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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
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Just looking for opinions on this please
In a hotel setting if you meet early for drinks and dinner
Do you prefer an all night stay where you wake up together,have breakfast,have sex maybe and then go your seperate ways again
Or do you prefer separate rooms ....and for the other person to leave and go back to their own rooms after sex
What about if its someone's home and you're asked to stay the night
It's a huge leap in my head and I've been leaving her house and driving to my hotel
Did other's experience this at the start of their fab life
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Entirely situation dependant for me. I'd rarely stay the night with anyone off here. If I know someone well and weve met several times then it's a possibility.
But I prefer to sleep in my own bed and will usually taxi it home or kick someone out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Entirely situation dependant for me. I'd rarely stay the night with anyone off here. If I know someone well and weve met several times then it's a possibility.
But I prefer to sleep in my own bed and will usually taxi it home or kick someone out "
Get out ta fuck.. Shoo shoo!  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Hotel setting id more than likely stay the night same room and leave the next morning...
I don't go to anyone's home but on the off chance I did id leave and go home id never spend the night in someone's else's home it's a bit to personal for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% depends on the person. I've done the meet at a hotel and not stay over which was fun but I prefer the staying over as its way more fun, have dinner and drinks flirt etc than back to room and have lots of hot sex, snooze for little while snuggle and more hot morning sex. Breakfast and than maybe a quickie before heading off.
I've stayed over with guys too but thats usually when know each other well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer them to feck off home, or if it's local to us, we will and they can have the hotel room.
We've also had a guy stay in our hotel room overnight as he had driven over 100 miles - we already knew him and this was arranged beforehand (and yes there was morning sex  ) |
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A hotel setting and overnight (maybe 2, if im lucky) for someone id be seeing on a regular basis.
Drinks, hotel, go our separate ways if its only a 1st full meet
What if she didnt like watching match of the day! |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"A hotel setting and overnight (maybe 2, if im lucky) for someone id be seeing on a regular basis.
Drinks, hotel, go our separate ways if its only a 1st full meet
What if she didnt like watching match of the day!"
Run for the hills who doesn't enjoy watching MOD |
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"A hotel setting and overnight (maybe 2, if im lucky) for someone id be seeing on a regular basis.
Drinks, hotel, go our separate ways if its only a 1st full meet
What if she didnt like watching match of the day!
Run for the hills who doesn't enjoy watching MOD "
Lolly, theres some people out there that just dont appreciate the finer things |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"A hotel setting and overnight (maybe 2, if im lucky) for someone id be seeing on a regular basis.
Drinks, hotel, go our separate ways if its only a 1st full meet
What if she didnt like watching match of the day!
Run for the hills who doesn't enjoy watching MOD
Lolly, theres some people out there that just dont appreciate the finer things"
Tut Tut  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i find waking up beside a guy quite intimate so staying over would only be for someone special. An overnight with a guy i didn't know too well is my idea of a nightmare.  |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Situation and person dependent for me. I have booked my own room that never got used and have stayed over with people but only as I knew them. I generally would stay if things were going well. I wouldn't intrude on a couples space though beyond having a great time with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All but once has Fab + Hotel = Overnight.
Highly unlikely it would ever happen again. I’m ok with that... and hope whoever may be a future fab friend would be “likeminded” there too  |
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"It would completely depend on the situation and how much I knew or liked the person .
Same"
Same here. I'd never plan to stay the night with someone I'd never met, but I'm open to it if I like the person. |
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"Thanks for your answers,they are very much appreciated.At the moment its a fwb situation that in my mind would be more if I stayed a full night.
I'm trying to sort it out in my head
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If you think staying over gives the wrong message or makes you seem like you're interested in more than you are, definitely don't do it - and fair play for being considerate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your answers,they are very much appreciated.At the moment its a fwb situation that in my mind would be more if I stayed a full night.
I'm trying to sort it out in my head
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The best thing to so is probably talk to them about it. It might be uncomfortable and even bring it to an end...but its starting to head that way not bringing it up is only dragging it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your answers,they are very much appreciated.At the moment its a fwb situation that in my mind would be more if I stayed a full night.
I'm trying to sort it out in my head
The best thing to so is probably talk to them about it. It might be uncomfortable and even bring it to an end...but its starting to head that way not bringing it up is only dragging it out "
Correctamundo, and not only that, but the "issues" may be entirely in one's own head. The only way to sort it is to discuss it honestly with the other party. This may end with no longer getting laid but as grown-ups, we know our actions have consequences, right? |
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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago
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Most of my meets in Ireland have been in my hotel whilst I was over on business and all I played with Couples and Females left to go home after fun
In fact a Lady I met from Fab and played with in my hotel every month for nearly 4yrs always went home late at night sometimes around 2am as she preferred to actually sleep alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on people’s preferences and situations. We all have different limitations and boundaries and I guess part of being on here is respecting them. As long as the end result is that both people have fun |
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In fact a Lady I met from Fab and played with in my hotel every month for nearly 4yrs always went home late at night sometimes around 2am as she preferred to actually sleep alone "
Also this, the last time I slept in bed with a man I had the WORST night's sleep ever to the point where I was considering if it was even worth the sex to begin with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it would have to be someone I've met before and am rather comfortable around.
But again, entirely depends on the person too. If a night goes well anything can happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From past experiences I would keep it totally seperate... have fun all night long but keep the sleepovers and cuddles out of it.. I’d definitely get my own room or have an exit plan |
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