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Controversial I know 
Lots of talk of when restrictions will start to lift and when we can meet people once again (hopefully very very soon), however, with that being said, we are obviously aware that some people have more than reached their own personal breaking point and have already started meeting up with some folks for a night of fun.
So, with a safe space in mind, to share and support each other in this beautiful little scene of ours, when do you feel like you will be comfortable to come out and play once again? 
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"Controversial I know
Lots of talk of when restrictions will start to lift and when we can meet people once again (hopefully very very soon), however, with that being said, we are obviously aware that some people have more than reached their own personal breaking point and have already started meeting up with some folks for a night of fun.
So, with a safe space in mind, to share and support each other in this beautiful little scene of ours, when do you feel like you will be comfortable to come out and play once again?
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I lasted until 3 weeks ago 
Feel like things are not going to really change anytime soon and once you're careful and logical some fun can be had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm meeting someone when restrictions over cant wait. We chat every day and nice getting to know her and we are learning a lot about what our likes and dislikes are  But yeah a trip to the hairdressers is very important. I actually considered a bun the other day! When I read for work it always gets in my face and annoying I'm so excited for a haircut and never thought I'd ever think that! |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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The words bubbly buddy is thrown around loosely on here, people needing to meet there bubble buddy for company or there mental health needs..Who knows who there bubbling up with I say this simply because in some pictures and videos people are uploading on here 1+1 doesn't = 5 no matter what language you speak... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP we're thinking a couple of months should be enough time for a significant number of vaccinations. Protect the most vulnerable and all that.
The vaccination news had essentially been all good, they all work and it seems like against all variants. Just have to sort the supply issues out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The words bubbly buddy is thrown around loosely on here, people needing to meet there bubble buddy for company or there mental health needs..Who knows who there bubbling up with I say this simply because in some pictures and videos people are uploading on here 1+1 doesn't = 5 no matter what language you speak..."
If I pick a bubble buddy I will be making sure he's not meeting others and if I can't be sure I won't be meeting. As it is I've kept my bubble to a very small number. |
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over a year ago
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Im thinking it should be a considered a risk assessment - looking at the viral chain and risk of transmission. An individual living at home and working from home meeting another similar would be pretty low risk, and so beneficial to both id say go for it. Whereas someone living in a shared house with others who are socialising with friends and family would be pretty high risk.
Ive gotten this far without catching or transmitting it and thats a record i intend to keep |
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"Im thinking it should be a considered a risk assessment - looking at the viral chain and risk of transmission. An individual living at home and working from home meeting another similar would be pretty low risk, and so beneficial to both id say go for it. Whereas someone living in a shared house with others who are socialising with friends and family would be pretty high risk.
Ive gotten this far without catching or transmitting it and thats a record i intend to keep "
I've watched at least 4 households in my street have people come and go like its picadilly Station. My son and my parents are my bubble , it's been a long year and the thought of another 6 months of this crap is stressful but I'll do what needs to be done.
Anyway at this rate thinking I'd find a bubble buddy will be another for the fantasy list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im thinking it should be a considered a risk assessment - looking at the viral chain and risk of transmission. An individual living at home and working from home meeting another similar would be pretty low risk, and so beneficial to both id say go for it. Whereas someone living in a shared house with others who are socialising with friends and family would be pretty high risk.
Ive gotten this far without catching or transmitting it and thats a record i intend to keep
I've watched at least 4 households in my street have people come and go like its picadilly Station. My son and my parents are my bubble , it's been a long year and the thought of another 6 months of this crap is stressful but I'll do what needs to be done.
Anyway at this rate thinking I'd find a bubble buddy will be another for the fantasy list "
Long year, stressful and crap yep, says it all, in a nutshell 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far too many people meeting up on here. Putting themselves and countless others at risk. Im an essential worker and its mindblowing how stupid some not all people are behaving. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Im thinking it should be a considered a risk assessment - looking at the viral chain and risk of transmission. An individual living at home and working from home meeting another similar would be pretty low risk, and so beneficial to both id say go for it. Whereas someone living in a shared house with others who are socialising with friends and family would be pretty high risk.
Ive gotten this far without catching or transmitting it and thats a record i intend to keep
I've watched at least 4 households in my street have people come and go like its picadilly Station. My son and my parents are my bubble , it's been a long year and the thought of another 6 months of this crap is stressful but I'll do what needs to be done.
Anyway at this rate thinking I'd find a bubble buddy will be another for the fantasy list "
The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you? |
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if you're meeting somebody you can never be 100 % sure they're not meeting somebody else also or more than 1. let me ask this. are you going the rest of 21 without meeting somebody because let's face it, God knows when everyone will be vaxed. |
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"Im thinking it should be a considered a risk assessment - looking at the viral chain and risk of transmission. An individual living at home and working from home meeting another similar would be pretty low risk, and so beneficial to both id say go for it. Whereas someone living in a shared house with others who are socialising with friends and family would be pretty high risk.
Ive gotten this far without catching or transmitting it and thats a record i intend to keep
I've watched at least 4 households in my street have people come and go like its picadilly Station. My son and my parents are my bubble , it's been a long year and the thought of another 6 months of this crap is stressful but I'll do what needs to be done.
Anyway at this rate thinking I'd find a bubble buddy will be another for the fantasy list
The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you? "
Million dollar question |
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"Probably when I can get a haircut again and have my second jab done, that's if anyone will have me after I've grown the extra limbs "
But just because you vaccinated doesn't mean it's safe to meet you still can get covid you can still carry it and pass it on. All the vaccine does is gives you a better ability to fight it. |
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"Probably when I can get a haircut again and have my second jab done, that's if anyone will have me after I've grown the extra limbs
But just because you vaccinated doesn't mean it's safe to meet you still can get covid you can still carry it and pass it on. All the vaccine does is gives you a better ability to fight it. "
Oh I know all that, I'd still be taking my precautions and still wear a mask to places. I'm not one of those that thinks once I have the vaccine I can throw caution into the wind, I still have my common sense. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you? "
I have a Fwb that yes I do meet and yes I do trust .We have been friends long before covid came along and we are in each others bubble.I wouldn't be meeting him if I didn't trust him and he is the same he has to have a much trust in me as I have in him for it to work especially during these times .
As for when I would be willing to meet anyone else who knows at this stage but I cannot see it happening anytime soon for me anyhow .
It's a decision people have to make for themselves I don't think there will ever be a clear-cut date when it is going to be 'safe' to meet. It will come down to individual choice in the end .Just like it has been all the way through this . |
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I personally think this is going on so long now, people will crack. l5 is been extended and extended and I don't need to say anything about the vaccine process. as others have said, people will meet when they want. its upto each individual. would I criticise anybody meeting in the next couple of months and into the summer? absolutely not. the way it looks to me and everybodys opinion is different, you'll never be rid of covid fully. |
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The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you?
I have a Fwb that yes I do meet and yes I do trust .We have been friends long before covid came along and we are in each others bubble.I wouldn't be meeting him if I didn't trust him and he is the same he has to have a much trust in me as I have in him for it to work especially during these times .
As for when I would be willing to meet anyone else who knows at this stage but I cannot see it happening anytime soon for me anyhow .
It's a decision people have to make for themselves I don't think there will ever be a clear-cut date when it is going to be 'safe' to meet. It will come down to individual choice in the end .Just like it has been all the way through this ."
would you meet a person if they were fully vaxed like yourself? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you?
I have a Fwb that yes I do meet and yes I do trust .We have been friends long before covid came along and we are in each others bubble.I wouldn't be meeting him if I didn't trust him and he is the same he has to have a much trust in me as I have in him for it to work especially during these times .
As for when I would be willing to meet anyone else who knows at this stage but I cannot see it happening anytime soon for me anyhow .
It's a decision people have to make for themselves I don't think there will ever be a clear-cut date when it is going to be 'safe' to meet. It will come down to individual choice in the end .Just like it has been all the way through this .would you meet a person if they were fully vaxed like yourself?"
No it wouldn't sway me in any way to meet them. Plus there are people on here lying and saying they are vaccinated when they clearly aren't.But even putting that aside no it wouldn't sway me to meet them if they did. My life is the same as it was before my vacs as it is after at the moment . |
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The problem is to find a bubble buddy you've to meet, if ye can't meet you can't find one..... unless you had already a fb/fwb when the pandemic started. Question that always remains: Can you fully trust your fb/fwb? Really? Seriously can you?
I have a Fwb that yes I do meet and yes I do trust .We have been friends long before covid came along and we are in each others bubble.I wouldn't be meeting him if I didn't trust him and he is the same he has to have a much trust in me as I have in him for it to work especially during these times .
As for when I would be willing to meet anyone else who knows at this stage but I cannot see it happening anytime soon for me anyhow .
It's a decision people have to make for themselves I don't think there will ever be a clear-cut date when it is going to be 'safe' to meet. It will come down to individual choice in the end .Just like it has been all the way through this .would you meet a person if they were fully vaxed like yourself?
No it wouldn't sway me in any way to meet them. Plus there are people on here lying and saying they are vaccinated when they clearly aren't.But even putting that aside no it wouldn't sway me to meet them if they did. My life is the same as it was before my vacs as it is after at the moment ."
I ment if they had a vacc card/slip to prove it. oh, even before covid, you only met 1 or 2 anyway? |
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By *ustBoWoman
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would you meet a person if they were fully vaxed like yourself?
No it wouldn't sway me in any way to meet them. Plus there are people on here lying and saying they are vaccinated when they clearly aren't.But even putting that aside no it wouldn't sway me to meet them if they did. My life is the same as it was before my vacs as it is after at the moment .I ment if they had a vacc card/slip to prove it. oh, even before covid, you only met 1 or 2 anyway?"
How many people I met before covid is my business and no one else's and has absolutely no bearing what so ever on my decision to not meet anyone new at present.
And there is no fool proof way to prove you had the vaccine the card s you get I'm sure have already been faked so I wouldn't take that as proof anyhow .And like I said even if someone had the vaccine it would not sway me to meet them.
My profile explains what I'm looking for normally. Someone having a vaccine would not sway me or make me want to meet them right now . |
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would you meet a person if they were fully vaxed like yourself?
No it wouldn't sway me in any way to meet them. Plus there are people on here lying and saying they are vaccinated when they clearly aren't.But even putting that aside no it wouldn't sway me to meet them if they did. My life is the same as it was before my vacs as it is after at the moment .I ment if they had a vacc card/slip to prove it. oh, even before covid, you only met 1 or 2 anyway?
How many people I met before covid is my business and no one else's and has absolutely no bearing what so ever on my decision to not meet anyone new at present.
And there is no fool proof way to prove you had the vaccine the card s you get I'm sure have already been faked so I wouldn't take that as proof anyhow .And like I said even if someone had the vaccine it would not sway me to meet them.
My profile explains what I'm looking for normally. Someone having a vaccine would not sway me or make me want to meet them right now ."
no. what I mean is, in the future would you meet anybody you want or will covid be forever on your mind. |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?"
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
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By *ustBoWoman
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?"
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question. |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
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were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it. its a fairly simple question. Will you meet openly (new prople) again.. |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question."
course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight. |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it. its a fairly simple question. Will you meet openly (new prople) again.."
Fairly aggressive line of questioning there but just to say if you haven't yet gotten a vaccine or your full circle of family then we are nowhere near the end of the pandemic. Absolutely no definite timeline given for the majority of people under 50 and with 3 (almost 4) vaccines with differing levels of efficacy you cannot tell people it is any safer now than it was a year ago. |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it. its a fairly simple question. Will you meet openly (new prople) again..
Fairly aggressive line of questioning there but just to say if you haven't yet gotten a vaccine or your full circle of family then we are nowhere near the end of the pandemic. Absolutely no definite timeline given for the majority of people under 50 and with 3 (almost 4) vaccines with differing levels of efficacy you cannot tell people it is any safer now than it was a year ago. "
sure everybody with half a braincell knows how slow the rollout is. at the rate we're going, you might not even see normality in 2022. as somebody said to me yesterday, they thought once the vulnerable in society were vaccinated, a large chunk of life would resume to normality. the way they're talking, that doesn't seem the way. |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it. its a fairly simple question. Will you meet openly (new prople) again.."
We are still in a pandemic, it's a global pandemic....
Doesn't matter if we're all sorted here, if it's a global issue it's still a pandemic, doesn't change if one country has their shit together (which of course we don't, it's Ireland after all) |
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"basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
How can someone answer if covid has changed their interpretation on meeting FOREVER when we are still in the middle of the pandemic and taken things day by day and week by week?
I think the point has been made above a number of times above that its a personal decision once restrictions are lifted and will depend from person to person, based on their own outlook and their own situation regarding risk..
were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it. its a fairly simple question. Will you meet openly (new prople) again..
We are still in a pandemic, it's a global pandemic....
Doesn't matter if we're all sorted here, if it's a global issue it's still a pandemic, doesn't change if one country has their shit together (which of course we don't, it's Ireland after all)"
when life is normal there is loads to do in your own country. I'm not talking about overseas at all. non essential travel should of been stopped months and months ago. get your own (ireland) house in order but as u say, thats a long way away |
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Unfortunately I don't see being able to meet anytime soon ie parties/ one on one meets,unless I meet someone and decide we meet on a regular and monogamous basis.
As far as we are in the middle of a pandemic,vaccine or no vaccine,it's my choice not to meet,even if the person is vaccinated or not.
Till I feel comfortable dont know when that will be
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight. "
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? |
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? "
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? "
the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have. |
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"After restrictions are lifted I'll be traveling to Germany to meet a man I've been seeing online for the last 9 months.
I don't know when I will meet randomly with people again. "
once the vulnerable are vaxed, society in a large chunk should be open. I don't know how many % of society would be classed as vulnerable. |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have. "
Why we are all entitled to live our lives the way we want, not to please anyone else. All I know is I'm willing to keep going as I have been as I would never forgive myself if I contracted covid and passed it to someone else or caused the death of a loved one. My mental health has struggled all year but I'll manage. |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have. "
Sure what's not to love about it. Losing my job, out of work for the first time in my life, working part time for cash in hand at less than half what I was earning before lockdown one?
Why would I want lockdown to end? I'm living the life of Reilly |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have.
Sure what's not to love about it. Losing my job, out of work for the first time in my life, working part time for cash in hand at less than half what I was earning before lockdown one?
Why would I want lockdown to end? I'm living the life of Reilly"
its like hairdressers who are been treated appalingly. gone above and beyond with safety measures and been told it will be at least may before they're open. I'm all for keeping some measures in place but no way should we be in a continius l5. |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have.
Sure what's not to love about it. Losing my job, out of work for the first time in my life, working part time for cash in hand at less than half what I was earning before lockdown one?
Why would I want lockdown to end? I'm living the life of Reilly"
hope you find permanent work soon. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"After restrictions are lifted I'll be traveling to Germany to meet a man I've been seeing online for the last 9 months.
I don't know when I will meet randomly with people again. "
Always wondered how that went
You created a thread about him last year
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have.
Sure what's not to love about it. Losing my job, out of work for the first time in my life, working part time for cash in hand at less than half what I was earning before lockdown one?
Why would I want lockdown to end? I'm living the life of Reillyits like hairdressers who are been treated appalingly. gone above and beyond with safety measures and been told it will be at least may before they're open. I'm all for keeping some measures in place but no way should we be in a continius l5. "
Let's be honest a lot of the restrictions make no sense and I do believe the mess was made at the start and now its a case of luck the can down the road. Even this week they discussing what may lift what may not lift. I think they should just concentrate on getting people vaccinated and at end of month decide what to do. Like a lot of areas in this country the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing and its tit for tat of who is doing right and who is doing wrong. Neighbours are turning against each other and reporting each other. The whole we in this together is long gone.
I think we are all adults and have to deal with the consequences of our actions.
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"OP we're thinking a couple of months should be enough time for a significant number of vaccinations. Protect the most vulnerable and all that.
The vaccination news had essentially been all good, they all work and it seems like against all variants. Just have to sort the supply issues out "
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"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 13:29:58]basically has covid changed your interpretation and mindset on meeting forever?
It certainly doesn't play on my mind as much as it obviously does on yours
And no would be my final answer to your question.course it plays on the mind when your been told how to live your life with no end in sight.
But according to your previous posts some of us don't have lives anyway so it really won't make a pile of difference will it then? the way some of ye are happy to go along in a continous l5 with no end in sight and the disgrace of a situation that's occurring at the moment, id question the life some of you have.
Sure what's not to love about it. Losing my job, out of work for the first time in my life, working part time for cash in hand at less than half what I was earning before lockdown one?
Why would I want lockdown to end? I'm living the life of Reillyits like hairdressers who are been treated appalingly. gone above and beyond with safety measures and been told it will be at least may before they're open. I'm all for keeping some measures in place but no way should we be in a continius l5.
Let's be honest a lot of the restrictions make no sense and I do believe the mess was made at the start and now its a case of luck the can down the road. Even this week they discussing what may lift what may not lift. I think they should just concentrate on getting people vaccinated and at end of month decide what to do. Like a lot of areas in this country the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing and its tit for tat of who is doing right and who is doing wrong. Neighbours are turning against each other and reporting each other. The whole we in this together is long gone.
I think we are all adults and have to deal with the consequences of our actions.
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"After restrictions are lifted I'll be traveling to Germany to meet a man I've been seeing online for the last 9 months.
I don't know when I will meet randomly with people again.
Always wondered how that went
You created a thread about him last year
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Yeah! I did haha
About how I didn't want to meet anyone else now that I was with him. I stuck with my decision and I don't regret it. We video call literally every day and we will be meeting asap. I'm very happy and we are planning for this to be a long term relationship.
Turns out I wasn't that nuts because everyone* has been more or less forced into sexlessness haha |
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"After restrictions are lifted I'll be traveling to Germany to meet a man I've been seeing online for the last 9 months.
I don't know when I will meet randomly with people again.
Always wondered how that went
You created a thread about him last year
Yeah! I did haha
About how I didn't want to meet anyone else now that I was with him. I stuck with my decision and I don't regret it. We video call literally every day and we will be meeting asap. I'm very happy and we are planning for this to be a long term relationship.
Turns out I wasn't that nuts because everyone* has been more or less forced into sexlessness haha "
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were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it.
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sure everybody with half a braincell knows how slow the rollout is. at the rate we're going, you might not even see normality in 2022.
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I think a lot more people are meeting in secret because for what is supposed to be a free living, non judgemental lifestyle there is a lot of judging going on.
Personally I would be of the live and let live mindset. I dont really care what anybody else is doing. A lot of people are very isolated and depressed and I think if a meet is what is right for you, then go for it.
Not everyone will agree with me, but thats ok, because everyone is entitled to their own oppinion..last time i checked anyway
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were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it.
sure everybody with half a braincell knows how slow the rollout is. at the rate we're going, you might not even see normality in 2022.
Its hard to debate with someone who is contradicting themselves throughout this thread (thumbs) "
I'm talking about government mindset, what their mindset and NPHETs seem to be. way more in society should be open now rather then a continously running l5. we should be nearing the end of vulnerable been vaccinated also. |
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were not in the middle of the pandemic. we have numerous vaccines here, numbers dramatically subsided and we're a year into it.
sure everybody with half a braincell knows how slow the rollout is. at the rate we're going, you might not even see normality in 2022.
Its hard to debate with someone who is contradicting themselves throughout this thread (thumbs) I'm talking about government mindset, what their mindset and NPHETs seem to be. way more in society should be open now rather then a continously running l5. we should be nearing the end of vulnerable been vaccinated also. "
the EU which were part of fucked up on vaccinations plus we fucked up not going about administering our own on the side. 2 fuck ups. I think at this stage most people have been more then patient. looking at what's happening, what they're doing and what's ahead, frustration is bound to be an issue with people having their lives on hold successively. |
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"I think a lot more people are meeting in secret because for what is supposed to be a free living, non judgemental lifestyle there is a lot of judging going on.
Personally I would be of the live and let live mindset. I dont really care what anybody else is doing. A lot of people are very isolated and depressed and I think if a meet is what is right for you, then go for it.
Not everyone will agree with me, but thats ok, because everyone is entitled to their own oppinion..last time i checked anyway
Mrs Sx"
Exactly this  and for us we will meet if and when we are happy to .
I dont get some people say as soon as the restrictions are lifted they will meet again .
If the government dropped to level two in the morning the country would be swinging lol .
But realistically what would have changed other than an announcement .
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