating. And i like to beleve i can hold a mature conversation as an adult |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You say you know how this stuff works. What do you mean by that? You're a similar age to one of our younger children and I guarantee that they and their peers don't have the life experience and emotional maturity for this lark. Of course there are older people who don't either but I'm speaking generally.
But quite simply for us it's as has already been said...it's unlikely we'd have enough in common to make a sexual connection, we've children around the same age, and whilst legal I'd not feel at ease fucking a teenager...it just doesn't sit well with me
Would this be the same for a teenage girl? How do men in couples feel about fucking a teenager "
Fuck yes thats a perfect example |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s all been said in the previous posters. So many reasons. For us it’s a case of we have kids your age and jeans older than you. Highly unlikely we would get that spark to progress to play. Maybe fabbers in their 20s might be interested though. Good luck
I think I may have knickers older than him and I definitely have a piece of underwear that was bought in Ann summers in 94 "
And i find that attracive. The massive age gap is enjoable for me |
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