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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....  |
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it.... "
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected 
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply 
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S |
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it.... "
For me it's definitely my standards... I'm extremely picky. I don't really see it as not being ABLE to get a meet though, it's a choice.
When I do agree to meet though, there is a really high proportion of no shows / flakes and I think (aside from a lot of people being all talk) that's for the same reason - I'm looking for a high effort experience and not many are willing to provide that it seems.
(In general on this topic, I think women rarely complain that they can't get meets because we are all too aware of our own faults and/or don't feel entitled to sex in the first place) |
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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1 "
Why is rejection so bad? I doubt you'd be rejected that often either.
I wouldn't consider myself an Adonis. |
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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S "
I would say men have the exact same issues with the above. Do you think there is anything that occurs specifically to men or are the issues that lead to less meets irrelevant of gender? |
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1
Why is rejection so bad? I doubt you'd be rejected that often either.
I wouldn't consider myself an Adonis. "
You'd be surprised but rejection definitely has its place, also in a positive way - makes you look at yourself in a more critical manner and can give insight on how to be a better person...
Plenty of mere mortals applying, suppose if I want to meet, I'll need to think of lowering that expectation Food for thought |
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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
For me it's definitely my standards... I'm extremely picky. I don't really see it as not being ABLE to get a meet though, it's a choice.
When I do agree to meet though, there is a really high proportion of no shows / flakes and I think (aside from a lot of people being all talk) that's for the same reason - I'm looking for a high effort experience and not many are willing to provide that it seems.
(In general on this topic, I think women rarely complain that they can't get meets because we are all too aware of our own faults and/or don't feel entitled to sex in the first place) "
I do often wonder if people are picky as a defensive mechanism, even if unaware of it themselves.
Agree on the entitled to sex part though, it does seem to be a big difference. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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If you have a pussy you can get a meet guaranteed. Simple as that.
So it's a woman's requirements, preferences, attitudes, personality etc. that might prevent her from being successful on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
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Saying that women don't feel entitled to sex isn't entirely accurate though.
Just in the world of fab there are many women who live off their personas and believe that they are indeed entitled to sex based purely on the height of the pedestals they themselves and others have put them on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all the years here could count the amount of lady's on one hand who have messaged us first.
Then take away from that hand the lady's who's profile are a little dodge.
But tbh not that bothered.For us the socials are the meeting hotspots.  |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services "
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
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over a year ago
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"If you have a pussy you can get a meet guaranteed. Simple as that."
Yep,no such thing as a woman who can't get meets, only a woman who chooses not to take up what she's being offered
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
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Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?  |
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"Saying that women don't feel entitled to sex isn't entirely accurate though.
Just in the world of fab there are many women who live off their personas and believe that they are indeed entitled to sex based purely on the height of the pedestals they themselves and others have put them on.
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I disagree... There's a difference between being confident, or even cocky or arrogant, and being entitled. Entitlement is the perception that if you are simply here, people who are also here will engage with you, meet with you etc etc regardless of how you present yourself. Plenty of men who wouldn't rate themselves behave this way - in fact they come to this site BECAUSE they don't rate themselves or have high levels of confidence in "real life".
Holding yourself in high regard is more about feeling like everyone WANTS to be with you, and not everyone who loves themselves (men and women alike) has an entitled attitude - in fact I think it's less likely as they know / believe they have plenty of other options. |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder? "
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference! |
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"Saying that women don't feel entitled to sex isn't entirely accurate though.
Just in the world of fab there are many women who live off their personas and believe that they are indeed entitled to sex based purely on the height of the pedestals they themselves and others have put them on.
I disagree... There's a difference between being confident, or even cocky or arrogant, and being entitled. Entitlement is the perception that if you are simply here, people who are also here will engage with you, meet with you etc etc regardless of how you present yourself. Plenty of men who wouldn't rate themselves behave this way - in fact they come to this site BECAUSE they don't rate themselves or have high levels of confidence in "real life".
Holding yourself in high regard is more about feeling like everyone WANTS to be with you, and not everyone who loves themselves (men and women alike) has an entitled attitude - in fact I think it's less likely as they know / believe they have plenty of other options. "
confused what are you disagreeing to here exactly? |
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"Saying that women don't feel entitled to sex isn't entirely accurate though.
Just in the world of fab there are many women who live off their personas and believe that they are indeed entitled to sex based purely on the height of the pedestals they themselves and others have put them on.
I disagree... There's a difference between being confident, or even cocky or arrogant, and being entitled. Entitlement is the perception that if you are simply here, people who are also here will engage with you, meet with you etc etc regardless of how you present yourself. Plenty of men who wouldn't rate themselves behave this way - in fact they come to this site BECAUSE they don't rate themselves or have high levels of confidence in "real life".
Holding yourself in high regard is more about feeling like everyone WANTS to be with you, and not everyone who loves themselves (men and women alike) has an entitled attitude - in fact I think it's less likely as they know / believe they have plenty of other options. "
We'll have to agree to disagree. When I get a message from a woman who has completely ignored every word on my profile and asks to meet now and she then takes a hissy fit because I say no and uses the do you not know who I am line or name drops people she has met and proceeds to tell me it's my loss then I reserve the right to call her entitled.
Someone who based on her name and fab reputation alone feels it is acceptable to talk to the cock rather than the man attached is definitely entitled. |
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"I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected "
Please don't be terrified of rejections. Given your excellent photos and the exquisitely well written description, no sane man can refuse you because of your qualities. Most likely a man can refuse you because they would be afraid of not matching your expectations, or for any other reason, such as having no ability to meet at all at the present time. |
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Schedules not aligning,due to busy vanilla life.
Not finding the right person is the biggest reason.
No attraction,no chemistry. Not being able to get to know one another before the actual meet.
But as one says, the right one will come along. Eventually. Hopefully. |
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"I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
Please don't be terrified of rejections. Given your excellent photos and the exquisitely well written description, no sane man can refuse you because of your qualities. Most likely a man can refuse you because they would be afraid of not matching your expectations, or for any other reason, such as having no ability to meet at all at the present time. "
Aw, you're too kind...it was a message for jest, more so than anything else
If I am rejected, then it's not meant to be - I'm not for everyone, just like not everyone's for me. |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference! "
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion "
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. |
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"I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. "
boo booo |
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"I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. "
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"I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. "
Hear, hear - well said! I'll join your "being booed club" |
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I suspect it’s more the women who won’t go on meets rather than can’t. It’s entirely down to choices, which can never be predicted as we all make different choices.
In fact choices change depending on what’s on offer as well  |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach "
And that's the last impression I want to give ...so many profiles here make me feel intimidated lol... isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder... you might think I'm pig ugly in reality?! |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach
And that's the last impression I want to give ...so many profiles here make me feel intimidated lol... isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder... you might think I'm pig ugly in reality?! "
maybe I love a good pig/hog |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach
And that's the last impression I want to give ...so many profiles here make me feel intimidated lol... isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder... you might think I'm pig ugly in reality?!
maybe I love a good pig/hog "
They have their place - on a spit roast |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
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"I suspect it’s more the women who won’t go on meets rather than can’t. It’s entirely down to choices, which can never be predicted as we all make different choices.
In fact choices change depending on what’s on offer as well "
Oh 100% and also cause they have the wrong name |
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Holding yourself in high regard is more about feeling like everyone WANTS to be with you, and not everyone who loves themselves (men and women alike) has an entitled attitude - in fact I think it's less likely as they know / believe they have plenty of other options. "
Just in regard to the above. The women I'm talking about who very definitely frequent this parish don't see it as having other options. It's the fact that they can't have every option. That includes other women's options. They have to have what others have and turn into Karen when someone has the neck to say no. |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach
And that's the last impression I want to give ...so many profiles here make me feel intimidated lol... isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder... you might think I'm pig ugly in reality?!
maybe I love a good pig/hog
They have their place - on a spit roast "
and the sun is shining perfect for one , I'm hungry now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Holding yourself in high regard is more about feeling like everyone WANTS to be with you, and not everyone who loves themselves (men and women alike) has an entitled attitude - in fact I think it's less likely as they know / believe they have plenty of other options.
Just in regard to the above. The women I'm talking about who very definitely frequent this parish don't see it as having other options. It's the fact that they can't have every option. That includes other women's options. They have to have what others have and turn into Karen when someone has the neck to say no. "
What? Karens here..
Run for your lives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S "
All of the above and people, men and women who have notions about themselves. |
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"Because they put a higher market value than what they actually have!
Sad but true!
Supply and demand, hey? isn't it amazing how market value doesn't only apply to goods and services
soooooo true, tall ,dark and handsome with a 12 inch cock* here looking for the highest bidder! If you play your cards right you might be in with the chance!
*12 inch cock will be delivered in 2 installments of six inches at the time!
Well now, which is it - highest bidder or playing cards right? Make up your mind, man
Mmmmmh, installments? What if I don't like the first installment and was highest bidder?
Sorry but you didn't read t&c's there for a non refund policy applies !
And I'm complicated don't know what I want! I want highest bidder to play her cards right! It's just my preference!
Those darn t&c's...always too well hidden! Glad you made me aware
And you do know what you want or just actively working through your confusion
what are we talking about?
I'm just intimidated by your beauty and that makes me doubt a more direct approach
And that's the last impression I want to give ...so many profiles here make me feel intimidated lol... isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder... you might think I'm pig ugly in reality?!
maybe I love a good pig/hog
They have their place - on a spit roast
and the sun is shining perfect for one , I'm hungry now "
Waiting on an invite to a hogroast now I'm drooling at the thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S
All of the above and people, men and women who have notions about themselves. "
Oh definately a few with notions alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1 "
There's not one sane man out there would ever reject you... go for it and enjoy ?? |
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"I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. "
100% this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have a pussy you can get a meet guaranteed. Simple as that.
So it's a woman's requirements, preferences, attitudes, personality etc. that might prevent her from being successful on here. "
I absolutely 100% agree... alot 9f us guys are too easy... women can hold out longer than us guys...not afraid to admit it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
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What signals do you need to pick up... people are here for one reason only??
If a guy contacts you then you know why surely?
If you contact a guy he should feel flattered and reciprocate ?? |
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
What signals do you need to pick up... people are here for one reason only??
If a guy contacts you then you know why surely?
If you contact a guy he should feel flattered and reciprocate ??"
I disagree completely. People are not here for one thing only. They are here for different reasons.
Also every woman on here will say about guys messaging them and expecting them to be flattered and then reciprocate so what's the difference?
Start talking to people like human beings and grown adults rather than all this them and us crap and you might discover there's very little difference between men and women apart from the fact some have bigger tits and smaller dicks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
What signals do you need to pick up... people are here for one reason only??
If a guy contacts you then you know why surely?
If you contact a guy he should feel flattered and reciprocate ??
I disagree completely. People are not here for one thing only. They are here for different reasons.
Also every woman on here will say about guys messaging them and expecting them to be flattered and then reciprocate so what's the difference?
Start talking to people like human beings and grown adults rather than all this them and us crap and you might discover there's very little difference between men and women apart from the fact some have bigger tits and smaller dicks. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some profiles to set some pretty unachievable standards with list as long as my....arm with demands and criteria.
I mean it's totally fine to be picky as time is valuable and we all have our kinks but sometimes I read those profiles and see I don't tick 2 of the 43 boxes and think to myself do I want to meet someone like that? ? Probably not.
It's funny to think if the roles were reversed and a guy had a similar profile. I'm sure it's out there but can't imagine it gets too much attention from the ladies. |
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
What signals do you need to pick up... people are here for one reason only??
If a guy contacts you then you know why surely?
If you contact a guy he should feel flattered and reciprocate ??"
Where did I say a guy should feel flattered ?
And the guy that messages out of the blue calling me a fat whale am I to believe he wants to shag me?
People are here for loads of different reasons, some are here for quality rather than quantity, some are here as hole is a goal, some are here to abuse and threaten and hide behind a keyboard and hurl abuse. Some are here to explore sex, some are here to fulfill their needs and bucket lists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you seen some of the messages women get (myself included) you'd understand.. I wouldn't tar all with same brush or I wouldn't bother being here anymore but some are thinking with their dicks.. Just speak to women normally and see where it goes is my advice! |
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I've looked at both threads on this, it's the same for women and men imo, there's as many genuine people as time wasters, fantasers, picture hunters, so for those genuine people have to look for those other genuine people, who also fit what they want to meet, be it a man wanting to curvy ladies or skinny etc, a lady looking for tall or small, body building type etc, it means for most there pool of people is small to meet, |
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"After reading both threads I've come to the realisation that its not easy for anyone really on here is it.
Except for those that dont go near the forums .....they're riding all over the place  "
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"After reading both threads I've come to the realisation that its not easy for anyone really on here is it.
Except for those that dont go near the forums .....they're riding all over the place "
I knew it, I knew there was a secret club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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IMHO...if a woman cant get meets here its because
1.She's very particular.
Or
2.She's not really interested.
Because lets face it the ratio here has gotta be approx 10:1 and l fully respect their requirements etc absolutely but as l said if they cant get meets its because of at least the 2 points listed.
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" People are not here for one thing only. They are here for different reasons.
Also every woman on here will say about guys messaging them and expecting them to be flattered and then reciprocate so what's the difference?
Start talking to people like human beings and grown adults rather than all this them and us crap and you might discover there's very little difference between men and women apart from the fact some have bigger tits and smaller dicks. "
??This. Take a minute to look beyond the photos & start an actual conversation if you think you might be compatible with the person behind the profile you are browsing. We're all people with hang ups, busy lives, preferences & boundaries so not everyone suits everyone else. |
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By *issusWoman
over a year ago
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"IMHO...if a woman cant get meets here its because
1.She's very particular.
Or
2.She's not really interested.
Because lets face it the ratio here has gotta be approx 10:1 and l fully respect their requirements etc absolutely but as l said if they cant get meets its because of at least the 2 points listed.
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To be fair you have to be selective as most people join this site to treat it as some free dial a ride tool because their mate told them about that magical place where they get their hole whenever they feel like it (obviously made up stories) and you can't really blame women not wanting to be treated that way .... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I know I'll probally be booed for this bit some women here think that just because the men out number them they have the right to demand what they like and say and do what they want and still expect people to meet them. "
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"IMHO...if a woman cant get meets here its because
1.She's very particular.
Or
2.She's not really interested.
Because lets face it the ratio here has gotta be approx 10:1 and l fully respect their requirements etc absolutely but as l said if they cant get meets its because of at least the 2 points listed.
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I've said it before and I'll say it again...
The odds are good but the goods are mostly odd |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
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"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!! |
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!"
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet |
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over a year ago
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet"
Stop
I could get badges made up thats so quotable
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet
Stop
I could get badges made up thats so quotable
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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
This has been such a successful post I feel I should make this a regular series on what women can't do.
A reason women can't....
Always willing to listen to suggestions so my inbox is always open.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"People don't notice us, they never see
Under their noses a Cockwomble may be.
Woeful Cockwomble by night and Whiney Womble by day.
Looking for litter to trundle away."
Your poetry talents are impressive RB |
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"People don't notice us, they never see
Under their noses a Cockwomble may be.
Woeful Cockwomble by night and Whiney Womble by day.
Looking for litter to trundle away.
Your poetry talents are impressive RB "
You'll be looking a pic of my womble next  |
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over a year ago
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet"
Now that has to be a talent  |
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over a year ago
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet
Now that has to be a talent "
My only one it would seem
And it took me 50 years to realise it |
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over a year ago
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"because neither tom hardy or henry cavill are on here and if they are i havent found them yet despite extensive and exhaustive searches"
Superman and Bane... sheez... keeping it real.. |
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"I have sent a first message on here and have no issue making first contact with someone.
I don't have a long list of essential criteria for someone to have before I meet them I prefer to go on how someone comes across when we chat than rely on a list that still doesn't mean someone will be what I like.
And this whole the quality of men on here is bad is rubbish most are pretty decent down to earth men well the ones I have spoken to anyhow yes there are some woeful cockwombles on here as well but then that could be said for both men and women on here. You just ignore those ones .
"woeful cockwombles"
pmsl!!
I'm a woeful cockwomble magnet
Now that has to be a talent
My only one it would seem
And it took me 50 years to realise it"
Disagree, you are witty, not so sure about charming lol and you've got great legs so all is not lost |
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"because neither tom hardy or henry cavill are on here and if they are i havent found them yet despite extensive and exhaustive searches
Superman and Bane... sheez... keeping it real.. "
a threeway with them is reeeeaaaallly not too much to ask in fairness |
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over a year ago
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
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so all the ladies going on about the fear of rejection. Now think about how we feel when women reject us time and again trust me its not a great feeling |
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
so all the ladies going on about the fear of rejection. Now think about how we feel when women reject us time and again trust me its not a great feeling "
Rejection for anyone is not nice, hence why I don't put myself out there. |
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"because neither tom hardy or henry cavill are on here and if they are i havent found them yet despite extensive and exhaustive searches
Superman and Bane... sheez... keeping it real..
a threeway with them is reeeeaaaallly not too much to ask in fairness "
Sure why not ask Thor along too sure he’s beside ye there in Asgard... |
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over a year ago
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"For me first and foremost it's rejection, I don't send first messages on here.
Secondly- I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and end up friend zoning guys
And again for me rejection and low self worth.
so all the ladies going on about the fear of rejection. Now think about how we feel when women reject us time and again trust me its not a great feeling
Rejection for anyone is not nice, hence why I don't put myself out there. "
Of course its not but life we are not everyone's cup of tea it's going to happen unfortunately.
Just means they have saved us all time , mental energy and giving us more time to find that person who is an awesome cup of tea and that might be next person ya say hi to or compliment them on status pic etc
So I say stay out there and be yourself the right cup of tea will find ya
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"1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S "
True not wrong there! |
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"because neither tom hardy or henry cavill are on here and if they are i havent found them yet despite extensive and exhaustive searches
Superman and Bane... sheez... keeping it real..
a threeway with them is reeeeaaaallly not too much to ask in fairness
Sure why not ask Thor along too sure he’s beside ye there in Asgard... "
nah chris hemsworth does fuck all for me. Plus i have my own thor at home so |
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1 "
Saint or Sinner you get used to rejection after a while. Many of us genuine men are rejected time and time again. |
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If any woman, lady or female can't get a meet on here. It's simply because she don't want to. If this place proves anything. It proves there is someone on here for everyone. No matter what their size, shape, looks or any other label one uses. |
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over a year ago
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"because neither tom hardy or henry cavill are on here and if they are i havent found them yet despite extensive and exhaustive searches
Superman and Bane... sheez... keeping it real..
a threeway with them is reeeeaaaallly not too much to ask in fairness
Sure why not ask Thor along too sure he’s beside ye there in Asgard...
nah chris hemsworth does fuck all for me. Plus i have my own thor at home so "
Tbf I’ve seen his pics... your not wrong... |
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"Not to derail the other thread that's going to provide some quality entertainment.
So what is it?
The reluctance to send a first message?
The long lists of essential criteria in their profile?
The poor quality of men?
She, let's have it....
I'm terrified to send a first message - I might be rejected
My essential criteria means only Adonises need apply
I can't talk about the quality of men - no Adonis has applied and see Note 1
Saint or Sinner you get used to rejection after a while. Many of us genuine men are rejected time and time again. "
It was mere jest I have no problem approaching a profile which attracts me. If rejected, then it wasn't meant to be |
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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago
Dublin westmeath galway |
"1. Lot of fake profiles
2. Lot of single men arent actually single and cant meet due to the wife/partner
3. Lot of men are full of fantasy but bottle it when it comes to the actual meet
Mrs S "
you couldn't have said it better mrs S |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
If you’re not overly bothered about who you’re shagging, it’s like catching fish in a barrel.
If you want to meet someone that you connect with and feel like you can have a good laugh with then it’s a little harder but worth the effort.
IMO it’s not the people who are happy to put in effort to find a good match that complain about not getting meets though. |
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Plenty of reasons behind women not getting meets!! Yeah definitely men hiding behind couples profiles,not genuine even after talking absolutely months,married or attached,just pic collectors and men only wanna talk dirty...feel like we're almost wasting our time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm awfully picky. Most men who message are either shorter than me which is a massive no, think they are gods gift or their attitude is dreadful. I'd rather wait to meet someone who ticks all the boxes than meet tons and be left unsatisfied. Learned my lesson well over the years that quality is worth waiting for |
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over a year ago
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I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE"
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment "
Rushes off to check profile is what I think it is |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment
Rushes off to check profile is what I think it is "
Yep, I'm good |
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over a year ago
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"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment "
Yes many many are who they say they are too, which is brill... & some even look better in real life than their pics
I'm speaking from personal experience of the fakes...I met a guy before & he was at least 10yrs older than what he said...Looked nothing like his pics & he was married lol even though he said he was single...The tan line on his ring finger was very visible...I did a runner obsviously  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment
Yes many many are who they say they are too, which is brill... & some even look better in real life than their pics
I'm speaking from personal experience of the fakes...I met a guy before & he was at least 10yrs older than what he said...Looked nothing like his pics & he was married lol even though he said he was single...The tan line on his ring finger was very visible...I did a runner obsviously "
I consider the ring sacred.
Never coming off.
I am what I say I am, be that a stupid move here or not, I don't care.
Anyone pretending to be something they're not ain't worth meeting, never mind fucking.
Sorry for ranting but I despise bullshit. Banter and spoofing I love but lying?
Get knotted folks |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment
Yes many many are who they say they are too, which is brill... & some even look better in real life than their pics
I'm speaking from personal experience of the fakes...I met a guy before & he was at least 10yrs older than what he said...Looked nothing like his pics & he was married lol even though he said he was single...The tan line on his ring finger was very visible...I did a runner obsviously
I consider the ring sacred.
Never coming off.
I am what I say I am, be that a stupid move here or not, I don't care.
Anyone pretending to be something they're not ain't worth meeting, never mind fucking.
Sorry for ranting but I despise bullshit. Banter and spoofing I love but lying?
Get knotted folks "
Before anyone gets on high horse, told wife about here, asked her to come on it but she declined so that's why I'm here alone.
Let me pour a tall glass of Get Over It ohand here's a straw So You Can Suck It Up |
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"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment
Yes many many are who they say they are too, which is brill... & some even look better in real life than their pics
I'm speaking from personal experience of the fakes...I met a guy before & he was at least 10yrs older than what he said...Looked nothing like his pics & he was married lol even though he said he was single...The tan line on his ring finger was very visible...I did a runner obsviously
I consider the ring sacred.
Never coming off.
I am what I say I am, be that a stupid move here or not, I don't care.
Anyone pretending to be something they're not ain't worth meeting, never mind fucking.
Sorry for ranting but I despise bullshit. Banter and spoofing I love but lying?
Get knotted folks "
I admire your honesty JD...It's important to be up front & no false pretences |
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My feed is full of women getting meets. Obviously during pandemic they are gonna meet the guys willing to meet.
So people with no family or connections in Ireland can meet easier. Women should focus on them. From my feed that type of guy is doing a lot better too.
I myself don't have to worry about covid. So hopefully I can do as well. |
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"My feed is full of women getting meets. Obviously during pandemic they are gonna meet the guys willing to meet.
So people with no family or connections in Ireland can meet easier. Women should focus on them. From my feed that type of guy is doing a lot better too.
I myself don't have to worry about covid. So hopefully I can do as well."
You mightn't have to worry about covid but if you have it everyone you give it to might have a different story to say.. |
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over a year ago
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"My feed is full of women getting meets. Obviously during pandemic they are gonna meet the guys willing to meet.
So people with no family or connections in Ireland can meet easier. Women should focus on them. From my feed that type of guy is doing a lot better too.
I myself don't have to worry about covid. So hopefully I can do as well."
"I myself don't have to worry about covid".
^^^^^^^
Why don't You not have to worry about Covid Are you super human or what...
As we know the Vax won't stop you from getting it...you'll just have milder systems if you do contract it.
That statement speaks volumes about you. The new strain is rampant in other parts of the world right now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For every 100 single lads, there's probably 1 decent, reliable and attractive gentleman.
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^^^^^^^
I agree totally...But it may be more than 1 in 100 in my experience...Could be closer to 1 in 200 that I find attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a fella its always hatd sending first message to anyone. You dont want to appear too cocky and you dont want to be boring either.I speak to lots on here in private. Its very hard to know if others find you funny or boring. As others have said, the ladies have the odds stacked in their favour and that is never going to change. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
So women or couple profiles that state :
‘Must be 6 foot plus’ are missing out on what shorter guys can bring . Are they aware of what is inversely proportional to height in men ?
And don’t get me started on the ‘must be shaved in all the right places ‘
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By *issusWoman
over a year ago
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"So women or couple profiles that state :
‘Must be 6 foot plus’ are missing out on what shorter guys can bring . Are they aware of what is inversely proportional to height in men ?
And don’t get me started on the ‘must be shaved in all the right places ‘
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So women or couple profiles that state :
‘Must be 6 foot plus’ are missing out on what shorter guys can bring . Are they aware of what is inversely proportional to height in men ?
And don’t get me started on the ‘must be shaved in all the right places ‘
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^^^^^^^
I'm only attracted to tall men & I ain't going near hairy genitalia |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
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Whatever about height/body hair preferences, the calls for "only contact me if you are 8-inch+" are hilarious. And I've seen a good few profiles with it too.
Again, everyone has their personal preferences... just, you're ruling out probably 95% of lads on one single condition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never sent a first msg...
There's many many fakes on here...fake as in way older than stated on profile, heavily photo-shopped & dated photos...Some saying they're single when their not...they're actually cheating married men...fking left right & centre Lol... TRUE
Though some of us are fully honest on our profile, probably to our detriment
Yes many many are who they say they are too, which is brill... & some even look better in real life than their pics
I'm speaking from personal experience of the fakes...I met a guy before & he was at least 10yrs older than what he said...Looked nothing like his pics & he was married lol even though he said he was single...The tan line on his ring finger was very visible...I did a runner obsviously
I consider the ring sacred.
Never coming off.
I am what I say I am, be that a stupid move here or not, I don't care.
Anyone pretending to be something they're not ain't worth meeting, never mind fucking.
Sorry for ranting but I despise bullshit. Banter and spoofing I love but lying?
Get knotted folks
Before anyone gets on high horse, told wife about here, asked her to come on it but she declined so that's why I'm here alone.
Let me pour a tall glass of Get Over It ohand here's a straw So You Can Suck It Up "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whatever about height/body hair preferences, the calls for "only contact me if you are 8-inch+" are hilarious. And I've seen a good few profiles with it too.
Again, everyone has their personal preferences... just, you're ruling out probably 95% of lads on one single condition "
Yup...But preferences are preferences...I think it's called being picky & select...
I'm a fussy bitch tbh...a perfectionist to a fault |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Whatever about height/body hair preferences, the calls for "only contact me if you are 8-inch+" are hilarious. And I've seen a good few profiles with it too.
Again, everyone has their personal preferences... just, you're ruling out probably 95% of lads on one single condition "
The bigger the cock the stronger the chemistry. |
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By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
I take the positives from a list of preferences. It saves time and provides clarity for you. Nothing better then reading a profile with list of what is attractive to them and it's a list you fit with.
You would waste so time gaining that information otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any Females getting an increase in offers of cash for sex?????
Not in a million years will that encourage me to meet...there's a name for that & it begins with P... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly thought women not getting meets was a mythical thing. There are so many males yo choose from, I appreciate others factors come into it…I have to hustle to get a reply, never mind a meet ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any Females getting an increase in offers of cash for sex?????
Not in a million years will that encourage me to meet...there's a name for that & it begins with P...
Would that be Payment? "
Good One it's the P as well I guess |
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""I myself don't have to worry about covid".
^^^^^^^
Why don't You not have to worry about Covid Are you super human or what...
As we know the Vax won't stop you from getting it...you'll just have milder systems if you do contract it.
That statement speaks volumes about you. The new strain is rampant in other parts of the world right now..."
This post is about women finding it hard to get meets, not women refusing to meet. You say only 1 in 200 are good enough for you, but if you want to meet that 1 today, they need to be okay meeting during a pandemic.
There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in, or other factors. This does not mean they do not think covid is serious, just they dont worry.
You accept risk it might happen and carry on. Do you expect brazil and africa to shut down because HIV is rampant in some areas?
Do you expect the sick migrants Ireland accepts to stop living their life and live in a single room? Ireland offers free HIV drugs so can continue on a normal life, can even have unprotected sex.
I am sorry to be so blunt and it might seem cold. But if you want to meet during a pandemic then you need to find a guy willing to accept risk of meeting during a pandemic.
There was big parties during lockdown, they had trouble finding men to attend, men who were worried about passing covid to parents etc. So migrant men and men who moved to Ireland filled the gaps. Never been as popular as now, because dont worry too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""I myself don't have to worry about covid".
^^^^^^^
Why don't You not have to worry about Covid Are you super human or what...
As we know the Vax won't stop you from getting it...you'll just have milder systems if you do contract it.
That statement speaks volumes about you. The new strain is rampant in other parts of the world right now...
This post is about women finding it hard to get meets, not women refusing to meet. You say only 1 in 200 are good enough for you, but if you want to meet that 1 today, they need to be okay meeting during a pandemic.
There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in, or other factors. This does not mean they do not think covid is serious, just they dont worry.
You accept risk it might happen and carry on. Do you expect brazil and africa to shut down because HIV is rampant in some areas?
Do you expect the sick migrants Ireland accepts to stop living their life and live in a single room? Ireland offers free HIV drugs so can continue on a normal life, can even have unprotected sex.
I am sorry to be so blunt and it might seem cold. But if you want to meet during a pandemic then you need to find a guy willing to accept risk of meeting during a pandemic.
There was big parties during lockdown, they had trouble finding men to attend, men who were worried about passing covid to parents etc. So migrant men and men who moved to Ireland filled the gaps. Never been as popular as now, because dont worry too much"
"But if you want to meet during a pandemic then you need to find a guy willing to accept risk of meeting during a pandemic"
^^^^^^^ I don't recall saying I was meeting
Also it's nothing to do with the country "we are born in that There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in, many countries have begun to accept this, not just Ireland.
And yes approximately 1 in 200 on here I would find physically attractive or have a connection with. You are aware of the vast crazy ratio of M:F yea...i.e. 100:1 approx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""I myself don't have to worry about covid".
^^^^^^^
Why don't You not have to worry about Covid Are you super human or what...
As we know the Vax won't stop you from getting it...you'll just have milder systems if you do contract it.
That statement speaks volumes about you. The new strain is rampant in other parts of the world right now...
This post is about women finding it hard to get meets, not women refusing to meet. You say only 1 in 200 are good enough for you, but if you want to meet that 1 today, they need to be okay meeting during a pandemic.
There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in, or other factors. This does not mean they do not think covid is serious, just they dont worry.
You accept risk it might happen and carry on. Do you expect brazil and africa to shut down because HIV is rampant in some areas?
Do you expect the sick migrants Ireland accepts to stop living their life and live in a single room? Ireland offers free HIV drugs so can continue on a normal life, can even have unprotected sex.
I am sorry to be so blunt and it might seem cold. But if you want to meet during a pandemic then you need to find a guy willing to accept risk of meeting during a pandemic.
There was big parties during lockdown, they had trouble finding men to attend, men who were worried about passing covid to parents etc. So migrant men and men who moved to Ireland filled the gaps. Never been as popular as now, because dont worry too much
"But if you want to meet during a pandemic then you need to find a guy willing to accept risk of meeting during a pandemic"
^^^^^^^ I don't recall saying I was meeting
Also it's nothing to do with the country "we are born in that There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in, many countries have begun to accept this, not just Ireland.
And yes approximately 1 in 200 on here I would find physically attractive or have a connection with. You are aware of the vast crazy ratio of M:F yea...i.e. 100:1 approx."
Also it's nothing to do with the country "we are born in that There are people on here who accept death from disease as a daily threat of life, due to country born in"... Many countries have begun to accept this, not just Ireland.
There's no way I would meet someone I didn't have a connection or chemistry with or find attractive.
I'm interested to know the % of women on here you have a connection & chemistry with & that you find attractive???????
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