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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Domination came up in conversation with fellow Fabber lately.
I said I sometimes worry when a guy describes himself as a Dom as our perceptions may differ greatly!
There are so many levels.
If there was a chart drawn up what would it look like to you?
A level 1 Dom compared to a level 8,9,10...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed - something so off putting about when people describe themselves as a “Dom”.
I always imagine someone who’s watched 50 Shades and too much porn showing up in a non-ironed shirt with a “Goodie Bag” of cheap Fisher-Price looking whips, restraints etc.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agreed - something so off putting about when people describe themselves as a “Dom”.
I always imagine someone who’s watched 50 Shades and too much porn showing up in a non-ironed shirt with a “Goodie Bag” of cheap Fisher-Price looking whips, restraints etc. "
Fisher-Price whips eh? U source em cheap??
Also... Ironing is over-rated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed - something so off putting about when people describe themselves as a “Dom”.
I always imagine someone who’s watched 50 Shades and too much porn showing up in a non-ironed shirt with a “Goodie Bag” of cheap Fisher-Price looking whips, restraints etc.
Fisher-Price whips eh? U source em cheap??
Also... Ironing is over-rated "
Only the best in my goodie bag!
Those spanking paddles I got off Wish couldn’t put butter on toast without breaking 
I prefer a well fitting t-shirt too anyways |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agreed - something so off putting about when people describe themselves as a “Dom”.
I always imagine someone who’s watched 50 Shades and too much porn showing up in a non-ironed shirt with a “Goodie Bag” of cheap Fisher-Price looking whips, restraints etc.
Fisher-Price whips eh? U source em cheap??
Also... Ironing is over-rated
Only the best in my goodie bag!
Those spanking paddles I got off Wish couldn’t put butter on toast without breaking
I prefer a well fitting t-shirt too anyways "
Did u order a plastic knife per chance?  |
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Truly dominant men don't need to insist on labels, they just are what they are and it will become apparant. Similarly, "doms" that insist on a myriad of meaningless rules and rigid structure are usually using those rules and structure to compensate for a lack of confidence and actual dominance. |
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"Truly dominant men don't need to insist on labels, they just are what they are and it will become apparant. Similarly, "doms" that insist on a myriad of meaningless rules and rigid structure are usually using those rules and structure to compensate for a lack of confidence and actual dominance."
This... |
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"Domination came up in conversation with fellow Fabber lately.
I said I sometimes worry when a guy describes himself as a Dom as our perceptions may differ greatly!
There are so many levels.
If there was a chart drawn up what would it look like to you?
A level 1 Dom compared to a level 8,9,10...?"
thing with Doms on sites like this is trust. its the biggest thing. |
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"Truly dominant men don't need to insist on labels, they just are what they are and it will become apparant. Similarly, "doms" that insist on a myriad of meaningless rules and rigid structure are usually using those rules and structure to compensate for a lack of confidence and actual dominance."
Dont get me started on labels - who uses them, and why, and how they are interpreted
I get that its an easy shorthand but it really tells you nothing .. |
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