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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
NaughtyVille *×* Laois |
Afternoon all.
We have chatted to many couples new to the scene and have come to recognize that many either attend a party or club and end up with their nerves shattered for one reason or other, including the realization that they were just not ready for the deep end.
Being lovers of being watched and watching we are curious if many couples, especially new couples have an interest in attending a soft swing party which will NOT involve penetration with anyone other than partners?
Please let us know what your thoughts are (PM or in this thread) and if we feel we can sort something we will get to work on plans for something by end of August.
Andy & Mel
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I think for couples like you a social would be the best thing to organise first with like couples of a like mind. There must be other couples like you on here, and without question the fantasy of swapping/group play is a lot different to the reality. So just mu few cents worth, I think you might find couples like you will see this and reach out. Why not organise a night in a city centre as an example where it’s not a hotel setting, just a meet and greet. Get to know each other a little bit more, see if there are sparks, and that might be a good way to examine a ‘make or break’ decision for other couples to join you again for a more intimate setting where there is no penetration etc but maybe watching or touching etc. Just establish the ‘house rules’ first beforehand. If you are all in the same boat then nobody will have an issue with that. That is all! |
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We played with this idea, but would deffo not be interested if "no getting into each other's" ...lol. rule was in place.
Deffo a meet & mingle & chat about all sorts, then let things happen naturally in another room so to speak. Could be a soft swap room & a danger zone where everyone was at ease. ? |
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There should NEVER be pressure to go any further than you are comfortable. I can't see why soft swap couples can't go to normal parties. They can be up front about their limits just like everyone else, and play or don't play as the feel they want to. Like it's absolutely fine to attend a party and not doing anything whatsoever, not even soft play. |
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Hi there, if you are interested in singles guys, I'd love to be included. A couple who loves to be watched and nothing else is something I'd be happy to invited too. I totally get the no penetrative or even touching. That's a whole other level in my opinion.
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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
NaughtyVille *×* Laois |
"There should NEVER be pressure to go any further than you are comfortable. I can't see why soft swap couples can't go to normal parties. They can be up front about their limits just like everyone else, and play or don't play as the feel they want to. Like it's absolutely fine to attend a party and not doing anything whatsoever, not even soft play. "
The reason for the post is due to soft swap couples who have attended party's and discovered when things got heavy it wasn't for them. It wasn't the situation they imagined it would be.
It's quite a regular occurance with folk new to the scene.
This will hopefully open up something in between Vanilla and All Out Play.
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"Afternoon all.
We have chatted to many couples new to the scene and have come to recognize that many either attend a party or club and end up with their nerves shattered for one reason or other, including the realization that they were just not ready for the deep end.
Being lovers of being watched and watching we are curious if many couples, especially new couples have an interest in attending a soft swing party which will NOT involve penetration with anyone other than partners?
Please let us know what your thoughts are (PM or in this thread) and if we feel we can sort something we will get to work on plans for something by end of August.
Andy & Mel
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Maybe organize a meet and greet event probably the best way to have people feel more at ease  |
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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Are "single" guys allowed attend?
A friend texted me to ask  "
Hi JD
Unfortunately single guy's won't be part of the plan this time around.
We wouldn't rule it out for future occasion.
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