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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow

Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Spend more time in the forums and be patient.

There are no sure fire answers but without doubt patience is a virtue as long as you back that up by engaging in here and allowing others to see your personality.

The last thing you want to do is complain about messages not being read as there are lots of reasons for that.

And single men don't all have a bad rep on here. Some do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As rb said above get involved in forums, few new pics too.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan

If what you're doing isn't working then do the opposite. Multiple copy & paste messages with cock pics may be the way forward.

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By *ittle-unicornWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

I really do feel for single guys, the odds are stacked against you! I honestly don’t have the time to reply to every single message, regardless of how genuine someone might be. The ladies of fab get absolutely swamped, so choices have to be made quickly on who you want to reply to.

For me, I’m far more likely to reply if someone includes a face pic, as attraction is important to me. So if I like the look of you, I’ll probably reply. That said, if the message is poor (eg “hi”, “how’s you”, “want to fuck now”) it’ll get deleted as well.

Personally, the things I look for are:

Face pic

A bit of thought/effort with the message

A bit of thought/effort with the profile

Verified

Then it just comes down to if I’m attracted to you or not…

I’d also recommend getting to events now that things are starting to open back up. That way you can chat to people in real life and start to make connections that way

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By *razy-CplCouple  over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please."

Is that u rob

Mr crazy

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"I really do feel for single guys, the odds are stacked against you! I honestly don’t have the time to reply to every single message, regardless of how genuine someone might be. The ladies of fab get absolutely swamped, so choices have to be made quickly on who you want to reply to.

For me, I’m far more likely to reply if someone includes a face pic, as attraction is important to me. So if I like the look of you, I’ll probably reply. That said, if the message is poor (eg “hi”, “how’s you”, “want to fuck now”) it’ll get deleted as well.

Personally, the things I look for are:

Face pic

A bit of thought/effort with the message

A bit of thought/effort with the profile

Verified

Then it just comes down to if I’m attracted to you or not…

I’d also recommend getting to events now that things are starting to open back up. That way you can chat to people in real life and start to make connections that way "

I agree totally. I always add a face pic so maybe that is the problem lol. I used to organise parties before but sad to say alot of my contacts have left fab so its like starting over again. Will be heading back to Rvc soon though.

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Is that u rob

Mr crazy "

Tis me yes Sir

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tip #1 take your socks off

Tip #2 actually follow tips given by people. Usually1 these threads go up and very little changes in the OPS profile/approach.

Profile wise, beef up the bio and try and inject a little of your personality into it ( granted that can be tough for alot of people)

More pics you are putting yourself in a shop window on here sell yourself in your best light.

As others have said get involved in the forums they open up a whole avenue of conversations and interactions

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over

Focus on a lady who reciprocates , get to know each other really well , start a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Focus on a lady who reciprocates , get to know each other really well , start a couples profile "

How to a good single guy experiance? Become a couple!

Well shite then

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"Focus on a lady who reciprocates , get to know each other really well , start a couples profile

How to a good single guy experiance? Become a couple!

Well shite then"

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin

Try standing on one leg and bouncing slowly in an anticlockwise direction whilst playing a banjo (not code) wearing gloves...

Works for me

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Go to events, 5 mins talking in person will give a better impression than a 1000 emails

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By *affa31Woman  over a year ago

Galway

Is the pic on your profile from your couple days? I would presume it is and that’s off putting

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"Go to events, 5 mins talking in person will give a better impression than a 1000 emails"

I don't know laid, I can send some pretty impressive begging emails

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan


"Go to events, 5 mins talking in person will give a better impression than a 1000 emails"

Meh.

It's a numbers game. If you send a high enough number of messages you'll get a response. I don't know yet what that number is but I'm working on it.

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over

You can try the laidback and _ilder approach also

Gain an enormous female following which makes female fabbers start a thread about you

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"You can try the laidback and _ilder approach also

Gain an enormous female following which makes female fabbers start a thread about you "

Shhhhhhhhhhhh!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To whom it may concern.

As a woman, I can only speak for myself. But I don't like getting one liner messages which tell nothing, nor do I have time to read full blown novels.

I do suggest keeping it short and concise and follow the S.T.A.R format that you would for any application.

Situation: Introduce who you are.

Task: What you are looking to achieve.

Action: Breifly note your experience.

Results: What you can do for them.

And if you can squeeze a quirky but tasteful pun, all the better.

Best regards

Gary.

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Go to events, 5 mins talking in person will give a better impression than a 1000 emails"

That is true..have been to one of your parties in the past btw..great night.

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Go to events, 5 mins talking in person will give a better impression than a 1000 emails

Meh.

More likely to get blocked

It's a numbers game. If you send a high enough number of messages you'll get a response. I don't know yet what that number is but I'm working on it. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I did a quick search there for Co Clare … women looking for men … 18 to 69 and no filters set. 48 results and by the time you get to number 22 on the list they haven’t been on for 2 weeks. Same search but men looking for women …. 300+ results and you are at number 230 before one hasn’t been on for 2 weeks . I don’t have a solution for you but you get an idea of why it’s tough

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"I did a quick search there for Co Clare … women looking for men … 18 to 69 and no filters set. 48 results and by the time you get to number 22 on the list they haven’t been on for 2 weeks. Same search but men looking for women …. 300+ results and you are at number 230 before one hasn’t been on for 2 weeks . I don’t have a solution for you but you get an idea of why it’s tough "

Yep purely a numbers game unfortunately...but if you could filter out the messers from those guys then it wouldnt be so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or ask all the Fab ladies to either take on 10 guys each or bring 10 new lady friends on board …. Sort of like Amway

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

Hey OP, my (brutally) honest take is that there isn't anything on your profile that would inspire me to respond to you. It's not really a question of what you're doing wrong, it's what you're not doing at all!

My method for deciding to respond (and meet and everything) is - if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no. Meh is no, maybe later is no, I wonder if this guy could maybe be compatible is no, etc etc etc.

Your bio doesn't really tell me anything to gauge if we would be compatible. It just says you're a normal guy looking for fun - just like 90% of the guys on here. You have to sell yourself a little, or put across your personality or interests to grab someone's attention.

Your (one) pic of you isn't awful, so more of that please!

There's also one actively off-putting thing on it that would stop me responding to you - the action shot of you and a partner. Firstly, I have absolutely no way of knowing if that person has consented to be in the picture or have that picture posted on Fab. Secondly, you're a single guy so I need to see pictures of you, not other people. Thirdly, and this is a personal peeve, I don't like being reminded of the existence of other women when I am being chatted up by a guy, I prefer the delusion that I am the sole object of his interest ( ).

Obviously these are just my personal criteria and some might (and do) say that my standards are exorbitantly high... but that's the whole Fab paradox. You'd think it'd be easier to get casual sex here but that's rarely the case!!

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"Hey OP, my (brutally) honest take is that there isn't anything on your profile that would inspire me to respond to you. It's not really a question of what you're doing wrong, it's what you're not doing at all!

My method for deciding to respond (and meet and everything) is - if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no. Meh is no, maybe later is no, I wonder if this guy could maybe be compatible is no, etc etc etc.

Your bio doesn't really tell me anything to gauge if we would be compatible. It just says you're a normal guy looking for fun - just like 90% of the guys on here. You have to sell yourself a little, or put across your personality or interests to grab someone's attention.

Your (one) pic of you isn't awful, so more of that please!

There's also one actively off-putting thing on it that would stop me responding to you - the action shot of you and a partner. Firstly, I have absolutely no way of knowing if that person has consented to be in the picture or have that picture posted on Fab. Secondly, you're a single guy so I need to see pictures of you, not other people. Thirdly, and this is a personal peeve, I don't like being reminded of the existence of other women when I am being chatted up by a guy, I prefer the delusion that I am the sole object of his interest ( ).

Obviously these are just my personal criteria and some might (and do) say that my standards are exorbitantly high... but that's the whole Fab paradox. You'd think it'd be easier to get casual sex here but that's rarely the case!!

"

I've group shots in my profile to show I've experience in a group setting (and I'll not get stage fright etc). It might be hard (and fruitless) to photoshop the women out.

Oh and several of my 1 on 1 pics were taken by the ladies partner who was in the room at the time. God be with the days

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Hey OP, my (brutally) honest take is that there isn't anything on your profile that would inspire me to respond to you. It's not really a question of what you're doing wrong, it's what you're not doing at all!

My method for deciding to respond (and meet and everything) is - if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no. Meh is no, maybe later is no, I wonder if this guy could maybe be compatible is no, etc etc etc.

Your bio doesn't really tell me anything to gauge if we would be compatible. It just says you're a normal guy looking for fun - just like 90% of the guys on here. You have to sell yourself a little, or put across your personality or interests to grab someone's attention.

Your (one) pic of you isn't awful, so more of that please!

There's also one actively off-putting thing on it that would stop me responding to you - the action shot of you and a partner. Firstly, I have absolutely no way of knowing if that person has consented to be in the picture or have that picture posted on Fab. Secondly, you're a single guy so I need to see pictures of you, not other people. Thirdly, and this is a personal peeve, I don't like being reminded of the existence of other women when I am being chatted up by a guy, I prefer the delusion that I am the sole object of his interest ( ).

Obviously these are just my personal criteria and some might (and do) say that my standards are exorbitantly high... but that's the whole Fab paradox. You'd think it'd be easier to get casual sex here but that's rarely the case!!

I've group shots in my profile to show I've experience in a group setting (and I'll not get stage fright etc). It might be hard (and fruitless) to photoshop the women out.

Oh and several of my 1 on 1 pics were taken by the ladies partner who was in the room at the time. God be with the days

"

Lol I'm sure you can include my ex in that sentence

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man  over a year ago

..

..be wise and act dumb..

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By *indenMan  over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?"

Be taller…

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By *3nsesMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller… "

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well.

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well. "

or could be a baller

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller… "

6 foot not enough??

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller… "

And even when lieing down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well.

or could be a baller"

I really tried to ball so hard, but motherfuckers couldn't find me!

That shit cray.

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By *indenMan  over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well.

or could be a baller"

I’ll probably be a balder soon enough, that will have to do..

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well.

or could be a baller

I’ll probably be a balder soon enough, that will have to do.."

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By *indenMan  over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

6 foot not enough??"

On reflection, I think being taller would be a lot of hassle for me, much easier if everyone was smaller….

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

6 foot not enough??

On reflection, I think being taller would be a lot of hassle for me, much easier if everyone was smaller…. "

Being small sucks

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By *indenMan  over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

And even when lieing down "

Thankfully I’m ok in that department, small jockey, big whip and all that…

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By *osmicGateMan  over a year ago

louth


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please."

It's a sausage fest lad.. Women are inundated with mail and offers.. Single guys are bottom of the pile they either have to be model material or have a massive cock to be even given a chance.. Try being gay instead

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"You can try the laidback and _ilder approach also

Gain an enormous female following which makes female fabbers start a thread about you "

Yeah that works too but there's a lot of time and effort put in over years to gather a following.

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By *razy-CplCouple  over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Is that u rob

Mr crazy

Tis me yes Sir "

Welcome back and may the guys be kind to u and the ladies kinder

Mr crazy

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By *3nsesMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

I've found a rabbit in a hat with a bat works just as well.

or could be a baller

I really tried to ball so hard, but motherfuckers couldn't find me!

That shit cray."

I remember when I lost my mind there was something so pleasant about that place.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Is that u rob

Mr crazy

Tis me yes Sir

Welcome back and may the guys be kind to u and the ladies kinder

Mr crazy "

And I concur welcome back bud be yourself (one of the nicest guys out there) and you will be fine.

Jock

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere

Start any type of thread on covid vaccines or certs or code and you'll definitely get noticed

Not in the way you want but feck it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please."

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent

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By *ardyboy54321Man  over a year ago

Fermanagh


"What does a single guy have to do to make an impression?

Be taller…

6 foot not enough??

On reflection, I think being taller would be a lot of hassle for me, much easier if everyone was smaller….

Being small sucks"

I do OK like

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By *man79Man  over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Just be like me.

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Is that u rob

Mr crazy

Tis me yes Sir

Welcome back and may the guys be kind to u and the ladies kinder

Mr crazy

And I concur welcome back bud be yourself (one of the nicest guys out there) and you will be fine.

Jock "

Thanks Jock its been a while hope we can catch up soon.

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent "

Lol no worries you are not my type anyway

I do hear you though..met a girl from here one evening and she told me she was too fat for me...think i should be the judge of that. All she had to say was i am not her type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent

Lol no worries you are not my type anyway

I do hear you though..met a girl from here one evening and she told me she was too fat for me...think i should be the judge of that. All she had to say was i am not her type."

The site is full of muppets in fairness. Like I said the lady that found fab and has never attracted any attention from men in her life is not telling you to shave your balls and get a six pack before you even contact her ? That's her right and each to their own and that's the reality. I've had some great fun in here but and blocked a huge amount also.I just have no time for that level on BS. Use the site for what you need and chat to the ones who seem "real" Maybe ? I saw someone say get on the forums but same people on here all the time. Drama fucking central ...! I'm on them very very rarely TBF.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent

Lol no worries you are not my type anyway

I do hear you though..met a girl from here one evening and she told me she was too fat for me...think i should be the judge of that. All she had to say was i am not her type.

The site is full of muppets in fairness. Like I said the lady that found fab and has never attracted any attention from men in her life is not telling you to shave your balls and get a six pack before you even contact her ? That's her right and each to their own and that's the reality. I've had some great fun in here but and blocked a huge amount also.I just have no time for that level on BS. Use the site for what you need and chat to the ones who seem "real" Maybe ? I saw someone say get on the forums but same people on here all the time. Drama fucking central ...! I'm on them very very rarely TBF. "

The forums are drama central? To be fair, fab in general can be drama central, you only have to look at status's to see drama wars . Yes there is drama on the forums sometimes but you can use them very easily without getting involved in any of it. In my opinion they are a good way of gauging someones personality.ive been using the forums for years, and to be honest I see loads of people ive never seen before, its not the same people all the time it just goes in cycles. I can honestly say that the last few guys ive had any interest in, ive discovered through forum posts so i wouldn't discourage anybody to use them personally.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent

Lol no worries you are not my type anyway

I do hear you though..met a girl from here one evening and she told me she was too fat for me...think i should be the judge of that. All she had to say was i am not her type.

The site is full of muppets in fairness. Like I said the lady that found fab and has never attracted any attention from men in her life is not telling you to shave your balls and get a six pack before you even contact her ? That's her right and each to their own and that's the reality. I've had some great fun in here but and blocked a huge amount also.I just have no time for that level on BS. Use the site for what you need and chat to the ones who seem "real" Maybe ? I saw someone say get on the forums but same people on here all the time. Drama fucking central ...! I'm on them very very rarely TBF. "

But yet you're still here?

You might say you've had a few good meets but there's a long list of people who spend their time whinging about the Muppets and the bad attitudes and drama and are blind to the fact that they're standing in front of a mirror when making these sweeping statements.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi fellow fabbers i am not new to swinging or to fab but was always here as a couple before. I always put an effort into messages i send to people and never copy and paste. In 50% of cases the messages are not read and the other 49% are read but not deleted but not replied to either. I consider myself normal caring friendly and respectful..i know single guys have a bad reputation on here but is there any way to tell people you are genuine and actually would meet..help please.

Feel for you 100%. Step back and think about who your getting in touch with. Ladies have a huge pool of guys to choose from thus creating massive Ego. Ladies that have never had any attention in real life are now telling you if your cock is not the length of a sweeping brush and your not 6ft 5 touch on!!! . Allot just tell you what they want which is cool also and there’s lots like you that find it hard to find the right person. My advice would be to be YOU, That is all you can be and eventually you’ll find what you want. Think of FAB like TX Maxx. Loads of what you don’t want but if you rummage enough you’ll find a gem. Not ideal but the reality of the situation.

Please don’t contact me I only like men with a receding hairline , floppy cock and papa New Guinea accent

Lol no worries you are not my type anyway

I do hear you though..met a girl from here one evening and she told me she was too fat for me...think i should be the judge of that. All she had to say was i am not her type.

The site is full of muppets in fairness. Like I said the lady that found fab and has never attracted any attention from men in her life is not telling you to shave your balls and get a six pack before you even contact her ? That's her right and each to their own and that's the reality. I've had some great fun in here but and blocked a huge amount also.I just have no time for that level on BS. Use the site for what you need and chat to the ones who seem "real" Maybe ? I saw someone say get on the forums but same people on here all the time. Drama fucking central ...! I'm on them very very rarely TBF.

But yet you're still here?

You might say you've had a few good meets but there's a long list of people who spend their time whinging about the Muppets and the bad attitudes and drama and are blind to the fact that they're standing in front of a mirror when making these sweeping statements."

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By *agle eyed Rob OP   Man  over a year ago

Mallow

Thanks for all your help boys and girls i will be taking all your suggestions on board. As it turns out my very sexy female friend is visiting next week so for 2 week only i will be a couple

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple  over a year ago

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"Is the pic on your profile from your couple days? I would presume it is and that’s off putting "

Agree totally with this.

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