Is there any way to block smokers??
I absolutely will not meet smokers, I’m an ex smoker and while I don’t care what others do to their bodies, I can’t stand the smell or taste of it. I say no smokers in my profile but recently have starting getting abuse now cos I won’t meet them.
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over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker. "
oh oh...  |
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over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker. "
I'd have to run these days |
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over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
I'd have to run these days"
how are you going with it, i remember a previous post you were 3 months off them was it? |
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over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
I'd have to run these days
how are you going with it, i remember a previous post you were 3 months off them was it?"
4 months and counting
Never going back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
I'd have to run these days
how are you going with it, i remember a previous post you were 3 months off them was it?
4 months and counting
Never going back"
Good on you 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
I'd have to run these days
how are you going with it, i remember a previous post you were 3 months off them was it?
4 months and counting
Never going back"
Well done. Keep it up , you must have found something to take it’s place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
I'd have to run these days
how are you going with it, i remember a previous post you were 3 months off them was it?
4 months and counting
Never going back
Well done. Keep it up , you must have found something to take it’s place "
Exercise!! I've resurrected the gym bunny within |
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"Is there any way to block smokers??
I absolutely will not meet smokers, I’m an ex smoker and while I don’t care what others do to their bodies, I can’t stand the smell or taste of it. I say no smokers in my profile but recently have starting getting abuse now cos I won’t meet them.
Any tips!?"
Even if you could block them, people often lie about it as they know others might prefer not to meet smokers... Kind of the same as people lying about their age, height etc!
I guess all you can do is ask and be very clear that it's a dealbreaker for you, along with liberal block button usage.
Congrats on quitting! |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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I have no issues with smokers or snogging them or whatever.
I do however think it has a serious impact on parties, a lot of people spend the night up and down the stairs/lift or out on the balcony.
Are smoker free parties the way forward?  |
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"Its actually harder as an ex smoker alright to be around smokers
Obviously people lie about it to get meets
Omg I’d get up and leave if someone was a smoker.
oh oh... "
And yet some of my favourite people are smokers!!! . I might not snog you tho.. |
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over a year ago
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"What is the prevailing opinion on vaping. I've smoked maybe one night out in the last 8 years but I vape. No smell, no burning etc."
It does smell, and taste
Worse than the fags in my opinion
One of the reasons I'm glad we are no longer in the office. Sickly sweet smell of the stuff wafting about as people refilling at their desks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You want the site to block smokers for you?
Can't you do that yourself when you look at a profile to see if there's an interest?
And yes,some will lie and say they don't smoke,but you won't know that till you actually meet them,same as age height etc
Take responsibility for your own fab life. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"What is the prevailing opinion on vaping. I've smoked maybe one night out in the last 8 years but I vape. No smell, no burning etc.
It does smell, and taste
Worse than the fags in my opinion
One of the reasons I'm glad we are no longer in the office. Sickly sweet smell of the stuff wafting about as people refilling at their desks "
I agree I'm not a fan of smoking but vaping I actually find worse .If you walk into a room where people are vaping it's like walking into a sickly sweet smelling cloud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself a smoker but I often go days or weeks without one, if I was going to a meet I wouldn’t smoke or even bring them with me so would I be treated the same as a full time 20 a day smoker? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I consider myself a smoker but I often go days or weeks without one, if I was going to a meet I wouldn’t smoke or even bring them with me so would I be treated the same as a full time 20 a day smoker?"
Not by me anyhow. But I can't speak for anyone else . |
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"I consider myself a smoker but I often go days or weeks without one, if I was going to a meet I wouldn’t smoke or even bring them with me so would I be treated the same as a full time 20 a day smoker?"
No, I probably wouldn’t. A FB of mine is similar, v rarely smokes and it’s cool. But the point is that you appreciate that people don’t like it. And you don’t lie to the people you’re meeting. |
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"You want the site to block smokers for you?
Can't you do that yourself when you look at a profile to see if there's an interest?
And yes,some will lie and say they don't smoke,but you won't know that till you actually meet them,same as age height etc
Take responsibility for your own fab life."
Well aren’t you just a bundle of DISCUSSION   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no issues with smokers or snogging them or whatever.
I do however think it has a serious impact on parties, a lot of people spend the night up and down the stairs/lift or out on the balcony.
Are smoker free parties the way forward? "
My god! It would be very intresting to know just how much riding would happen if smoking was removed. (Shrugs shoulders)..."well, guess I better roid again" |
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"I have no issues with smokers or snogging them or whatever.
I do however think it has a serious impact on parties, a lot of people spend the night up and down the stairs/lift or out on the balcony.
Are smoker free parties the way forward?
My god! It would be very intresting to know just how much riding would happen if smoking was removed. (Shrugs shoulders)..."well, guess I better roid again""
post coital shag replacing the post coital fag? hmm now theres an incentive to quit lol!! |
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over a year ago
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Why would you get abuse for not wanting to meet a smoker? I dont get it! They should realise people have preferences and if they dont fit into that then good luck with the rest of your fab journey. It's on your profile too! Why respond with abuse? What kind of tool does that?? Id see the fishnet picture and quit on the spot
The post coital shag over post coital fag should definately work for most people to quit! |
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"Is there any way to block smokers??
I absolutely will not meet smokers, I’m an ex smoker and while I don’t care what others do to their bodies, I can’t stand the smell or taste of it. I say no smokers in my profile but recently have starting getting abuse now cos I won’t meet them.
Any tips!?"
Do you consider vaping as smoking? |
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What a sad fact, I've met men on here who state they are non smokers, but chuff them off like a train, but I state I'm a smoker an get umpteen messages from men who say they won't meet smokers, an when I queried it they say they don't mind, I rarely smoke before or on a meet, most I have met are convinced I don't smoke!! |
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To a couple of the comments I vape a blend called high tobacco aka it literally has no taste or smell!! Its not flavoured
Even non smokers can't pick it up!!
ps.. I think I'll just look for smokers from now on
Pps that specifically don't use ashtrays |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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I clearly state it on profile and would never give anyone grief for not meeting smokers.
I have occasionally messaged saying it's a shame they don't as I'm someone who only smokes outside.
So a roll in the sheets wouldn't involve one but a roll in the hay might
I didn't light the big fire Ma, I only lit the small one |
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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago
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I love sexy ladies smoking. But I don't like smoking or even smoke. It's a weird fetish I developed in my later years. Vix use to smoke but is off them over a year and don't want her to go back on them. But I'm a sucker for sexy smoker, but their probably just sexy. ROC |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of an unrelated topic but since there's a few people in here who have quit, I'm wondering do ye have any advice on how to stop? Bloody things are draining me for cash lol |
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"Bit of an unrelated topic but since there's a few people in here who have quit, I'm wondering do ye have any advice on how to stop? Bloody things are draining me for cash lol"
It’s really hard but worth every oz of effort. I did that book, Allan Carr? I topped it up with hypn0therapy. That worked for ages but I still craved them. Then I got pregnant and smoke was the most disgusting thing i could imagine. So I done then. I think hanging around with non-smokers helped break the habit too. Good luck tho, it’s not easy. |
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"Why would you get abuse for not wanting to meet a smoker? I dont get it! They should realise people have preferences and if they dont fit into that then good luck with the rest of your fab journey. It's on your profile too! Why respond with abuse? What kind of tool does that?? Id see the fishnet picture and quit on the spot
The post coital shag over post coital fag should definately work for most people to quit!"
Ah it’s recently really... mostly new guys. Then 3 guys over the last few weeks messaged me and when I replied “Thanks but no thanks, I dont meet smokers” they reply with comments from “well you’re a skanky c*nt anyways” (a particular favourite) to “f*ck you you fat bitch”. I mean, I get those insults anyways and I just block but I suppose it’s frustrating when yer being straight.
Again with the “i don’t know why I bother” tho |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Why would you get abuse for not wanting to meet a smoker? I dont get it! They should realise people have preferences and if they dont fit into that then good luck with the rest of your fab journey. It's on your profile too! Why respond with abuse? What kind of tool does that?? Id see the fishnet picture and quit on the spot
The post coital shag over post coital fag should definately work for most people to quit!
Ah it’s recently really... mostly new guys. Then 3 guys over the last few weeks messaged me and when I replied “Thanks but no thanks, I dont meet smokers” they reply with comments from “well you’re a skanky c*nt anyways” (a particular favourite) to “f*ck you you fat bitch”. I mean, I get those insults anyways and I just block but I suppose it’s frustrating when yer being straight.
Again with the “i don’t know why I bother” tho"
Shocking but doesn't surprise me on here.
I really wish there was a way that these abusive messages could be shared easily. |
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"Why would you get abuse for not wanting to meet a smoker? I dont get it! They should realise people have preferences and if they dont fit into that then good luck with the rest of your fab journey. It's on your profile too! Why respond with abuse? What kind of tool does that?? Id see the fishnet picture and quit on the spot
The post coital shag over post coital fag should definately work for most people to quit!
Ah it’s recently really... mostly new guys. Then 3 guys over the last few weeks messaged me and when I replied “Thanks but no thanks, I dont meet smokers” they reply with comments from “well you’re a skanky c*nt anyways” (a particular favourite) to “f*ck you you fat bitch”. I mean, I get those insults anyways and I just block but I suppose it’s frustrating when yer being straight.
Again with the “i don’t know why I bother” tho Shocking but doesn't surprise me on here.
I really wish there was a way that these abusive messages could be shared easily."
we find it's more frustrating when you go to reply to said abusive W###KERS and they have you blocked...spinless pricks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for the reply! I couldn't read something by Alan Carr now, he drive me up the walls. I'd be a bit skeptical about the therapy method you mentioned too if I'm honest! I can't get pregnant either so that's another door closed! Yeah perhaps I need to make friends with a few non-smokers and go from there. I'll let you know how I get on! |
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"I need a smoke after reading all that..don't meet smokers
Why did ya mail me then when it clearly says on my bio I'm a smoker..
He could light a cigarette off that burn "
This made me laugh so much  |
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over a year ago
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As a life long non smoker, I wouldn't have any interest in meets with smokers or vapers, and yes I know this limits my options on here significantly. Smoking and vaping are really disgusting habits. |
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