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"How can you console a broken hearted person who invested her all in relationship ,but not enough ..fab is a bigger draw "
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I'm a bit unclear. Are you saying you are the one who's partner was on here and found fab was too big a draw.. or are you saying that you yourself found it a big draw and couldn't stay away and did the cheating? |
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
I appreciate all here not cheating scumbags ..forgive me .I'm just devastated .I tried to embrace his preferred choice ,but he left and blocked the one person who adores him for what ??? |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"No .
I'm the collateral damage ..discuss
That's so so shit. I'm really sorry. Be assured that not everyone here are scum who will fuck cheaters. There are a lot though. "
Scum who will fuck cheaters…wow ok  |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Not really I only went along to support his lifestyle choice but he still left"
Sounds like it was a bad idea from the start tbh. I’m sorry you got hurt but I think it’s time to delete your profile and move on from fab. You’re unlikely to get any satisfaction from the responses you will receive here. |
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"Not really I only went along to support his lifestyle choice but he still left"
sorry op no one deserves a broken heart the lifestyle should be a two way thing looks you tried to keep it going to please him
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You reckon ??are you seriously saying ppl who embrace this lifestyle ,which I have no issue with BTW ,will treat me bad ,because I hurt right now ?is that what u mean?"
To be fair the lady who made comment is only helping in this tough time... honestly you will receive good advice and thoughts on here but she is only saying you more than likely get the opposite of that as well and when hurting bad imo not healthy for the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im sorry for you and what has happened. Its a lousy thing he has done. Take good care of yourself OP. There are lots on here who will chat with you if you need it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What u mean ??I'm scum?"
Clearly you are not telling the difference from helpful and caring words to non helpful words in this thread so I am going to bow out.. sorry this happened to you and hope resolution that you desire comes your way.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What u mean ?,sorry if I offended you ,I'm just distraught at moment forgive me if I misunderstood "
It might be an idea to select "reply + quite" when answering someone's comment. No one called you scum.
Sorry for your heartbreak. If you only joined here for him and don't want to be hear, delete your profile. |
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
There is no resolution don't you see there are p who choose sexual gratification over true love and there are those like me who try to embrace this world of swinging ,let's have honest conversation ,I can't be the only one ?,collateral damage ,on here but I'm speaking out ..I have no issue with ppl choice, I tried ,for love to embrace the lifestyle myself ,obvious I was crap lol ..but question ,who throws away loving honest person for sex sites ,?? Seriously |
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
There is no resolution don't you see there are p who choose sexual gratification over true love and there are those like me who try to embrace this world of swinging ,let's have honest conversation ,I can't be the only one ?,collateral damage ,on here but I'm speaking out ..I have no issue with ppl choice, I tried ,for love to embrace the lifestyle myself ,obvious I was crap lol ..but question ,who throws away loving honest person for sex sites ,?? Seriously |
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
Seriously is that your response ?delete profile ,fuck off and nurse my hurt??,is there no one willing here to face the reality ??some loving partners will embrace or try to ,their loved ones preferences, but get shot down anyways and your advice to me ,is take my broken heart ,delete profile and fuck off Seriously ,??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry things didn't work out for you OP but I'm unsure what there is to discuss. Or at least in a way that might make any sense to you or seem rational to you right now.
Perhaps joining Fab was his way of having his cake and eating with your blessing. Perhaps you trying to embrace the lifestyle was you trying in vain to hang on to what you had. Thing is, none of us know because we're not you and we aren't living your relationship.
Relationships break down all the time and perhaps yours might have too eventually even without Fab. No doubt you are upset and hurt, but your partner has nailed his colours to the mast so hopefully in time you can move on and adjust to a life that you can live in a way that makes you happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously is that your response ?delete profile ,fuck off and nurse my hurt??,is there no one willing here to face the reality ??some loving partners will embrace or try to ,their loved ones preferences, but get shot down anyways and your advice to me ,is take my broken heart ,delete profile and fuck off Seriously ,???"
If this is directed at me, I didn't tell you to "fuck off" , what I meant is if this place has caused so much hurt maybe take time out, and mend your broken heart. At end if day people here are strangers and what you need now are your friends to support you.
And as I said before , please use "reply + quote" when replying to someone's comment.
As for a loving partner I've never had one so I can't comment on why a person throws away something good, the only person who can answer that is the person themselves
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously is that your response ?delete profile ,fuck off and nurse my hurt??,is there no one willing here to face the reality ??some loving partners will embrace or try to ,their loved ones preferences, but get shot down anyways and your advice to me ,is take my broken heart ,delete profile and fuck off Seriously ,???
If this is directed at me, I didn't tell you to "fuck off" , what I meant is if this place has caused so much hurt maybe take time out, and mend your broken heart. At end if day people here are strangers and what you need now are your friends to support you.
And as I said before , please use "reply + quote" when replying to someone's comment.
As for a loving partner I've never had one so I can't comment on why a person throws away something good, the only person who can answer that is the person themselves
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Seriously is that your response ?delete profile ,fuck off and nurse my hurt??,is there no one willing here to face the reality ??some loving partners will embrace or try to ,their loved ones preferences, but get shot down anyways and your advice to me ,is take my broken heart ,delete profile and fuck off Seriously ,???
If this is directed at me, I didn't tell you to "fuck off" , what I meant is if this place has caused so much hurt maybe take time out, and mend your broken heart. At end if day people here are strangers and what you need now are your friends to support you.
And as I said before , please use "reply + quote" when replying to someone's comment.
As for a loving partner I've never had one so I can't comment on why a person throws away something good, the only person who can answer that is the person themselves
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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago
Enfield & Dublin |
"There is no resolution don't you see there are p who choose sexual gratification over true love and there are those like me who try to embrace this world of swinging ,let's have honest conversation ,I can't be the only one ?,collateral damage ,on here but I'm speaking out ..I have no issue with ppl choice, I tried ,for love to embrace the lifestyle myself ,obvious I was crap lol ..but question ,who throws away loving honest person for sex sites ,?? Seriously"
OP, I’m sorry that you are going through this ordeal. It sounds like you invested much more effort into the relationship than your partner did. Unfortunately it has deeply hurt you and will leave a scar. There is no right way or wrong way to deal with it, it’s like a bereavement. Talk with someone you can trust and unload your feelings. Focus on your own positive things and do things that please you. Be selfish for a bit. You will feel better in time. I hope you find peace. |
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
"There is no resolution don't you see there are p who choose sexual gratification over true love and there are those like me who try to embrace this world of swinging ,let's have honest conversation ,I can't be the only one ?,collateral damage ,on here but I'm speaking out ..I have no issue with ppl choice, I tried ,for love to embrace the lifestyle myself ,obvious I was crap lol ..but question ,who throws away loving honest person for sex sites ,?? Seriously
OP, I’m sorry that you are going through this ordeal. It sounds like you invested much more effort into the relationship than your partner did. Unfortunately it has deeply hurt you and will leave a scar. There is no right way or wrong way to deal with it, it’s like a bereavement. Talk with someone you can trust and unload your feelings. Focus on your own positive things and do things that please you. Be selfish for a bit. You will feel better in time. I hope you find peace. "
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By *clee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dublin |
"There is no resolution don't you see there are p who choose sexual gratification over true love and there are those like me who try to embrace this world of swinging ,let's have honest conversation ,I can't be the only one ?,collateral damage ,on here but I'm speaking out ..I have no issue with ppl choice, I tried ,for love to embrace the lifestyle myself ,obvious I was crap lol ..but question ,who throws away loving honest person for sex sites ,?? Seriously
OP, I’m sorry that you are going through this ordeal. It sounds like you invested much more effort into the relationship than your partner did. Unfortunately it has deeply hurt you and will leave a scar. There is no right way or wrong way to deal with it, it’s like a bereavement. Talk with someone you can trust and unload your feelings. Focus on your own positive things and do things that please you. Be selfish for a bit. You will feel better in time. I hope you find peace. "
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Hey OP. Not sure anything people say to you on here is going to help but here goes. You sound like you are in pain due to a break in your trust, it’s a horrible thing to happen to anyone. this person did not appreciate you, it’s their loss!!
Hope this did not come accros as condescending - you look after yourself ?? |
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You've obviously been with the wrong person. When you do find the right person you will not have to pretend to like something you don't. Being you is enough. Don't ever change for someone. I understand it hurts like hell now, but you will put yourself back together, stronger even. Take care xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you console a broken hearted person who invested her all in relationship ,but not enough ..fab is a bigger draw "
I fully understand your emotional pain ...believe me..its hell. |
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