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By *unsetcpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Craigavon |
Now I'm asking guys to be honest. How much sensation do you get from blow jobs. For me the penis has little sensation unlike a clit. Is it more to do with the image of seeing someone sucking your cock? If your partner enjoys sucking cock then that is the reason I would lye back and let happen. But just doesn't give me any sensation otherwise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It honestly depends. Some people are absolutely great at giving a BJ and others not so much. The image is always welcome too.
I've had some blowjobs better than sex and others I didn't enjoy at all. Wetter the better really!
But you're right, it's not as sensitive as the clit. But that's not to say it isn't at all |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Not ever having had a clit, I'm unfortunately unable to compare.
Trust me, I wish I could.
I've had bad blowjobs but have always had sensation, not always pleasurable as teeth can be a great addition but, if applied incorrectly, can be painful/dangerous.
The stretching of the banjo cord also not a great addition ladies!
Having said all that, a slow, teasing blowjob is hard to beat. One that finishes with a lot of tongue on the frenulum will definitely make you cum.
It's kinda the male clit if triggered correctly.
If said BJ also involves the P spot, then you'll likely need a soundproofed room, as that's the male G spot and will result in towels being needed 
I'm one of those who finds it hard to believe that there's guys who get nothing from oral.
I do really think it's because you've never met a good practitioner of the BJ.
I read an article not so long ago, might have even posted a link to it, which explained how women should enjoy a blowjob for themselves and think of it as their enjoyment.
I've been lucky to meet a few who definitely approached it from that perspective and I believe it's something that should be appreciated by all involved, not just something a woman does to make the guy happy  |
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By *unsetcpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Craigavon |
It should never be asking a woman to perform something shes not comfortable with...
And you know what I've had enthusiastic interest in having cock sucked and even fell asleep during the process so wheres the sensitivity and arousal. From the point of cuming during oral it's more the hand that does all the work.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is different, some women, myself included, don't really get a whole lot from receiving oral.
I've had men cum from oral and others who don't appear to be that into it. Maybe it's that my technique doesn't do it for some, maybe it's a lack of sensation for them. It's also possible that some psychological issue could reduce a man's enjoyment or inhibit him from cumming from oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women should enjoy a blowjob for themselves and think of it as their enjoyment.
I've been lucky to meet a few who definitely approached it from that perspective and I believe it's something that should be appreciated by all involved, not just something a woman does to make the guy happy "
Agreed.  |
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"Any women would like to comment?"
Official representative here.
I enjoy sucking cock but it's definitely more of a foreplay / power play thing for me than a means to get a guy off because that's... a lot of work sometimes And I'm lazy.
If I'm doing my thing and he's getting there, all good! But nothing worse than TRYING and it's not happening... that's why I prefer not to make orgasm the goal for blowjobs.
If a guy isn't particularly sensitive or doesn't cum easily from BJs I appreciate knowing that so I feel less pressure to try to make him cum that way / don't feel bad that he doesn't cum that way! |
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"Now I'm asking guys to be honest. How much sensation do you get from blow jobs. For me the penis has little sensation unlike a clit. Is it more to do with the image of seeing someone sucking your cock? If your partner enjoys sucking cock then that is the reason I would lye back and let happen. But just doesn't give me any sensation otherwise?"
You must have lost the sensation in your dick so.. The glans contains many sensory glands.. I can go weak at the knees from a good bj |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had some amazing ones and some absolutley awful ones.
Still waiting for a properly deep one though, haha,
But it all depends on whos giving it and how much theyre into giving one.
Same with everything really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any women would like to comment?"
One of the first senses to come into play is the taste. Placing my lips on him is one of my favourite things to do, either on his lips or down there...
I absolutely adore exploring my man's genitals. He enjoys so much while I'm at it and seeing him enjoying. gives me pleasure too. It goes both ways. |
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By *unsetcpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Craigavon |
You know what isn't it great we are all different with our likes and dislikes... site would be boring if everyone was same. Keep fabbing and hopefully our swinging lifestyles can resume after Covid... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the feeling of hot lips and wet tongue on my gland is undiscrible , when slow lick from the bottom to the top is fantastic I can cum with just the feeling of that... |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Kerry and Dublin |
"Now I'm asking guys to be honest. How much sensation do you get from blow jobs. For me the penis has little sensation unlike a clit. Is it more to do with the image of seeing someone sucking your cock? If your partner enjoys sucking cock then that is the reason I would lye back and let happen. But just doesn't give me any sensation otherwise?"
I've had similar blowjobs where it hasn't felt that sensitive but I think that is more to do with technique.
Slow, wet, and sensual with lots of tongue focused around the head usually does it for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sounds of a BJ... the sensation of the continuing suction when ejaculating... the chance to feel or taste her while getting a BJ... the visual obviously... my fav is when in the 69 and you get that look down between the two bodies.... yup. Plenty of sensuality and senses on overload for a BJ.
And agree on the above... a bad one... even the worst one is still great.
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
Limerick |
"Katie here i love giving blow jobs so intimate and sensual and love when himself cums from it, but curious alot of men have said they received bad ones can I ask what made them bad?... just looking to improve my technique... side note I love receiving oral too and often cum/squirt during it, but much prefer taking turns on giving and receiving as when I'm cuming id find it hard to focus on giving xxx k x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah the old BJ question... honestly I would have varying degrees of pleasure from BJs ... but always a pleasure that a lady has decided to grace me ... the pleasure is of course dependent on factors .. i would say that it can be a feeling of great to extraordinary... technique is everything  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"Katie here i love giving blow jobs so intimate and sensual and love when himself cums from it, but curious alot of men have said they received bad ones can I ask what made them bad?... just looking to improve my technique... side note I love receiving oral too and often cum/squirt during it, but much prefer taking turns on giving and receiving as when I'm cuming id find it hard to focus on giving xxx k x"
Teeth being used vigorously, or painfully. Stretching the cock/frenulum much. Squeezing on the downward stroke rather than the upwards one is usually the reason. Rushing it. Not doing some teasing to build the pleasure. Same movement all the time with no variation.
No ball scratching/cupping.
Hey that's just me though. There are other things to increase the pleasure but taking turns is much better than 69, unless it's sideways, which I find good but still not as good as taking turns. |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
Limerick |
"Katie here i love giving blow jobs so intimate and sensual and love when himself cums from it, but curious alot of men have said they received bad ones can I ask what made them bad?... just looking to improve my technique... side note I love receiving oral too and often cum/squirt during it, but much prefer taking turns on giving and receiving as when I'm cuming id find it hard to focus on giving xxx k x
Teeth being used vigorously, or painfully. Stretching the cock/frenulum much. Squeezing on the downward stroke rather than the upwards one is usually the reason. Rushing it. Not doing some teasing to build the pleasure. Same movement all the time with no variation.
No ball scratching/cupping.
Hey that's just me though. There are other things to increase the pleasure but taking turns is much better than 69, unless it's sideways, which I find good but still not as good as taking turns."
Thank you, I dont think ive ever been guilty of any of that so that is good, I also think by taking turns it prolongs the pleasure and you get to really get teasing and sensual with it. X
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"Katie here i love giving blow jobs so intimate and sensual and love when himself cums from it, but curious alot of men have said they received bad ones can I ask what made them bad?... just looking to improve my technique... side note I love receiving oral too and often cum/squirt during it, but much prefer taking turns on giving and receiving as when I'm cuming id find it hard to focus on giving xxx k x
Teeth being used vigorously, or painfully. Stretching the cock/frenulum much. Squeezing on the downward stroke rather than the upwards one is usually the reason. Rushing it. Not doing some teasing to build the pleasure. Same movement all the time with no variation.
No ball scratching/cupping.
Hey that's just me though. There are other things to increase the pleasure but taking turns is much better than 69, unless it's sideways, which I find good but still not as good as taking turns.
Thank you, I dont think ive ever been guilty of any of that so that is good, I also think by taking turns it prolongs the pleasure and you get to really get teasing and sensual with it. X
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Just be sure that you go down first.
Then he goes down on you and is ready by the time you cum for some slightly prolonged action.
Ok the slightly is just me but I'm pathetic before the prolonged anyway |
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