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By *anowar33 OP Man
over a year ago
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Had a meet recently where the hubby got a bit nasty because I wouldn't spit in his wife's face,like very nasty. Could tell she wasn't into that either but was afraid to go against him. I left, should I have carried on and abused her , or was I wrong ? |
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You were wrong to not agree limits and talk about comfort levels between all 3 of you beforehand. In a BDSM meet you should be in no doubt as to what all parties are comfortable with, and if in any doubt you should stop and ask. Coercing someone to abuse someone else who has not explicitly given permission is an awful thing to do. Dont be afraid to walk away. I hope she is OK. |
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"You were wrong to not agree limits and talk about comfort levels between all 3 of you beforehand. In a BDSM meet you should be in no doubt as to what all parties are comfortable with, and if in any doubt you should stop and ask. Coercing someone to abuse someone else who has not explicitly given permission is an awful thing to do. Dont be afraid to walk away. I hope she is OK."
This says it all.
You were right to stop though imo as it wasn't pre agreed. |
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By *anowar33 OP Man
over a year ago
I am in ireland not the UK |
"You were wrong to not agree limits and talk about comfort levels between all 3 of you beforehand. In a BDSM meet you should be in no doubt as to what all parties are comfortable with, and if in any doubt you should stop and ask. Coercing someone to abuse someone else who has not explicitly given permission is an awful thing to do. Dont be afraid to walk away. I hope she is OK."
That's the thing, his profile never mentioned BDSM nor was it discussed . Should I leave it, or report to site admins? First really bad experience . Ty for reply
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"You were wrong to not agree limits and talk about comfort levels between all 3 of you beforehand. In a BDSM meet you should be in no doubt as to what all parties are comfortable with, and if in any doubt you should stop and ask. Coercing someone to abuse someone else who has not explicitly given permission is an awful thing to do. Dont be afraid to walk away. I hope she is OK. That's the thing, his profile never mentioned BDSM nor was it discussed . Should I leave it, or report to site admins? First really bad experience . Ty for reply "
I would report to admin at the very least. Depending upon what precisely transpired I'd seriously consider involving others too. That has to be your call though. Sorry you had that experience. |
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"Had a meet recently where the hubby got a bit nasty because I wouldn't spit in his wife's face,like very nasty. Could tell she wasn't into that either but was afraid to go against him. I left, should I have carried on and abused her , or was I wrong ? "
no way !!! Never do something your not happy with prior to meet was anything discussed?
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't stand for that. No limits set. Limits have to be agreed for everyones safety and enjoyment. Got angry when refused. You got away safe, can't say the same for her.
Thats humiliation not cuckolding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You were absolutely right to leave when the husband became nasty and abusive. If you had stayed the situation may have escalated out of control, and you may have been forced to do something you'd later regret.
Most genuine cuckold husband's are usually very grateful to get a brief rest from their shagging duties, and are usually very respectful of a bulls efforts. |
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"Had a meet recently where the hubby got a bit nasty because I wouldn't spit in his wife's face,like very nasty. Could tell she wasn't into that either but was afraid to go against him. I left, should I have carried on and abused her , or was I wrong ? "
Do you honestly believe it's right to do what others tell you,when you don't feel comfortable with the demand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it feels wrong... Its wrong end of story. Never put yourself in that position again, communicate dos and donts before engaging and make sure everyone is on the same page. You should have checked the woman was ok and not in danger of a hiding from her so called partner before you left! |
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Sounds like you were right to leave. Open honest discussion about limits and roles should really be spoke about before...understand you don’t want to or can’t script everything but spitting in the Mrs face is not a small thing.. |
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I would think that wasn’t any cuckold scenario at all . Cuckolds are subs . It was rather a hotwife scenario were the stag/ man was into humiliation of his hotwife. Cuckoldress is never a sub of her cuckold . If any than the hotwife submits to her bull and not to her cuckold  |
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"I would think that wasn’t any cuckold scenario at all . Cuckolds are subs . It was rather a hotwife scenario were the stag/ man was into humiliation of his hotwife. Cuckoldress is never a sub of her cuckold . If any than the hotwife submits to her bull and not to her cuckold "
Absolutely agree. Dunno what to call it except fucked up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you don't feel comfortable doing something then don't do it. You are not under any obligation.
This is why it is so important to discuss kinks thoroughly beforehand. |
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