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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab 
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me!  )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you  Mister here btw  “ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me! )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you Mister here btw “ "
Mr S would agree with this, we even had one fella message asking if I would like a couples profile with him 
For me it would be any opening message thats particularily crude, asking if they can "breed" with me (eeewwww), looking for an instant meet or telling us they are in the area for the night.
Im high maintenance i know
Mrs S x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couples assuming I (Casey) am either bi or persuadable because I don't know what I'm missing
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Of course, they only have your best interests at heart |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For us it's not acknowledging us both, talking like Dee's a piece of meat or assuming we'll drop everything for a quick leg over "
That’s so F’ing annoying… like, there’s 2 people here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me! )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you Mister here btw “
Mr S would agree with this, we even had one fella message asking if I would like a couples profile with him
For me it would be any opening message thats particularily crude, asking if they can "breed" with me (eeewwww), looking for an instant meet or telling us they are in the area for the night.
Im high maintenance i know
Mrs S x"
My my my, haven’t you put yourself on an unscalable pedastal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me! )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you Mister here btw “
Mr S would agree with this, we even had one fella message asking if I would like a couples profile with him
For me it would be any opening message thats particularily crude, asking if they can "breed" with me (eeewwww), looking for an instant meet or telling us they are in the area for the night.
Im high maintenance i know
Mrs S x
My my my, haven’t you put yourself on an unscalable pedastal "
I'm happy up here |
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"So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me! )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you Mister here btw “ "
I find the opposite happens for us more often- random men message us assuming they're talking to Dirk, telling him how "they want to pleasure the Mrs".
I'm like Mrs can read and write and there's no need to talk about her in third person 
Suppose the biggest no no will always be any sex questions before we met anyone socially. |
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Our status: Looking to meet someone tonight only in Portadown.
Mail: Sure why not come to mine in *place 80 miles away* tomorrow night cuz I can’t do tonight?
“Gonna lick her for 3 hours non stop!” - bro, we got shit to do
Also: Mmmmm = instablock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him "
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too |
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too "
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined "
Haha, we've had that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined "
Yes he is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined
Haha, we've had that too"
Ahh ffs, I feel left out now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him "
Haha got him to lay out the Catty Rules for us once, guess he forgot that the first rule of Cat Club is…you don’t talk about Cat Club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"one liners ...guy tells you in their first message ..I'd love to drop in between those legs and eat her out ...and then he tell you he forgot to attach his face pic ...."
To be fair it’s pretty hard to get a proper face pic when you are eating out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined
Haha, we've had that too
Ahh ffs, I feel left out now "
We are free for catfighting whenever ye are up for it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our status: Looking to meet someone tonight only in Portadown.
Mail: Sure why not come to mine in *place 80 miles away* tomorrow night cuz I can’t do tonight?
“Gonna lick her for 3 hours non stop!” - bro, we got shit to do
Also: Mmmmm = instablock "
Mmmmm ….. oops sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes he blocked us today when I Viking 6ft4inch ex kick boxer asked if I could fight him instead.. Lol "
Typical…. Probably be the only way he’d be able to block you tbf |
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Got the catfight one as well. I dont even know what a catfight is really.
messages directed at himself about me (im just a bystander apparently)
One guy who messaged going on about how he had seen us out walking and he recognised himself and we should meet. Not quite sure of the reasoning behind it but no.
Ones who message telling in graphic detail what they want to do me.
Ones who message telling in graphic detail what they wanna do to him.
Mmmmmm nice ass mmmmm (blocked)
Wanna have phone sex. No
And lastly hey in the city tonight and have a hotel room wanna meet (obviously didnt read our profile so hell nah) |
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messages directed at himself about me (im just a bystander apparently)
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He kept trying the 1st time after us repeatedly saying no Then he blocked us
2nd time different profile Same starting message Blocked again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to have sex with an older lady... Yep winner there.. And the new prick asking for ladies to catfight... Yes will pm anyone his name that wants to know him
Got that one too and he will pay for the privilege too
Would that fella be from Limerick? A fella from Limerick has messaged us twice with the same lines about cat fighting since we joined
Haha, we've had that too
Ahh ffs, I feel left out now
We are free for catfighting whenever ye are up for it lol "
Ohhh bring it on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't actually get over how common this is I'm shocked... I actually was a single guy before we got together it baffles me how you can't acknowledge both in a message. It actually pisses her off more than myself.
And the usual free now can accom nonsense like has that ever worked sweet mother of God. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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I'm just trying to understand the hate for a single letter!
I mean, what has M ever done to ye? Just because it's some people's favourite and they write mmmmmm or Mmmm or MMMMMM.
Where's the harm?
You've probably got a mirror appointment in the near future.
One where you take a good, long look at yourself and ask yourself a question.
Am I an Alphabetist?
Do you really need to criticise these people with a single letter fetish?
I mean, it's Fab, we all have our kinks and should be understanding of others fetishes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm just trying to understand the hate for a single letter!
I mean, what has M ever done to ye? Just because it's some people's favourite and they write mmmmmm or Mmmm or MMMMMM.
Where's the harm?
You've probably got a mirror appointment in the near future.
One where you take a good, long look at yourself and ask yourself a question.
Am I an Alphabetist?
Do you really need to criticise these people with a single letter fetish?
I mean, it's Fab, we all have our kinks and should be understanding of others fetishes "
Might I just preface the use of the letter M by adding one more….. Hmmmmmm  or maybe even Ummmmm 
Anyway I totally get why people disregard single letterists xxxxxxxxxxx |
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When we express an interest in meeting a guy or couple and they expect us to drop our lives and meet them right now. And then hound us with messages until we either set a date or block them, usually the latter!!
Reminds me of an excited dog when his owner gets home |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This thread is probably what the European super league discussions were like "
Awww are you saying that couples are like the biggest teams in Europe?
I’ll take it as a compliment as I know single fellas can feel a bit hard done by You’re not all playing in the Vauxhall Conference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, not normally one for resurrecting threads, but it's not like it's over a year old
Anyway, catfight man is back....from Tipp this time. We got a message this morning
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Sounds like a trailer for a horror movie sequel...the return of catfight man
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So to complete the Holy Trinity of chatting turn offs, let’s now hear from the couples of Fab
Biggest turn offs for us would include messages which totally fail to acknowledge the male of the couple (Me! )
Also, any guy who sends a cock pic or some variation of the following messages “I see you’re close by, wanna have some fun?” or “Looking really sexy and I’m really horny, wanna fuck?” will get “Oh yeah, I’d love to fuck you Mister here btw “ "
This exact same with us lol  |
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We don't do locals.. every fecking day & often repeat offers from the same locals.. READ THE PROFILE. & then have the cheek to try & cajole us into it & them with a blank profile..
& no we play together or not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People come on to a sex site looking for sex then get unset when asked about sex or too have sex makes alot of sence all right lol what ye expecting to chat about football lol its like going to a boxing match and getting mad when someone trys to talk to u about boxing and some people on here u cant even say hello or hi hows your day or u get or u get block its nuts |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
The what are you into/what you looking for messages...please read our profile
We are free now or can you meet tonight.. again please read our profile
Know of any parties..if we did we would probably be at it
Chatting to us as if just Mrs B
We could go on...
In fairness though most actually read our profile and we have met some amazing people!!
B & S xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People come on to a sex site looking for sex then get unset when asked about sex or too have sex makes alot of sence all right lol what ye expecting to chat about football lol its like going to a boxing match and getting mad when someone trys to talk to u about boxing and some people on here u cant even say hello or hi hows your day or u get or u get block its nuts "
You're missing the point. I can only speak for ourselves but we're not here to TALK about sex with a succession of random people. We're here to find people who we are attracted to - physically and mentally, to establish a connection with them and perhaps go on to have great sex with them.
This place is full of dreamers who have no intention of ever meeting anyone once they get their fill of wank chat. They won't be getting it from us.
And those who are full of drink or whatever else and think it's perfectly acceptable to contact you out of the blue at 2 in the morning asking for the ride are confusing us for some sort of escort service.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People come on to a sex site looking for sex then get unset when asked about sex or too have sex makes alot of sence all right lol what ye expecting to chat about football lol its like going to a boxing match and getting mad when someone trys to talk to u about boxing and some people on here u cant even say hello or hi hows your day or u get or u get block its nuts
You're missing the point. I can only speak for ourselves but we're not here to TALK about sex with a succession of random people. We're here to find people who we are attracted to - physically and mentally, to establish a connection with them and perhaps go on to have great sex with them.
This place is full of dreamers who have no intention of ever meeting anyone once they get their fill of wank chat. They won't be getting it from us.
And those who are full of drink or whatever else and think it's perfectly acceptable to contact you out of the blue at 2 in the morning asking for the ride are confusing us for some sort of escort service.
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especially the last part. Just because your online late doesn't mean you are looking for a meet. Jay has a strange sleep pattern and does be on here at strange hours to perv etc and the amount of profiles mailing to meet just because it's late and we're online is fucking ridiculous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People come on to a sex site looking for sex then get unset when asked about sex or too have sex makes alot of sence all right lol what ye expecting to chat about football lol its like going to a boxing match and getting mad when someone trys to talk to u about boxing and some people on here u cant even say hello or hi hows your day or u get or u get block its nuts
You're missing the point. I can only speak for ourselves but we're not here to TALK about sex with a succession of random people. We're here to find people who we are attracted to - physically and mentally, to establish a connection with them and perhaps go on to have great sex with them.
This place is full of dreamers who have no intention of ever meeting anyone once they get their fill of wank chat. They won't be getting it from us.
And those who are full of drink or whatever else and think it's perfectly acceptable to contact you out of the blue at 2 in the morning asking for the ride are confusing us for some sort of escort service.
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Spot on |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"People come on to a sex site looking for sex then get unset when asked about sex or too have sex makes alot of sence all right lol what ye expecting to chat about football lol its like going to a boxing match and getting mad when someone trys to talk to u about boxing and some people on here u cant even say hello or hi hows your day or u get or u get block its nuts "
Personally I work on the assumption that a commons interest has brought most people here and we’re here to have fun of one form or another, I don’t work on the assumption that that fun will automatically include me just because we happen to share that one common interest.
If sex is nothing more than a physical thing regardless of appearance or anything else then fine but that’s not me.
I don’t assume someone will automatically want to have sex with me just because I possess at least some of the correct anatomy, I may be wrong but I think there’s more to it.
Regardless, then everything non sex related should be deleted from the forum. |
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"Cpls who say they want to meet men but block messages from men "
Usually to avoid a deluge of mail so by blocking messages from men it makes things easier and they can go looking for men that catch their eye and mail them themselves. |
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Always prefer for guy to mail and shows the guy isn't afraid to take charge
But that said we have mailed first when someone takes our fancy
It's all about what's in the mail whether it's mailing us first or replying to us. |
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"Always prefer for guy to mail and shows the guy isn't afraid to take charge
But that said we have mailed first when someone takes our fancy
It's all about what's in the mail whether it's mailing us first or replying to us."
Good to know Wondered whether couples would be sick of being bombarded with messages similar to single women on here. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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On thé couples profile many messages come in where people have been on a week , are unverified , have one line , say something vulgar , have a near blank profile , or say they’re visiting and could we meet now . Those are déleted.
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
There are two major criteria for getting picked Other than personal recommendation
1. A box ticker ; where the profile matches what we’re looking for , and this can be a bit specific
2. Maybe someone who doesn’t meet the criteria but comes across as such good craic or so sound that you want to meet them
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