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Do we give this website enough credit ?
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Personally speaking I wouldn't say it has been life-changing. Other non swinging or sex related events which were life changing brought me here and it has in general been a good place to build on those experiences.
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This place has played a part in many big parts of my life including my divorce, and moving out of the family home, then dealing with coparenting and the impact of that, and then there is meeting the mother of two of my kids, and love of my life. Its also wasted a good proportion of time telling people they are wrong on the forums. The actual sex has been a tiny part.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only we can change our lives. This site is just one of many tools we can choose to use, or not, on the grand journey.
I like to think using Fab has given me the skills and experiences I was looking for. And ive learnt and grown as a person as much from what ive put into the site as from what Ive gotten out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be life changing for some . It can give you experiences you never thought you’d have , and confidence you can only dream of . "
It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some |
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I think you take from the site what you want.
It’s not changed my life to the point anything major I’ve met some great friends that if not from the site I would never have met so I’m grateful for that. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
For me it hasn't been life changing Yes it allowed me to meet people and I've made some amazing friends since I joined here and had some amazing sex as well,and while I had been celibate for a good while before I joined here I wouldn't say it's been life changing. It adds to my life and I enjoy fab most of the time but mostly my day to day life is the same as ever. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"It can be life changing for some . It can give you experiences you never thought you’d have , and confidence you can only dream of .
It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some"
You’re emerging as the member i will go to inject a bit of realism into things lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be life changing for some . It can give you experiences you never thought you’d have , and confidence you can only dream of .
It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some"
Yes quite good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some"
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
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Maybe because some start to believe their own press and get above themselves while others talk a good game but their carefully created personas don't stand up to scrutiny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
Maybe because some start to believe their own press and get above themselves while others talk a good game but their carefully created personas don't stand up to scrutiny"
OK kinda get that fair point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Confidence can led to arrogance which can led to stubbornness which can led to a unwillingness to compromise.
Too much of anything is often not a good thing. "
So.we.sbould.strive for little confidence but not.to much
So we have little arrogance but not to much
Which means ultimately have little stubbornness but not too much
So basically saying have a little bit of everything but not too much and ya will be grand |
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It had given me confidence to be comfortable in my own body. Then covid hit and I am back to square one. I have only been only logging on to check had I got message for the friends I had made. I miss the social part of it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
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Far too many cocky cunts here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
Far too many cocky cunts here "
Get what ya mean now  |
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
Far too many cocky cunts here "
And too many picky pussies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can also give you experiences you wish you'd never had and has given way too much confidence to some
First part agreed , second part unsure why that is bad thing and why should it affect someone in negative way like the first part does
Far too many cocky cunts here "
Not necessarily the fault of the site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Confidence can led to arrogance which can led to stubbornness which can led to a unwillingness to compromise.
PARKLIFE!
You're my hero "
I usually laugh at my own jokes anyway, but I got an extra chuckle outta that one |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
I was on another two sites before joining Fab; the others were disappointing to put it politely; most of the profiles were fake or way out-of-date; and some contacts wanted to move off site immediately and had alternative agendas.
This site is very well structured and managed, and although it is possible to participate without payment, being a site supporter is better.
These are extraordinary times, in terms of personal travel and contact restrictions, double-vaccinations, long Covid phenomena, etc.
Involvement is a long-term project that may come to fruition next year; patience is required.
In the meantime, the forums are stimulating, good fun and the alternative sexual interests of like-minded people foreshadows some stimulating interactions when this crisis inevitably abates in 2022 and beyond! |
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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago
Enfield & Dublin |
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So.we.sbould.strive for little confidence but not.to much
So we have little arrogance but not to much
Which means ultimately have little stubbornness but not too much
So basically saying have a little bit of everything but not too much and ya will be grand "
Tartan, I was told a long time ago by a wise old person, everything in moderation including moderation itself. At the time I didn’t fully understand it but looking back it was sage advice. |
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"It had given me confidence to be comfortable in my own body. Then covid hit and I am back to square one. I have only been only logging on to check had I got message for the friends I had made. I miss the social part of it all "
I remember your first social |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Sorry to hear
Like thousands of others with a single male profile I sent hundreds of messages which went nowhere . But people are not obliged to chat to me , have coffee with me or have sex with me . If these are the parameters that determine my self esteem then I wouldn’t get out of bed . Meets here are an icing not a starting point I suppose and life outside of fab should be the cake . In my opinion anyway |
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I fully agree with you _asual777 meets are the icing on the cake I have found the site very helpful in that I have discover alit about myself and I have become more sociable and confident if you use the site in the right way are patient and willing to put yourself out there you will reep the rewards as my dear gran use to say you only get out of something what you put in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to hear
Like thousands of others with a single male profile I sent hundreds of messages which went nowhere . But people are not obliged to chat to me , have coffee with me or have sex with me . If these are the parameters that determine my self esteem then I wouldn’t get out of bed . Meets here are an icing not a starting point I suppose and life outside of fab should be the cake . In my opinion anyway "
Hundreds? So literally to every female account? |
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"Sorry to hear
Like thousands of others with a single male profile I sent hundreds of messages which went nowhere . But people are not obliged to chat to me , have coffee with me or have sex with me . If these are the parameters that determine my self esteem then I wouldn’t get out of bed . Meets here are an icing not a starting point I suppose and life outside of fab should be the cake . In my opinion anyway "
I've never understood the hundreds of messages approach. I know that is possibly over a period of time but in 4 years here I can honestly say my message sent total is still in double figures.
As I've said before I don't make first contact anymore but even when I did I did a lot of reading between the lines before deciding whether or not to message and yes I've had messages not read or not replied to but that's the nature of the site.
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
I travel a lot . I mean a lot, with work. Not just in Ireland but the U.K. also . Was always very interested in couples primarily but also single female profiles. Some interactions would be over 3-4 messages until it became clearer that things wouldn’t progress . When you multiply that up triple figures is right . |
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"Sorry to hear
Like thousands of others with a single male profile I sent hundreds of messages which went nowhere . But people are not obliged to chat to me , have coffee with me or have sex with me . If these are the parameters that determine my self esteem then I wouldn’t get out of bed . Meets here are an icing not a starting point I suppose and life outside of fab should be the cake . In my opinion anyway
I've never understood the hundreds of messages approach. I know that is possibly over a period of time but in 4 years here I can honestly say my message sent total is still in double figures.
As I've said before I don't make first contact anymore but even when I did I did a lot of reading between the lines before deciding whether or not to message and yes I've had messages not read or not replied to but that's the nature of the site.
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Well I too send hundreds of messages daily but I've got a very photogenic penis so you must give the people what they want. |
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"Sorry to hear
Like thousands of others with a single male profile I sent hundreds of messages which went nowhere . But people are not obliged to chat to me , have coffee with me or have sex with me . If these are the parameters that determine my self esteem then I wouldn’t get out of bed . Meets here are an icing not a starting point I suppose and life outside of fab should be the cake . In my opinion anyway
I've never understood the hundreds of messages approach. I know that is possibly over a period of time but in 4 years here I can honestly say my message sent total is still in double figures.
As I've said before I don't make first contact anymore but even when I did I did a lot of reading between the lines before deciding whether or not to message and yes I've had messages not read or not replied to but that's the nature of the site.
Well I too send hundreds of messages daily but I've got a very photogenic penis so you must give the people what they want. "
You really are the man of the pee pole. |
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