"Haha,??where you're kinky ,like to fuck other guys n gals but your man isn't into it.......but you love him"
Sounds like you need to have a serious chat with him. Try to come to an arrangement so that you're not risking the relationship. Good luck  |
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"Haha,??where you're kinky ,like to fuck other guys n gals but your man isn't into it.......but you love him
Sounds like you need to have a serious chat with him. Try to come to an arrangement so that you're not risking the relationship. Good luck "
thanks,yea I must take a break x |
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I absolutely get what you’re talking about lol definitely on my yes list  regardless of relationship, there’s a thrill to it"
I know it's the thrill tho! |
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I absolutely get what you’re talking about lol definitely on my yes list regardless of relationship, there’s a thrill to it
Did you just post the wrong picture no well I hope not ,haha"
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"Haha,??where you're kinky ,like to fuck other guys n gals but your man isn't into it.......but you love him"
Maybe Google open relationships, ethical non-monogamy and polyamory and start from there.
Plenty of people are in open and polya relationships on this site, where their partner has full knowledge of their other partners / relationships.
If you're not monogamous and yiir partner is, that's a fundamental incompatibility in my opinion. |
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Being in an open relationship is very liberating. The freedom to see other people without judgment or fear of hurting someone when in a loving relationship. It works both ways though, you and your partner have to think the same, no jealousy when you think of them with someone else, doing things you want to do.. it boils down to unconditional trust, trust in your actions and most importantly in your partner.. no lies, no deceit.. i wouldnt have it any other way.. no one wants to feel betrayed... talk to your partner...if you don't sort it out and be truthful(open) it won't end well.
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My wife and I are kinky and we joined here after a long period of communication. I think we talked about it for 18 months. Roughly. I wanted to tie two women together and figured this could be the place to do it.
We had lots of fun and a few bad experiences. My wife decided that swinging was not a priority for her anymore so we both stepped away.
I dont judge people who cheat. I am not walking in their shoes and I don't know what they are dealing with. But in my dynamic with my wife, I need her to trust me and I wont do anything to risk losing that trust. My relationship with her is more important than anything to me.
My advice is very boring and predictable. Talk to your partner. Find out what the problems are, see if there is a way to compromise. Be open and honest in your needs and wants. And then respect the decisions that are reached or use the information to look at your relationship and maybe move on if you are not happy.
For us, it helped that the thing I joined to do here also excited my wife deep down. We had common ground. It helped that we were doing it together. It was shared experience. We never actually got to do that particular scene but I know if the right person comes along that we will tick that particular box off. |
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