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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I ( bill ) have found that K has been meeting another man without me knowing.
I thought us swinging was going great but clearly not.
What i need is some advice - do i try work it out and have the thought in the back of my mind every time im at work or do i move on, what would you do?
Another thing is it worth while doing a single male profile on this or is it a waste of time because no many here want single males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you can answer the question! You need to talk and find out if it was just extra sex or does she have feelings for this guy
its one of the hazards of swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i guess ye need b more open for it to work.obviously she has a great sex drive so hold on to her the joys of sex.good luck  "
so your saying just because she has a great sex drive in your words!! that its ok to cheat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that pal. But your the one to make that decision. If i was in your place I would certainly try to work this out together before walking away.
Take your time and don't do anything in haste til you've had a chance to think about it. Don't make any decisions until you have got your head around it. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only think i can say is if you guys are married you need to walk away for the site and try work things out if you think your marriage is wort it xxx best off luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi bill im really sorry to hear about that...its a tricky one this i posted while back about this and it kind of opens a window when you go into this lifestyle..does not make it ok in my opinion to go behind anyones back..it should be a shared experience between two people who love and trust each other!i wouldnt suggest doing a single profile until your 100% sure that the relationship is over!i have had plenty of males wanting meets behind my husbands back...and its a straight NO!!I love him so much hes my soul mate and if i ever thought this site would put our marriage at risk id be off like a shot!!just take time to clear your head and have a wee break form here!i hope everything will work out ok for you...x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are not married, and we where (at least i thought) open about everything, but it had been made clear there is feelings with the male and this had been going on most of our relationship. I do respect her for sitting down and explaining it all. So it is time to move on, thank you all on the advice and your own experiences x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ( bill ) have found that K has been meeting another man without me knowing.
I thought us swinging was going great but clearly not.
What i need is some advice - do i try work it out and have the thought in the back of my mind every time im at work or do i move on, what would you
Another thing is it worth while doing a single male profile on this or is it a waste of time because no many here want single males."
grow a pair and dump the bitch...if being allowed to be with other guys isnt good enough for her you need to get rid of her and move on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are not married, and we where (at least i thought) open about everything, but it had been made clear there is feelings with the male and this had been going on most of our relationship. I do respect her for sitting down and explaining it all. So it is time to move on, thank you all on the advice and your own experiences x"
fair play to you for being so reasonable and mature about it. Sounds like you respect her a lot more than she does you so best to put it down to experience and move on. And this is the best place for it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very mature indeed. You even still have her face blacked out in your pics, I certainly wouldn't be protecting the anomnimity of someone that cheated on me
Good luck with the site, hope you can move on and hopefully get a sympathy shag out of it |
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"We are not married, and we where (at least i thought) open about everything, but it had been made clear there is feelings with the male and this had been going on most of our relationship. I do respect her for sitting down and explaining it all. So it is time to move on, thank you all on the advice and your own experiences x fair play to you for being so reasonable and mature about it. Sounds like you respect her a lot more than she does you so best to put it down to experience and move on. And this is the best place for it lol"
Can you mail as im blocked because of your settings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are not married, and we where (at least i thought) open about everything, but it had been made clear there is feelings with the male and this had been going on most of our relationship. I do respect her for sitting down and explaining it all. So it is time to move on, thank you all on the advice and your own experiences x fair play to you for being so reasonable and mature about it. Sounds like you respect her a lot more than she does you so best to put it down to experience and move on. And this is the best place for it lol
Can you mail as im blocked because of your settings."
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