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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have seen this a few times now, where someone says they are looking for likeminded people, without reveling anything of what their mind is. Literally have seen this and no other clue on a profile.
Swinging is what might be referred to as a "broad church". For some it's mf sex, for others it's swapping wives, and there's always the outlier who is into defocating in the homewares aisle.
I'm not here to judge.
Unless you have a contextless "likeminded" on your profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand the use of the term 'like minded' as a way of looking for compatibility. Obviously sex is one mutual interest and the ultimate purpose for many on here But many others are not looking only for sex. So I find it useful when a profile gives a hint of their insterests and what they are looking for, in a clear and not too expanded way.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have discreet on my profile as I expect who I meet to be the same. I hate how people talk about who they meet and have no problem sharing their information with others. I like my privacy and like it to be respected if they don't then that's it for me. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I have discreet on my profile as I expect who I meet to be the same. I hate how people talk about who they meet and have no problem sharing their information with others. I like my privacy and like it to be respected if they don't then that's it for me."
Agree but sadly talkers will be talkers regardless of what we put in our profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have discreet on my profile as I expect who I meet to be the same. I hate how people talk about who they meet and have no problem sharing their information with others. I like my privacy and like it to be respected if they don't then that's it for me.
Agree but sadly talkers will be talkers regardless of what we put in our profiles! "
Yes unfortunately so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have discreet on my profile as I expect who I meet to be the same. I hate how people talk about who they meet and have no problem sharing their information with others. I like my privacy and like it to be respected if they don't then that's it for me."
oh thats a perspective i hadnt considered actually. i was reading it as likely to mean someone married who's partner didnt know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have discreet on my profile as I expect who I meet to be the same. I hate how people talk about who they meet and have no problem sharing their information with others. I like my privacy and like it to be respected if they don't then that's it for me.
oh thats a perspective i hadnt considered actually. i was reading it as likely to mean someone married who's partner didnt know "
Rub I think a lot here seem to think that too. My husband has similar wording on his profile too. I guess just ask who ever you're chatting to that has that on their profile what they mean by it. I could I guess change the wording on my profile to say no loose mouthy people need apply but it doesn't sound as nice as discreet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loose lips sink ships  "
Exactly. I've nothing to hide from anyone, I just don't like being talked about. I also would like to keep my fab life in fab. I'm sure a lot feel the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like minded is quite vague I think. And covers a multitude without actually labelling oneself
As for professional - I always wonder at what like anyone can be professional at their job, can you be professional in the bedroom? 
As for Discreet - I remember one coffee meet telling me what he got up to with a woman that worked somewhere I knew, just as well I haven't got loose lips because she could lose all.
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Probably my most used word on fab is consistency.
I always look for it with profile text and pics and forum interaction.
That tells me all I need to know about whether or not someone is like-minded or discreet.
Everyone has come across the fab pic collectors but I pay as much attention to the info gathering users who like to ask lots of questions but give little or nothing back. Major red flag right there.
When someone you've only exchanged a couple of messages with tells you who they've just met it should be obvious that anything said to them will not remain private. |
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"Probably my most used word on fab is consistency.
I always look for it with profile text and pics and forum interaction.
That tells me all I need to know about whether or not someone is like-minded or discreet.
Everyone has come across the fab pic collectors but I pay as much attention to the info gathering users who like to ask lots of questions but give little or nothing back. Major red flag right there.
When someone you've only exchanged a couple of messages with tells you who they've just met it should be obvious that anything said to them will not remain private. "
The above doesn't just apply to private messages. It's quite common on the forums too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like minded is quite vague I think.
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Exactly, it doesn't mean anything unless the profile actually says what they are into.
It's like verbal filler I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loose lips sink ships
Exactly. I've nothing to hide from anyone, I just don't like being talked about. I also would like to keep my fab life in fab. I'm sure a lot feel the same. "
It's not about having anything to hide!
Respecting other people's privacy and personal life is of paramount importance.
That should go without saying  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And also, who ISN'T looking for someone like-minded? We're hardly all wanting to meet someone we aren't on the same page as or disagree with..."
Yes I imagine it's the rare person who would have "looking for a complete tool" on their profile |
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I guess my name on this has its own negative connotations I hadn't considered. Mine is basically like the rest, discretion in the form of keeping fab things on fab and not spreading gossip. I can see where it might be misinterpreted though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably my most used word on fab is consistency.
I always look for it with profile text and pics and forum interaction.
That tells me all I need to know about whether or not someone is like-minded or discreet.
Everyone has come across the fab pic collectors but I pay as much attention to the info gathering users who like to ask lots of questions but give little or nothing back. Major red flag right there.
When someone you've only exchanged a couple of messages with tells you who they've just met it should be obvious that anything said to them will not remain private.
The above doesn't just apply to private messages. It's quite common on the forums too. "
Yeap!! We had a poster on the forum discuss our fun and suggest if others like similar play they should contact us!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely no one is likeminded like me.
And if you are...
Seek help immediately "
Ha! Exactly
Next time I see it I'm going to message "so you like necrophilia too? Yay!" |
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"Absolutely no one is likeminded like me.
And if you are...
Seek help immediately
Ha! Exactly
Next time I see it I'm going to message "so you like necrophilia too? Yay!" "
You bring the rope, il bring the baked beans! This is gona be so much fun!! |
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