Just something I suppose from a couples point of view what do ye define as soft play. When told we are into soft play only I suppose where is the line drawn so to speak...I suppose for everyone it's different and yes all I have to do is ask..But Curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ourselves are soft play. We do everything apart from put the d in v I guess is easiest way to explain. We swap for kissing foreplay all that but we don't fuck other couple. Hard to explain without been completely rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would assume soft play would indicate just kissing, touching and maybe some oral play, but not penetration
But as you say everyone has their limits and especially couples would have their individual boundaries. Hope that helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now 
Don't worry about it....when you get to my age the dirty words are the only ones you remember
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Time and place for them lol. I was trying to think what words would they teach in school couldn't put my finger on them |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"But how would it go in if its soft
Fold it in?
Possibly..or maybe a splint ?
One of those itchy strap on ones.. would add girth "
Maybe find another thread to play on, this is a serious question |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"Penetration or intercourse that's the words I was after feel so silly now
Don't worry about it....when you get to my age the dirty words are the only ones you remember
Time and place for them lol. I was trying to think what words would they teach in school couldn't put my finger on them "
Would putting your finger on dem be ok in soft play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just something I suppose from a couples point of view what do ye define as soft play. When told we are into soft play only I suppose where is the line drawn so to speak...I suppose for everyone it's different and yes all I have to do is ask..But Curious "
To my knowledge its just as another user said anything but penetration but I would say that varies on the people's limits I. E. No oral either. |
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"My impression of soft play is all play except penetration. But you set your own boundaries"
ya we would agree with this also, those were our rules, however they all went out the window on our first meet |
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"I always thought it was no penetration and no oral. I guess for different people it means different things.
What the hell would be left for them to do?"
Be creative. There’s a lot. Especially if someone is into kink!
I understood voyeurism, kissing and touching to be a big part of soft play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ourselves are soft play. We do everything apart from put the d in v I guess is easiest way to explain. We swap for kissing foreplay all that but we don't fuck other couple. Hard to explain without been completely rude "
As some older folk may say “A shift with the drop of the hands” |
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I always assumed soft play was all but full intercourse - that was until we started getting involved in the game ourselves and started finding our feet and setting our own boundaries.
No kissing except for FF, no full intercourse or anal.
Everyone’s different I guess but we’ve been told we’re topic of conversation as we aren’t ‘proper swingers’ because we said we wouldn’t do a full swap or go alone.
So who knows  M xx |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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No oral??
Ah here!
What's the point in meeting?
Other than voyuerism.
I'm ok with that, if stated at the start.
Happy to watch.
Soft play would definitely involve oral though.
On me and on other female.
No way I'm leaving without a snack box 
Seriously though, no interest in meeting anyone unless I could taste the fruit in the bowl. |
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"My impression of soft play is all play except penetration. But you set your own boundaries
ya we would agree with this also, those were our rules, however they all went out the window on our first meet "
I would understand that happening. The temptation in the heat of the moment is just too much.
We would prefer to go with full swap. Only rule would be keeping pain out of the play.
Each to their own and gotta respect that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us, with couples, it is full swap with equal attraction between opposites and if the girls are attracted to each other that's a cherry on top but it has to start with equal attraction between opposites or no bueno. It has been a hard lesson to learn along the way but hey, you live and learn. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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Our interpretation is everything except penetration.
Soft play can be very sensual and hot
I just do not understand couples that do not kiss  But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread
B x |
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"Our interpretation is everything except penetration.
Soft play can be very sensual and hot
I just do not understand couples that do not kiss But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread
B x"
I agree, no point without the kissin' - Mrs |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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"Our interpretation is everything except penetration.
Soft play can be very sensual and hot
I just do not understand couples that do not kiss But that's me I love kissing, such a turn on..but that's a whole other thread
B x
I agree, no point without the kissin' - Mrs "
Glad we agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way I'm leaving without a snack box
Seriously though, no interest in meeting anyone unless I could taste the fruit in the bowl."
Reminds me of a tee shirt “ Spank the Monkey” |
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