"There's an art to it.. Right? "
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed. |
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By *t777Woman
over a year ago
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."
Oh so right |
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."
Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet  |
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.
Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet "
Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge  |
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."
Porn has a lot to answer for. They ALL do this kind of fake fast fingering followed by fake orgasms, intertwined with pee squirting. Its a wonder young lads don't cause physical harm go young girls if that's what they are copying. It's so unhealthy. |
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.
Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet "
Agree entirely  |
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I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.
To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.
To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.
To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.
To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop. "
Conversation normally helps us all fannys are different and women too , Tell your man I like it this way bit higher lower gentle awwwwwww am coming darling |
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Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge "
Omg this.
Chatted to a lovely guy for a few weeks. Told him I didn’t like fingering (because jackhammering) and he insisted that I’d like it if HE did it. Insisted. As if I didn’t know my own body. Eventually I gave up and told him I wasn’t meeting him. He was livid and couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t let him try.
Close call. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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There is an art to everything. And just like art, people value and appreciate different art forms. Like (and sex) would be very boring if every person liked the exact same thing, done the exact same way. |
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"There is an art to everything. And just like art, people value and appreciate different art forms. Like (and sex) would be very boring if every person liked the exact same thing, done the exact same way. "
Precisely |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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There is definitely an art to it and when someone is good at it then it can be amazing but bloody hell when they are bad it's meh at best and bloody sore at worst especially if they don't listen when you say it to them.And like some have already mentioned the worst are those who try and insist they can make you squirt when you never have and act like it's something they must make happen.
But the guys who are good at it and know where to touch they make it worthwhile. |
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"There is definitely an art to it and when someone is good at it then it can be amazing but bloody hell when they are bad it's meh at best and bloody sore at worst especially if they don't listen when you say it to them.And like some have already mentioned the worst are those who try and insist they can make you squirt when you never have and act like it's something they must make happen.
But the guys who are good at it and know where to touch they make it worthwhile."
If you tell them you squirt and it just doesn’t happen with them
egos are so fragile...
Squirting is NOT the be all of sex... |
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's an art to it.. Right?
Abso fuckin lutely.
Obviously every vagina is different but I'm yet to talk to someone who enjoys the jackhammering action you see in porn... In fact it's quite uncomfortable!
For me, it's deep, slow, not too much in and out... much more about pressure than motion or speed.
Yes especially when you say you squirt and they jam their fingers hard so far up you think you're the puppet formerly known as Bosco. I ain't no fuck puppet
Or when you say you DON'T squirt and they treat it like a challenge "
Yes! Yes! Yes!
To all of the above |
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"It's the people that think they're brilliant at it and won't take guidance that frustrate me the most. that applies to sex in general "
Yes and then they complain that we're a mystery and they can't win. So now guys, the mystery is solved  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Behind every good honors student is a good teacher now if the teacher accepts that theres no point in guiding and directing the student then that student will never learn.
If the teacher runs out the same drivel to one and all expecting a different result then the teacher hasn't learnt
Like every thing else its about communication u have to be willing to engage on both sides or it never improves rather than saying he never improve ask what u can do to change his/hers technical ability or understanding of ur needs
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Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot. |
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"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot."
You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all  |
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"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot.
You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all "
Sorry, I don't mean to give you grief, but I disagree with your technique. Best technique with a new partner imo is to try what has worked in the past, read her body language and if necessary, ask her what she likes |
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"Just stop thinking about coming. And take you time, don't just ram them in be gentle and tease the area fist make sure you tease the clit, then push in and gently massage the g spot.
You see this is the problem, thinking one size fits all
Sorry, I don't mean to give you grief, but I disagree with your technique. Best technique with a new partner imo is to try what has worked in the past, read her body language and if necessary, ask her what she likes "
Totally agree when I'm giving a man a handjob I'm looking mainly at his face not his cock I'm reading the reactions and talking to him saying do you like that does this feel good. When I see the eyes rolling I know I'm hitting the right spots! |
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I cant manage to get a message up,no mind anything else. Just to say that there seems to be lots of guys on here who have no idea what they are doing....I blame the mothers |
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"Why just rely on fingers and tongue, place your knees on the perenium to enhance the pleasure.. use two fingers in hook shape pointing upwards inside.. "
Your knees???  |
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"My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol 
Whisper in our ear. I can keep a secret  "
If im close enough to whisper in your ear you wont need anything else  |
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In the book 'Bliss Club', Jüne Plã describes why your hands, tongue and other body parts are your hottest assets. Amazing read to learn and practice. The illustrations are very friendly regardless of orientation. All are welcome. |
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"The difference between good and bad is like the difference between summoning a genie and stuffing a turkey. "
Rosy your way with words is just * chef's kiss * |
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"My fwb and I have invented a solution to this, but awaiting patent before sharing lol
Whisper in our ear. I can keep a secret
If im close enough to whisper in your ear you wont need anything else "
Tell me more  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"Why just rely on fingers and tongue, place your knees on the perenium to enhance the pleasure.. use two fingers in hook shape pointing upwards inside..
Your knees??? "
Was thinking the same.
Have to be a right flexible wee yoga doll to get your knees against perineum while giving oral.
Perhaps try your free hand instead? |
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"I've long since realised there is no one size fits all answer. What works for one won't work for another.
To those with vaginas - The CRUCIAL part is feedback. Don't pretend it's hot if it isn't or he will keep going. If he's getting it wrong then guide his hand. Own your pleasure and help him.
To those doing the fingering - Don't just do what you always do. Read her sounds. Read her wetness and don't be afraid to mix it up kif you're getting nowhere. If you're getting good feedback don't stop. "
This is the answer. |
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I’ve never came across a girl that actually likes the Jack hammering unless it’s right at the end and she’s a squirter. I think it’s more intense if it’s slow and when u find that spot then added pressure |
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