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Having the chats with a girlfriend on here before I headed out, spy a new message, cute bloke, nice message. Though “I’ll reply in a bit”
Jump in the car for 10mins, then home - go to reread and reply to the message only to have a new one from him saying “you could at least acknowledge me or are you too important for that?”
So I blocked him.
So if men ever wonder why women block them, consider that as ANOTHER reason. |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
Plenty of mindless idiots on here,some folk seriously dont know how to treat or chat to other ppl without coming across as childish or just plain nasty....ya wonder if there like that in the real world or think they can say what they like cause its not real here and everyones fake |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are."
Not upset or pissed off but I think it’s a good example of what women put up with.
No I won’t mark as unread to protect a hypersensitive ego.
No I won’t not read a message until I have time to reply.
No I won’t write back and explain what I was doing
No I won’t apologise for not acknowledging his message when I saw it.
I’ll just block so I’m not subject to any more shite. As I’m sure most women on here would. It would always explain why he’s been a member for over a year and hasn’t got a veri. |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are."
Couldn't disagree more. The only person who can give you a bad name is yourself.
What others do only reflects on them. If you allow it to reflect on you that's your problem not theirs. |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Couldn't disagree more. The only person who can give you a bad name is yourself.
What others do only reflects on them. If you allow it to reflect on you that's your problem not theirs. "
It’s a struggle not to go “ah fuck this” occasionally tho.
And it does impact other guys cos all women I know have done a block delete because of overwhelming amounts of messages.
Ie - For some reason I’ve had a huge amount of new guys messaging one-liners without having even looked at my profile the last few days. About 60 unread messages got deleted yesterday. So yeah. It does effect other men. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Couldn't disagree more. The only person who can give you a bad name is yourself.
What others do only reflects on them. If you allow it to reflect on you that's your problem not theirs.
It’s a struggle not to go “ah fuck this” occasionally tho.
And it does impact other guys cos all women I know have done a block delete because of overwhelming amounts of messages.
Ie - For some reason I’ve had a huge amount of new guys messaging one-liners without having even looked at my profile the last few days. About 60 unread messages got deleted yesterday. So yeah. It does effect other men. "
Filters can be used to stop most mail tho .That's why I have most of mine on so I don't get a load of mail could be that no one likes my profile as well tho 
But I know before I set my filters I used to get a lot more mail I got fed up of it and set my filters tight for well over a year and it's been so much easier. If I see a profile I like I can make first contact. I don't have time to answer a load of mail but I do usually answer any nice messages and I don't judge every guy by a few twats who send crap messages. So I actually don't agree that the twats ruin it for anyone bar themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Couldn't disagree more. The only person who can give you a bad name is yourself.
What others do only reflects on them. If you allow it to reflect on you that's your problem not theirs.
It’s a struggle not to go “ah fuck this” occasionally tho.
And it does impact other guys cos all women I know have done a block delete because of overwhelming amounts of messages.
Ie - For some reason I’ve had a huge amount of new guys messaging one-liners without having even looked at my profile the last few days. About 60 unread messages got deleted yesterday. So yeah. It does effect other men. "
If you go ah fuck it someone else will come and replace you.
There are no shortage of great women on here who manage to through the shite.
As RB says idiots only impact themselves. It actually lowers the bar of what is expected as half decent communication on here |
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"I for one am thankful so many men on here are like that. They cock block themselves and help out the competition  
Exactly!!"
You're contradicting yourself though. That's exactly what I said above. They don't generally have a negative affect on those who don't take that approach. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
and surrounding areas |
"Having the chats with a girlfriend on here before I headed out, spy a new message, cute bloke, nice message. Though “I’ll reply in a bit”
Jump in the car for 10mins, then home - go to reread and reply to the message only to have a new one from him saying “you could at least acknowledge me or are you too important for that?”
So I blocked him.
So if men ever wonder why women block them, consider that as ANOTHER reason. "
Maybe he was in ur area and wanted to know what his chances were before he left
Mr crazy |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are."
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am thankful so many men on here are like that. They cock block themselves and help out the competition
Exactly!!
You're contradicting yourself though. That's exactly what I said above. They don't generally have a negative affect on those who don't take that approach. "
I think you may have mixed me up with something someone else may have said. I hadn't made any other comments to contradict myself. I do agree with your earlier comment, that it will only reflect badly on you, if you let it |
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"I for one am thankful so many men on here are like that. They cock block themselves and help out the competition
Exactly!!
You're contradicting yourself though. That's exactly what I said above. They don't generally have a negative affect on those who don't take that approach.
I think you may have mixed me up with something someone else may have said. I hadn't made any other comments to contradict myself. I do agree with your earlier comment, that it will only reflect badly on you, if you let it"
No I wasn't quoting your comment. It was ops response I quoted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am thankful so many men on here are like that. They cock block themselves and help out the competition
Exactly!!
You're contradicting yourself though. That's exactly what I said above. They don't generally have a negative affect on those who don't take that approach.
I think you may have mixed me up with something someone else may have said. I hadn't made any other comments to contradict myself. I do agree with your earlier comment, that it will only reflect badly on you, if you let it
No I wasn't quoting your comment. It was ops response I quoted. "
Ahh soz, it was me who was confused haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out."
Yeah I have to agree with this! |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out.
Yeah I have to agree with this!"
The problem is most women on here will presume your a dickhead fist nd work backwards from that ,,, your starting off on the back foot all the time here |
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"I for one am thankful so many men on here are like that. They cock block themselves and help out the competition
Exactly!!
You're contradicting yourself though. That's exactly what I said above. They don't generally have a negative affect on those who don't take that approach. "
I agree because we appreciate the good guys all the more then - Mrs  |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out.
Yeah I have to agree with this!
The problem is most women on here will presume your a dickhead fist nd work backwards from that ,,, your starting off on the back foot all the time here "
Totally disagree |
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"Having the chats with a girlfriend on here before I headed out, spy a new message, cute bloke, nice message. Though “I’ll reply in a bit”
Jump in the car for 10mins, then home - go to reread and reply to the message only to have a new one from him saying “you could at least acknowledge me or are you too important for that?”
So I blocked him.
So if men ever wonder why women block them, consider that as ANOTHER reason. "
Good way to filter out the muppets that slip through the cracks |
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"Having the chats with a girlfriend on here before I headed out, spy a new message, cute bloke, nice message. Though “I’ll reply in a bit”
Jump in the car for 10mins, then home - go to reread and reply to the message only to have a new one from him saying “you could at least acknowledge me or are you too important for that?”
So I blocked him.
So if men ever wonder why women block them, consider that as ANOTHER reason. "
Acknowledgement? now I've heard it all is he some kind of high chief or something |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out."
That’s a pretty low bar to set
I know what you mean though
If normal people just behave normally that will be enough to show that you’re normal
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Couldn't disagree more. The only person who can give you a bad name is yourself.
What others do only reflects on them. If you allow it to reflect on you that's your problem not theirs. "
If the shoe fits as they say...
I do tend to avoid people who make such "bad guys make all men look bad" claims |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out.
Yeah I have to agree with this!
The problem is most women on here will presume your a dickhead fist nd work backwards from that ,,, your starting off on the back foot all the time here "
The problem is most men act like dickheads on this site so we have our guard up to protect ourselves. It's the bad behaviour you should be complaining about, not how women protect themselves from it. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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Tbh I think the guys who hope on these threads with versions of "make us all look bad" or "make it difficult for the good guys" are numptys
Give women credit ffs,
They can multi task, they can iron a shirt in the blink of an eye, some can park (lets call it park for the sake of this comment)
And they can pretend that they have cum so we can have our dignity.
Lads cmon ffs give em credit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I think the guys who hope on these threads with versions of "make us all look bad" or "make it difficult for the good guys" are numptys
Give women credit ffs,
They can multi task, they can iron a shirt in the blink of an eye, some can park (lets call it park for the sake of this comment)
And they can pretend that they have cum so we can have our dignity.
Lads cmon ffs give em credit "
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out.
That’s a pretty low bar to set
I know what you mean though
If normal people just behave normally that will be enough to show that you’re normal
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It's a very low bar but a bar few manage to clear |
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"Guys like this give us other guys a bad name.
Go fuck yourself mate who ever the fuck you are.
Nobody's actions gives you a bad name. In fact the more dickheads out there the better it is for non dickheads. You only have to appear to be slightly more normal than these types of lads to stand out."
Totally agree with this.
I try to be nice and reply but it has bitten in the butt more than once... and not in a good way!
I should really use the block button more often! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its always nice to get a reply but I've got enough cop on not to bombard someone and being aggressive or pushy is just showing yourself up as being a clown. With the odds stacked firmly in the corner of the ladies as there are proberbly 100 or so men for every woman in terms of numbers its just dumb. I had a meeting with a lady on here for an intro coffee a few weeks back and from our conversation she is in touch with several ladies on here or some of her pals are on here and they share info on who the clods are. Also I don't take it personally if someone does not want to chat beyond a few massages. |
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"Its always nice to get a reply but I've got enough cop on not to bombard someone and being aggressive or pushy is just showing yourself up as being a clown. With the odds stacked firmly in the corner of the ladies as there are proberbly 100 or so men for every woman in terms of numbers its just dumb. I had a meeting with a lady on here for an intro coffee a few weeks back and from our conversation she is in touch with several ladies on here or some of her pals are on here and they share info on who the clods are. Also I don't take it personally if someone does not want to chat beyond a few massages."
Yet interestingly the assholes still get through.
Mad eh!!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its always nice to get a reply but I've got enough cop on not to bombard someone and being aggressive or pushy is just showing yourself up as being a clown. With the odds stacked firmly in the corner of the ladies as there are proberbly 100 or so men for every woman in terms of numbers its just dumb. I had a meeting with a lady on here for an intro coffee a few weeks back and from our conversation she is in touch with several ladies on here or some of her pals are on here and they share info on who the clods are. Also I don't take it personally if someone does not want to chat beyond a few massages."
..Totally agree. Well said. Guys need to accept if there is no rapport then show respect and politely move on. |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
I got that before off a woman here. It was gas. Messaged a little bit over and back then I read one but didn't reply immediately. Mentioned that I was working and sometimes get impromptu calls than can last half an hour, as well as just being a bit busy in general. Nah, blocked. G'luck, goodnight and god bless! |
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