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So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only safer for the person whos vaxed. "
Exactly! My understanding is that they could still be carriers but not have any symptoms so they wouldn't even know. So they are actually more of a risk if you are not vaccinated yourself. |
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over a year ago
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"So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference? "
I think someone saying they were vaccinated is something I'd take with a grain of salt. Obviously depending on line of work or how well I know them would make my mind up as to whether it's not just another line here.
Being vaccinated only protects themselves from becoming overly sick and will not stop the transmission of the virus.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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If someone is using as a reason why I should meet them then no I wouldn't believe them . I've had several claim recently that they are vaccinated and then admit when asked anything about it that they haven't been. So no I take most messages like that with a grain of salt. If it's someone I already know then I'm more likely to believe them that they have had it. |
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"If they casually said they felt more comfortable meeting now that they were vaccinated then I probably would believe them. If they were using it as their USP then no I wouldn't believe them. "
Agree with you there.
As we're now vaccinating all over 40s at this stage, we'd be less likely to be disbelieving of anyone of this age group and above.
As an aside, although it is very early days, there is increasing evidence that vaccination may have an impact on transmission |
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I am vaxed and from the information we where giving when we got it was that its not going to stop us getting it however will lessen or stop the symptoms, it does not stop us spreading it either, however, there is a lesser chance of contracting the virus or spreading it. However it is not impossible.
This is per the Pfizer one.
In my opinion if your meeting somebody who's vaccinated you are at less of a risk of contracting the virus from that person yet there is still a risk.
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"If someone is using as a reason why I should meet them then no I wouldn't believe them . I've had several claim recently that they are vaccinated and then admit when asked anything about it that they haven't been. So no I take most messages like that with a grain of salt. If it's someone I already know then I'm more likely to believe them that they have had it. "
Yeah I think that’s it. Only if I’ve been already chatting with them would I believe them that they are vaxed.
With regard to the safety of it, now that I’m fully vaxed I personally feel safer but I’m not gonna believe someone else.
I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope  |
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"Both parties would have to be vaxxed surely? Then there would be no issue ?
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Exactly.
For me I’m fully vaxed now but not sure I’d trust someone who used it as an appealing description.
Literally getting “Am 26, well hung and fully vaxed”. HAHAHAHAH. MEHOLLLLLE ye are... |
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If I were fully vaccinated.. and they had paperwork to show that they were fully vaccinated.. and if they met my preferences.. and I met their preferences, and I could get a babysitter, and I wasn't too tired from working long hours, and id finally painted the picture rail in the bathroom, then yeah i'd probably have a meet. Sounds rather unlikely though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is using as a reason why I should meet them then no I wouldn't believe them . I've had several claim recently that they are vaccinated and then admit when asked anything about it that they haven't been. So no I take most messages like that with a grain of salt. If it's someone I already know then I'm more likely to believe them that they have had it.
Yeah I think that’s it. Only if I’ve been already chatting with them would I believe them that they are vaxed.
With regard to the safety of it, now that I’m fully vaxed I personally feel safer but I’m not gonna believe someone else.
I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope "
I have heard it all now. What a right dope  |
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I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope
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I have heard it all now. What a right dope "
Still going strong on here too.. hopefully everyone else see through it too |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope
I have heard it all now. What a right dope
Still going strong on here too.. hopefully everyone else see through it too"
Plenty on here using lines like that tho. Always has been I wouldn't say too many fall for those lines |
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over a year ago
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I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope
I have heard it all now. What a right dope
Still going strong on here too.. hopefully everyone else see through it too
Plenty on here using lines like that tho. Always has been I wouldn't say too many fall for those lines "
I doubt they would fall for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they were saying that they were vexed? Vexed with having to wait to meet up
I actually thought he was german freshly waxed "
oh thats so bad Bog but pmsl |
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I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope
I have heard it all now. What a right dope
Still going strong on here too.. hopefully everyone else see through it too
Plenty on here using lines like that tho. Always has been I wouldn't say too many fall for those lines
I doubt they would fall for it "
Is he Dr Love????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone is using as a reason why I should meet them then no I wouldn't believe them . I've had several claim recently that they are vaccinated and then admit when asked anything about it that they haven't been. So no I take most messages like that with a grain of salt. If it's someone I already know then I'm more likely to believe them that they have had it.
Yeah I think that’s it. Only if I’ve been already chatting with them would I believe them that they are vaxed.
With regard to the safety of it, now that I’m fully vaxed I personally feel safer but I’m not gonna believe someone else.
I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope "
Or the ones that say "I've had the snip, let's go bareback  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I chatted with a guy off here who swore blind that because he was a Dr, it meant he could go bareback too as he’s tested more. I’m still LOLING at that one. Dope
I have heard it all now. What a right dope
Still going strong on here too.. hopefully everyone else see through it too
Plenty on here using lines like that tho. Always has been I wouldn't say too many fall for those lines
I doubt they would fall for it
Is he Dr Love????? "
Aren't they always Dr Love |
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"If I were fully vaccinated.. and they had paperwork to show that they were fully vaccinated.. and if they met my preferences.. and I met their preferences, and I could get a babysitter, and I wasn't too tired from working long hours, and id finally painted the picture rail in the bathroom, then yeah i'd probably have a meet. Sounds rather unlikely though. "
Genuinely laughing out loud here |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
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"So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference? "
I don't think it's covid you should be most worried about catching from meeting  |
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"So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference?
I don't think it's covid you should be most worried about catching from meeting "
Explain?? |
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"So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference?
I don't think it's covid you should be most worried about catching from meeting
Explain??"
AIDS |
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"So I’m getting increasing amounts of messages the last few weeks saying they are meeting now because they are vaxed.
While I’m not commenting on what’s right or wrong, what would make you believe if someone really was vaxed? Would you ask to see their vax card or take their word for it? Would it make a difference?
I don't think it's covid you should be most worried about catching from meeting
Explain??
AIDS"
What a bizarre thing to say. Surely everyone on here is at risk of catching everything, especially if they are not careful. This thread is about the vax against Covid. Why bring HIV/AIDS into it? |
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"I'd say most of them are fibbing. Anyhow it makes no difference to me whatsoever as I'm not meeting until I feel it's ok to do so.
And it's a NO from me to the vax passport/card.  "
Jesus if it gets me on a plane to see my best friend and family I’ve not seen for 18mts, I’d carry one. Happy days. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd say most of them are fibbing. Anyhow it makes no difference to me whatsoever as I'm not meeting until I feel it's ok to do so.
And it's a NO from me to the vax passport/card.
Jesus if it gets me on a plane to see my best friend and family I’ve not seen for 18mts, I’d carry one. Happy days. "
A negative test should do the same trick. And yes I'm looking forward to see my parents, by the time I can do so it will 2 years since I've seen them last.  |
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I’m vaccinated but even if I was I wouldn’t meet yet unless I know the other person was vaccinated also you gotta think of the people that ain’t vaccinated In your bubble home etc you won’t get ill but still carry the virus
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" Would it make a difference?
Not to me. It would be funny seeing people asking for a corona virus vaccine but nor for HPV....  "
Seeing as you have been able to catch to catch HPV forever and it never stopped swingers, why are you rolling your eyes now?. HPV isn’t new... it’s only vax preventable in the last what 15yrs at which point 80% of the population already have it. So what gives? |
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"I’m vaccinated but even if I was I wouldn’t meet yet unless I know the other person was vaccinated also you gotta think of the people that ain’t vaccinated In your bubble home etc you won’t get ill but still carry the virus
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So at what point do people ever consider meeting again. I’m well aware of the risks, I’m not challenging the facts, just the mindset. If two vaxed people are still such a risk, will we never get back to the before times? |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"can see covid changing the complex of this site in the future. some people will be paranoid as fuck about meeting for a very very long time, maybe indefinitely. "
Whats the difference?
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over a year ago
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I haven't even met friends for more than a socially distanced coffee in the past year as I've keeping an eye on my elderly parents and doing any errands needed until they are vaccinated, which they are now. So now for me it depends on how diligent the other person is or has been and their personal situation.
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"can see covid changing the complex of this site in the future. some people will be paranoid as fuck about meeting for a very very long time, maybe indefinitely.
Whats the difference?
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exactly what I have just said. |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Exactly!!! So why are people so paranoid about Covid!"
The simple difference between an sti and covid is that unless something is seriously amiss your only risking your own health in relation to sti's whereas covid could easily be passed to more vulnerable family and friends..saying all that someone else being vaccinated makes.no difference |
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"I’m vaccinated but even if I was I wouldn’t meet yet unless I know the other person was vaccinated also you gotta think of the people that ain’t vaccinated In your bubble home etc you won’t get ill but still carry the virus
So at what point do people ever consider meeting again. I’m well aware of the risks, I’m not challenging the facts, just the mindset. If two vaxed people are still such a risk, will we never get back to the before times?"
for me until my family are fully vaccinated then i would I’m protecting my family meeting on fab till I know it’s safe for my household isn’t my priority |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Exactly!!! So why are people so paranoid about Covid!
The simple difference between an sti and covid is that unless something is seriously amiss your only risking your own health in relation to sti's whereas covid could easily be passed to more vulnerable family and friends..saying all that someone else being vaccinated makes.no difference "
exactly if you met someone and got a sti the only person infected is your sexual partners anyone meeting not taking precautions or regular testing is playing Russian roulette with there lives and sexual partners, for me covid in my home with my family would be my worry when some family members I’ve not seen in over a year |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Exactly!!! So why are people so paranoid about Covid!
The simple difference between an sti and covid is that unless something is seriously amiss your only risking your own health in relation to sti's whereas covid could easily be passed to more vulnerable family and friends..saying all that someone else being vaccinated makes.no difference exactly if you met someone and got a sti the only person infected is your sexual partners anyone meeting not taking precautions or regular testing is playing Russian roulette with there lives and sexual partners, for me covid in my home with my family would be my worry when some family members I’ve not seen in over a year "
See... that’s why I’m asking about vax... and wondering why I’m getting “but but HPV but but AIDS” bullshit. There’s no continuity of thought process... |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now? "
Personally no, but this is a poor comparison.
First of all, yes I (and many others) did and do ask partners when their last STI test was. Secondly, I can protect myself from STIs by using a condom regardless of whether someone else has one or not. Also STIs aren't deadly, and very very few are even likely to make you seriously ill, unlike Covid. |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Personally no, but this is a poor comparison.
First of all, yes I (and many others) did and do ask partners when their last STI test was. Secondly, I can protect myself from STIs by using a condom regardless of whether someone else has one or not. Also STIs aren't deadly, and very very few are even likely to make you seriously ill, unlike Covid."
Asking someone when there last sti test was is no different to asking someone if they've had the jab. It's all just words. And unless you see the test results or the jab card there's absolutely no proof of anything. That was my point.
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Personally no, but this is a poor comparison.
First of all, yes I (and many others) did and do ask partners when their last STI test was. Secondly, I can protect myself from STIs by using a condom regardless of whether someone else has one or not. Also STIs aren't deadly, and very very few are even likely to make you seriously ill, unlike Covid.
Asking someone when there last sti test was is no different to asking someone if they've had the jab. It's all just words. And unless you see the test results or the jab card there's absolutely no proof of anything. That was my point.
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Unfortunately our STI clinic doesn't even give out results on paper. At some point you have to either accept some level of risk, or accept that you aren't going to get to do things you want to do. Life is all about making balanced risk/reward decisions. We make them every day. Different folks will draw the line in different places. Some will be lucky and some won't. Some will be more risk averse than others. Some of them will be grand, others won't. That's the way it goes. |
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"Before covid no one went around asking others to see their STI results. Are you going to ask people for their vaccination cards now?
Personally no, but this is a poor comparison.
First of all, yes I (and many others) did and do ask partners when their last STI test was. Secondly, I can protect myself from STIs by using a condom regardless of whether someone else has one or not. Also STIs aren't deadly, and very very few are even likely to make you seriously ill, unlike Covid.
Asking someone when there last sti test was is no different to asking someone if they've had the jab. It's all just words. And unless you see the test results or the jab card there's absolutely no proof of anything. That was my point.
Unfortunately our STI clinic doesn't even give out results on paper. At some point you have to either accept some level of risk, or accept that you aren't going to get to do things you want to do. Life is all about making balanced risk/reward decisions. We make them every day. Different folks will draw the line in different places. Some will be lucky and some won't. Some will be more risk averse than others. Some of them will be grand, others won't. That's the way it goes. "
Oh I 100% agree, we all have our limits and will make decisions to suit ourselves in the end. |
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"Exactly. Let him/her who never gave/received oral sex without a condom/dental dam cast the first stone "
It's not the same though...as has been outlined numerous times |
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"Exactly. Let him/her who never gave/received oral sex without a condom/dental dam cast the first stone
It's not the same though...as has been outlined numerous times"
As I outlined above.. It's just another risk/reward decision and everyone needs to decide what they are persoanally happy with. Some young healthy person who lives alone might trust that the vaccine they've had provides protection for them and they are happy with the low level of risk from having sex. Others might not. Same as others are happy to take risks that could result in HIV etc etc. |
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"Exactly. Let him/her who never gave/received oral sex without a condom/dental dam cast the first stone
It's not the same though...as has been outlined numerous times
As I outlined above.. It's just another risk/reward decision and everyone needs to decide what they are persoanally happy with. Some young healthy person who lives alone might trust that the vaccine they've had provides protection for them and they are happy with the low level of risk from having sex. Others might not. Same as others are happy to take risks that could result in HIV etc etc. "
Sorry I kind of rushed my reply I should wait until I have more time.
Look at this stage if someone wants to have a meet im not grabbing my pitch fork.
I wanted to get at more, and this is from my observations on fab, some people don't seem to fully grasp that once vaccinated they can still be spreaders...
So in that I dont think its great comparison as your still a higher risk to other than if you contracted HIV |
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To be fair I would have agreed with you until recently when I think it's been shown that fully vaccinated people have a very low risk of transmitting. Maybe someone can correct me if that's not the case.
2 fully vaccinated people having sex, have a very very very low risk of either of them transmitting to the other, who goes on to infect someone else. The virus going through 2 vaccinated peoole to a 3rd party that is.
That's not to say there is zero risk, its just tips the risk/reward balance is all. |
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"To be fair I would have agreed with you until recently when I think it's been shown that fully vaccinated people have a very low risk of transmitting. Maybe someone can correct me if that's not the case.
2 fully vaccinated people having sex, have a very very very low risk of either of them transmitting to the other, who goes on to infect someone else. The virus going through 2 vaccinated peoole to a 3rd party that is.
That's not to say there is zero risk, its just tips the risk/reward balance is all. "
I havent actually seen that.... that would be a bit of a game changer alright...
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