Hello everyone, frist post here ! We where both wondering is the bdsm scene somthing you can experience in cork? Like groups getting together even for chats and Experiences. We are in strange times but mostly to see what the future could hold |
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Brief encounters is partially set up for kink/BDSM nights so if you were to organise a small group it might be a starting point.
RVC, I think do nights too. Just with brief encounters, just be aware it's open to the public at all times so it'll never be completely private |
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"Brief encounters is partially set up for kink/BDSM nights so if you were to organise a small group it might be a starting point.
RVC, I think do nights too. Just with brief encounters, just be aware it's open to the public at all times so it'll never be completely private "
Why the owners wont to make it easier for women?
Im lucky having fem friends and one of them has organized the red room but I think there is more lady who want to meet others and have fun?
Its really difficult to find anything in Ireland. It looks much easier is in the UK  |
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"Brief encounters is partially set up for kink/BDSM nights so if you were to organise a small group it might be a starting point.
RVC, I think do nights too. Just with brief encounters, just be aware it's open to the public at all times so it'll never be completely private
Why the owners wont to make it easier for women?
Im lucky having fem friends and one of them has organized the red room but I think there is more lady who want to meet others and have fun?
Its really difficult to find anything in Ireland. It looks much easier is in the UK "
I agree.. They under utilize the place hugely.. It has massive potential as a private party venue but they don't want to rent it out.. Few women I know that want to use it will only go in as part of a group or with a guy. Terrible waste actually |
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We had a terrible experience in brief encounters. We went into the side rooms with the sex swing to use it with the door locked. We heard noises in the next room but didn't think much of it. Just when we started to fuck mrs looked up and saw an old naked man looking ove the wall and screamed. He had piled chairs in the other room to be able to peak in. Complained to the person as the desk he said he would be banned but noting happened. Packed up our stuff and left. Mrs was super shaken |
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"We had a terrible experience in brief encounters. We went into the side rooms with the sex swing to use it with the door locked. We heard noises in the next room but didn't think much of it. Just when we started to fuck mrs looked up and saw an old naked man looking ove the wall and screamed. He had piled chairs in the other room to be able to peak in. Complained to the person as the desk he said he would be banned but noting happened. Packed up our stuff and left. Mrs was super shaken "
That's horrific |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We had a terrible experience in brief encounters. We went into the side rooms with the sex swing to use it with the door locked. We heard noises in the next room but didn't think much of it. Just when we started to fuck mrs looked up and saw an old naked man looking ove the wall and screamed. He had piled chairs in the other room to be able to peak in. Complained to the person as the desk he said he would be banned but noting happened. Packed up our stuff and left. Mrs was super shaken "
Sorry to hear u had a bad experience and a licked cubicle to me is sacrosanct unless of course there are windows to look in at the fun
Going to clubs and the like you are going to encounter people watching and wanting to be watched maybe a few evenings in the chat rooms where u can watch and if she likes put on a show will ease herself in to people watching and not shake her confidence
I don't condone that guys actions and i think most wouldn't either |
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"We had a terrible experience in brief encounters. We went into the side rooms with the sex swing to use it with the door locked. We heard noises in the next room but didn't think much of it. Just when we started to fuck mrs looked up and saw an old naked man looking ove the wall and screamed. He had piled chairs in the other room to be able to peak in. Complained to the person as the desk he said he would be banned but noting happened. Packed up our stuff and left. Mrs was super shaken
Sorry to hear u had a bad experience and a licked cubicle to me is sacrosanct unless of course there are windows to look in at the fun
Going to clubs and the like you are going to encounter people watching and wanting to be watched maybe a few evenings in the chat rooms where u can watch and if she likes put on a show will ease herself in to people watching and not shake her confidence
I don't condone that guys actions and i think most wouldn't either"
It was out first time and where super resectful to guys who asked to watch when we where there who understood. The same guy asked us just before when he knocked. Its just how he decided to try to get over the wall. We needed to get comfortable there as a young couple first. Maybe one say we go back but Myself (Mrs) was shaken. |
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There was quite an active scene until fairly recently. Monthly meet ups and regular play events. We've been to most everything. PM us if you want any info.
Sorry about your bad experience with brief encounters. As a general rule we would avoid ALL play events where there isn't a strict admission policy and management who enforce rules properly. |
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"Very alarming story re: brief encounters, what the f* goes through some peoples minds to make them think that’s okay?"
Which is true... But I also worry about venues who don't take swift action over stuff like this. |
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By *ergalMan
over a year ago
East Cork |
"Very alarming story re: brief encounters, what the f* goes through some peoples minds to make them think that’s okay?"
Totally agree, what a nut case.... You would "hope" that guy is in the minority |
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"Very alarming story re: brief encounters, what the f* goes through some peoples minds to make them think that’s okay?
Totally agree, what a nut case.... You would "hope" that guy is in the minority "
That's the problem with not having any kind of vetting process unfortunately. A full time venue needs to get punters in the door and can't be TOO discerning. |
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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago
City Centre |
"Very alarming story re: brief encounters, what the f* goes through some peoples minds to make them think that’s okay?
Which is true... But I also worry about venues who don't take swift action over stuff like this. "
Yeah, not much duty of care demonstrated  |
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"Very alarming story re: brief encounters, what the f* goes through some peoples minds to make them think that’s okay?
Which is true... But I also worry about venues who don't take swift action over stuff like this.
Yeah, not much duty of care demonstrated "
We would love to be able to use that place again dome day but honestly if young couples or any one else wants to feel comfortable going there I think there should be a sort of way to stop these kind of people entering.like piling up chairs fully naked and trying to get over the wall is an image hard to forget for a fist timer to witness . Thanks guys for all the support. At least it shows to us that this isn't normal and we aren't over thinking it . Thank you Heather x Rob x |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Kerry and Dublin |
"We have but finding it very difficult to find active people who reply. "
There is a cork specific forum on there, where you can post. You might have more luck in getting a response there (if you haven't tried already).
There were regular meet-ups (called 'munches'), I believe. They may start up again post pandemic.
I used Fet more when I lived abroad so I don't really know how active the communities are here. The impression I got is that there was some activity in Cork.
There was also a BDSM club there. Whether or not it will re-open I'm not sure. I can't remember the name of it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi guys, there are regular nights once all calms down, the kink community run a night in brief encounters that is closed to the public but in our opinion cork kink club run in RVC is better, fet is quite because the active community in ireland wont really talk to people unless there going to munches, where are just friendly night in a bar to get to know people, like masterandhis sparkles, who are really hot and really kinky and we love them we are here to chat and help put too |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi guys, there are regular nights once all calms down, the kink community run a night in brief encounters that is closed to the public but in our opinion cork kink club run in RVC is better, fet is quite because the active community in ireland wont really talk to people unless there going to munches, where are just friendly night in a bar to get to know people, like masterandhis sparkles, who are really hot and really kinky and we love them we are here to chat and help put too"
I ( mrs crazy ) have attened The Cork club , and have to say its a great experience and i loved it , cant wait for it to reopen , like poster said above and including them , they are hotties looking forward to seeing them at the club again ,
Mrs crazy |
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Many here too also 
from what i can gather Nimhneach is the place to be