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By (user no longer on site) OP
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For me sex is about lust desire and confidence and personality, I find confedent women attractive, body shape is for me irrelevant, I feel from reading profiles a lot of people who specifically say they like only gym fit people are missing something, where as I appreciate a disciplined person with a healthy looking physique I think its all about expression of one's self big or small ,I feel if one is hung up on body type they could be limiting there sexual experience, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me sex is about lust desire and confidence and personality, I find confedent women attractive, body shape is for me irrelevant, I feel from reading profiles a lot of people who specifically say they like only gym fit people are missing something, where as I appreciate a disciplined person with a healthy looking physique I think its all about expression of one's self big or small ,I feel if one is hung up on body type they could be limiting there sexual experience, "
Unfortunately people judge the book by its cover |
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"For me sex is about lust desire and confidence and personality, I find confedent women attractive, body shape is for me irrelevant, I feel from reading profiles a lot of people who specifically say they like only gym fit people are missing something, where as I appreciate a disciplined person with a healthy looking physique I think its all about expression of one's self big or small ,I feel if one is hung up on body type they could be limiting there sexual experience, "
Suppose at the end of the day people like what they like and if theyre into gym fit people only then so be it. |
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I definitely agree with what your saying. To limit yourself to any particular body type means you could be missing out on something really good with someone.
On the other hand though I know I've a type im really attracted too and I do tend to veer towards what I find attractive.
I guess everyone is different and by the nature of humans we'll go for what we find attractive.
Thats not a failure its human. Thats OK as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fair enough,
Everyone has their own views and opinions.
Personally I would need to be physically attracted to someone to be physically active with them but if you can be attracted to their attitude, good for you.
The world keeps turning.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fair enough,
Everyone has their own views and opinions.
Personally I would need to be physically attracted to someone to be physically active with them but if you can be attracted to their attitude, good for you.
The world keeps turning.
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Pretty much this for me too. Someone could be the nicest person in the world and absolutely great in bed but I need to be physically attracted to someone. And I know that lots won't find me physically attractive. That's perfectly OK and I'd never presume to tell them they're missing out by passing me by.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having preferences. What doesn't do it for me will be exactly what floats someone else's boat and vice versa. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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You could argue that with any preference that is out there ie you could miss out on your sexual experience excluding people with a lesser confidence.
We all have different preferences and they're valid in itselves regardless if they're based on physical attributes, personality, attitude etc. yet none of those preferences itself guarantees you a better or lesser sexual experience. We're all individual and react to different stimuli and there's no need to dismiss other people's preferences on some hypothetical assumptions.
Btw I'm not hung up too much on looks but I eat with all my senses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me sex is about lust desire and confidence and personality, I find confedent women attractive, body shape is for me irrelevant, I feel from reading profiles a lot of people who specifically say they like only gym fit people are missing something, where as I appreciate a disciplined person with a healthy looking physique I think its all about expression of one's self big or small ,I feel if one is hung up on body type they could be limiting there sexual experience, "
Well the way I look at it is I'm here for sex and not bothered about connecting in any other way.If it's a relationship or someone special I'm after I certainly wouldn't expect to find it here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could argue that with any preference that is out there ie you could miss out on your sexual experience excluding people with a lesser confidence.
We all have different preferences and they're valid in itselves regardless if they're based on physical attributes, personality, attitude etc. yet none of those preferences itself guarantees you a better or lesser sexual experience. We're all individual and react to different stimuli and there's no need to dismiss other people's preferences on some hypothetical assumptions.
Btw I'm not hung up too much on looks but I eat with all my senses."
Well said DH. |
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"For me sex is about lust desire and confidence and personality, I find confedent women attractive, body shape is for me irrelevant, I feel from reading profiles a lot of people who specifically say they like only gym fit people are missing something, where as I appreciate a disciplined person with a healthy looking physique I think its all about expression of one's self big or small ,I feel if one is hung up on body type they could be limiting there sexual experience, "
Having preferences isn't limiting experience if you don't want that experience. It's OK to find something more attractive than another, and it's OK to focus on the thing you find most attractive. That's what's great about this site. You can target what you are looking for and find people who (hopefully) are looking for someone like you.
Personally the gymfit body type isn't what I'm looking for. Other things are way more important to me. |
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I think, as someone said, it's a personal preference. And coukd be applied to any feature e.g 'only 6ft ppl apply' or something like that. I wouldn't say they're limiting themselves more so as they know what they like.
While I absolutely agree that personality is one key aspect, I do need to have a physical attraction before I will get physical with someone. So yea...gimme both please & thanks  |
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Until just before turning 50 I had very little sexual experience due to a number of different circumstances and self esteem and confidence were invariably linked to that also.
Therefore in the last 6 years the people I am most drawn to are those who have similar experiences or lack of. Of course there has to be physical attraction but my preference will always be to meet those who are not just on the same wavelength but on the same journey so I never feel I'm missing out on anything. |
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