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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Are negative ones more “socially” acceptable than “cringe” ones?

Whatever the hell any of that garble I just printed means to anyone on this interesting little microcosm of a world

Did I just do this to out my negative reaction? Maybe

Did I do it for attention? Also maybe

Will it be good attention? Not a hope lol

But this is the delightful thing about forums and any blocks or bad reps I get for this are funnily enough entirely welcome

...Quickly stands to the side in the hope of avoiding the onslaught but gets bulled over anyway haha

Trolling? Fuck it, why not sometimes. I’m bored as shite and should be doing more productive things but I’m a terrible times easter.

Also, I believe my status update 100%. It may not be very palatable to lots but it’s way too true most of the time

Happy hump day

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

*time waster. Also not arsed about Easter either haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Merely one more opinion in a whole world of 'em

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Haha this is true

And they’re like arseholes anyway right?

On that point, you look to have a great one, but I can’t truly tell it’s very close up.

But of course you shouldn’t give a shite what I think and you’d be right not to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But of course you shouldn’t give a shite what I think and you’d be right not to "

Way ahead of ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"But of course you shouldn’t give a shite what I think and you’d be right not to

Way ahead of ya "

And fair play to ye

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next. "

I agree with your second sentence. In terms of your first sentence, I’ll use my stats update for what I like - might even tell people when I take a shit. That’s the nice thing about it being my status

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next.

I agree with your second sentence. In terms of your first sentence, I’ll use my stats update for what I like - might even tell people when I take a shit. That’s the nice thing about it being my status "

Freedom of speech and all that jazzzzz

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next.

I agree with your second sentence. In terms of your first sentence, I’ll use my stats update for what I like - might even tell people when I take a shit. That’s the nice thing about it being my status

Freedom of speech and all that jazzzzz "

Exactly it’s quite liberating (pun so intended)

It’s also a total dig at the hypocrisy of people dissing status updates and thinking they are above looking cringe. Yea, pull other other one folks lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next.

I agree with your second sentence. In terms of your first sentence, I’ll use my stats update for what I like - might even tell people when I take a shit. That’s the nice thing about it being my status

Freedom of speech and all that jazzzzz

Exactly it’s quite liberating (pun so intended)

It’s also a total dig at the hypocrisy of people dissing status updates and thinking they are above looking cringe. Yea, pull other other one folks lol "

As you say....cringe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dislike status updates dissing other guy/girls. If one profile isnt for u it might b for the next.

I agree with your second sentence. In terms of your first sentence, I’ll use my stats update for what I like - might even tell people when I take a shit. That’s the nice thing about it being my status

Freedom of speech and all that jazzzzz

Exactly it’s quite liberating (pun so intended)

It’s also a total dig at the hypocrisy of people dissing status updates and thinking they are above looking cringe. Yea, pull other other one folks lol

As you say....cringe. "

Cringe is a very subjective idea isn’t it you see

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?"

Ask the lonely bear shitting in the quiet and forlorn woods on his own-e-o

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it "

Exactly! I like that sentiment

Hence my post and my status update

People who choose to get offended are great fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it

Exactly! I like that sentiment

Hence my post and my status update

People who choose to get offended are great fun "

I've come to conclusion if you get offended here time to take a break and I will admit i have got offended and I've got upset over comments that were made that were directed at me but I've realised it only shows the person saying the stuff in a bad light.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it

Exactly! I like that sentiment

Hence my post and my status update

People who choose to get offended are great fun "

Definitely not offended. Apologies if that impression came across. U asked a question if cringy. I agreed and said I disliked some that put others down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it

Exactly! I like that sentiment

Hence my post and my status update

People who choose to get offended are great fun

I've come to conclusion if you get offended here time to take a break and I will admit i have got offended and I've got upset over comments that were made that were directed at me but I've realised it only shows the person saying the stuff in a bad light."

I agree with most of that. We all do get offended sometimes and it’s more about ourselves than what might be said - on fab anyway. Because if people are getting offended by an anonymous profile it’s time for a little sos beag

Some stuff might show a person in a bad light yes. But on the other side of things brown nosing ain’t pretty either

It’s all relative and subjective and basically a load of cockwomble here in the end of the day so I’m kinda just on a rip the piss day

The amount of time we all waste in forums when other people are actually achieving shit thst is worthwhile lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it

Exactly! I like that sentiment

Hence my post and my status update

People who choose to get offended are great fun

Definitely not offended. Apologies if that impression came across. U asked a question if cringy. I agreed and said I disliked some that put others down. "

Oh you don’t need to apologise to me. I’m just fucking around here to be quite honest. It’s like I said in my original post - I felt like stirring the pot today - while also believing what I say

The amount of people on this site afraid to state their true beliefs and thoughts is really fun and amusing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As an occasional thing, a negative status in itself wouldn't bother me. We all have our moments. Same with cringe ones.

If it's constant dickheadery then yeah, that illicits a negative response, or if it's part of an overall negative picture.

Horses for courses. Apparently there's someone for everyone.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


" I felt like stirring the pot today"

What edgy and controversial topic shall we debate next? Emojis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As an occasional thing, a negative status in itself wouldn't bother me. We all have our moments. Same with cringe ones.

If it's constant dickheadery then yeah, that illicits a negative response, or if it's part of an overall negative picture.

Horses for courses. Apparently there's someone for everyone. "

Quite agree. Nice new profiler and I went to check and like but I’m blocked hahaha!!

Fair play. It simplifies life no end

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" I felt like stirring the pot today

What edgy and controversial topic shall we debate next? Emojis? "

I might leave that in your capable soft hands

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick

These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring "

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all "

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters... "

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

"

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts."

But what is "hot" ? Is it the ideal woman / man that is forced onto us by social media etc. Actually had this chat with a friend today. We all spend so long trying to reach this ideal look and many people are miserable trying to attain this look. And yes I totally agree people here can say things and chat to women and men they would never speak to in real life but than is that the issue with life, just because someone doesn't look a certain way doesn't mean their hot but by who's definition? There seems to be this fascination of pitting people against each other, even in here pitting skinny women against Cury or fat women, dad bods against athletic bodies.

I have seen women and men on here with egos the size of houses and do you know what fair play to them, if they are happy having fun and aren't hurting people good luck to them.

Life is too short to worry about who's hot or not. Each to their own likes and dislikes.

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha "

That crossed my mind alright for a fleeting second


"It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all "

Yes, agree about all of that. But it shouldn't be a surprise because ALL of our motivations are ultimately selfish ... fact.

Fabbing pics makes both the fabber and the fabbee feel good about themselves, that is why it is done

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts."

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

That crossed my mind alright for a fleeting second

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Yes, agree about all of that. But it shouldn't be a surprise because ALL of our motivations are ultimately selfish ... fact.

Fabbing pics makes both the fabber and the fabbee feel good about themselves, that is why it is done "

Totally agree on all of that. No question. And I’m not trying to dispute it. We all act selfishly. And I believe selfish should not always be considered a bad thing. It’s inbuilt to our survival and also creates motivation.

So good point. What I mostly am saying is the level of delusion on this site is priceless. There are so many precious mother fuckers it’s truly laughable in a nice comedic way. And actually ultimately I feel sorry for those lost in the Alice in Wonderland feedback loop cause like I sat they’ll get some land when they come out of the rabbit hole - which we all must do eventually

And you look back on your life and was it all about the fans I got from guys who just wanted a quick cup dump. There’s more to life than fab, folks.

And these forums aren’t even the “epicentre” of swinging. Most people in this aye are getting on with the swinging and the fucking and not wasting precious life time on silly forums

And yes, look at me on the forums, I’m well aware of my contradictions.

On another point. Those with the most likes inevitably are the ones on the forums a lot and end up thinking theyre the stand out hotties. I pity them they’re naïveté because the really hot ones haven’t time for forums. They’re too busy riding the arses off themselves and having good times lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kaizer's status updates are for information purposes only

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

But what is "hot" ? Is it the ideal woman / man that is forced onto us by social media etc. Actually had this chat with a friend today. We all spend so long trying to reach this ideal look and many people are miserable trying to attain this look. And yes I totally agree people here can say things and chat to women and men they would never speak to in real life but than is that the issue with life, just because someone doesn't look a certain way doesn't mean their hot but by who's definition? There seems to be this fascination of pitting people against each other, even in here pitting skinny women against Cury or fat women, dad bods against athletic bodies.

I have seen women and men on here with egos the size of houses and do you know what fair play to them, if they are happy having fun and aren't hurting people good luck to them.

Life is too short to worry about who's hot or not. Each to their own likes and dislikes. "

Yea but is subjective of course. But let’s not bullshit ourselves or pretend that average or ugly rotters are ever gonna be anything but and no amount of fans will change that. It’s just guys with their dicks in hand hoping for the last bit of gratification before they spill their smelly load onto their crusty sock.

Really good looking people know who they are and don’t care about this shite. It’s the average ones who seek so much validation and no end of fans will give me abs or a 9 incher and won’t give a missy the figure that she craves or the fans lead her to delude herself to think she has suddenly magical acquired overnight.

And just to be clear I’m not congratulating hot people because we all know that they did sweet fuck all to deserve it except the genetic lottery and it’s zero talent to be proud of either

I’m just enjoying talking loads of shite today cause I’m wrecked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

But what is "hot" ? Is it the ideal woman / man that is forced onto us by social media etc. Actually had this chat with a friend today. We all spend so long trying to reach this ideal look and many people are miserable trying to attain this look. And yes I totally agree people here can say things and chat to women and men they would never speak to in real life but than is that the issue with life, just because someone doesn't look a certain way doesn't mean their hot but by who's definition? There seems to be this fascination of pitting people against each other, even in here pitting skinny women against Cury or fat women, dad bods against athletic bodies.

I have seen women and men on here with egos the size of houses and do you know what fair play to them, if they are happy having fun and aren't hurting people good luck to them.

Life is too short to worry about who's hot or not. Each to their own likes and dislikes.

Yea but is subjective of course. But let’s not bullshit ourselves or pretend that average or ugly rotters are ever gonna be anything but and no amount of fans will change that. It’s just guys with their dicks in hand hoping for the last bit of gratification before they spill their smelly load onto their crusty sock.

Really good looking people know who they are and don’t care about this shite. It’s the average ones who seek so much validation and no end of fans will give me abs or a 9 incher and won’t give a missy the figure that she craves or the fans lead her to delude herself to think she has suddenly magical acquired overnight.

And just to be clear I’m not congratulating hot people because we all know that they did sweet fuck all to deserve it except the genetic lottery and it’s zero talent to be proud of either

I’m just enjoying talking loads of shite today cause I’m wrecked "

You lost me at crusty sock lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty"

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty"

Life is contradictory so it’s perfectly valid of her to say both. Life isn’t simple binary yes and no’s

Like I say hot is only subjective to a certain point. Really beautiful people are beautiful (physically) and really ugly will always be really ugly (again physically)

And it’s not just about women fitting the societal norms pressure. That’s bullshit.

The amount of ridiculously out of shape women here who think they deserve a hot male ripped body with abs and muscles is laughable in the extreme. They act like it’s the click of a finger for men to acquire these physiques.

WAY more men are expected to have super hot ripped bodies than women. I’d argue that possibly the hottest male bodies are expected to put far more effort in than the hottest woman’s. How many women are expected to have a bad or a completely slim body and toned??

Very few. And yet it’s nearly accepted as a rite of fab passage that totally out of shape wonen get to fuck ripped guys. Give me a break. So I call total bullshit on your women pity party boo hoo

Men who aren’t ripped on this site are seen as much less desirable than women who aren’t tomed and don’t even go there challenging me on that.

Women have it tough/er? Don’t make me piss my pants. On fab it’s a veritable feast where a bang average woman can fuck way way above her station and ends up thinking she could have this level of man for an actual relationship lol

Delusion

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

"

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Rotters who think they’re hotter lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Kaizer's status updates are for information purposes only "

Kaiser is a Kool dude tho

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order "

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever."

I remember reading something before about this I think it was an Italian couple they had been married a good few years how did she hide it from him.for that long?

I usually glue my eyelid together if I try to put on false eyelashes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever.

I remember reading something before about this I think it was an Italian couple they had been married a good few years how did she hide it from him.for that long?

I usually glue my eyelid together if I try to put on false eyelashes. "

Lol too funny... Yes and thanks Devine. There's been a few cases around the world. I don't know how they kept so made up without hubbies ever seeing them without make up. But I do know of a girl, not personally but she would get up 2 hrs before hubby to put on her face and go to bed with it on and wait till he was asleep to remove it. Very sad really. Insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever.

I remember reading something before about this I think it was an Italian couple they had been married a good few years how did she hide it from him.for that long?

I usually glue my eyelid together if I try to put on false eyelashes. "

That guy has to accept at least half the blame. What a goon of the highest order

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Lol too funny... Yes and thanks Devine. There's been a few cases around the world. I don't know how they kept so made up without hubbies ever seeing them without make up. But I do know of a girl, not personally but she would get up 2 hrs before hubby to put on her face and go to bed with it on and wait till he was asleep to remove it. Very sad really. Insecurities."

Jesus that’s actually sad - on her part and pathetic on his part he didn’t know it was going on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever.

I remember reading something before about this I think it was an Italian couple they had been married a good few years how did she hide it from him.for that long?

I usually glue my eyelid together if I try to put on false eyelashes.

Lol too funny... Yes and thanks Devine. There's been a few cases around the world. I don't know how they kept so made up without hubbies ever seeing them without make up. But I do know of a girl, not personally but she would get up 2 hrs before hubby to put on her face and go to bed with it on and wait till he was asleep to remove it. Very sad really. Insecurities."

Feck that I'd prefer the 2 hrs of sleep

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By *unsigntwoCouple  over a year ago

athlone


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide angle lens to fit it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These 'bored' statuses are frankly ... boring

This is somewhat inspired by your status update haha

I didn’t want to be bored OR boring

Also inspired by a great chat with a fab woman early into this morning in relation to people believing all the hype on fab and the smoke blown up their arses and how in the real world most these people wouldn’t be blowing said smoke

People get very inflated egos here very handy and the most lazy and boring profiles with terrible close up pics will be revered in almost Princess Diana like fashion.

I feel for those profiles and those with inflated egos when they are in the real outside world and for dating also because this site is men who’ll say anything to get their cock wet and thus creating women who suddenly start thinking they’re suddenly a model prmmmffff lol

Most men and women on the forums are deluding themselves as to their worth or their honesty and in the outside world would get an awful heavy land haha!!

It can tend to be a very safe little environment here for all the cosy validation but ultimately will make it a very scary move for people to leave this world of plamasary cause they ain’t getting fabbed like they are here on dating websites or in day to day life.

It creates a never ending feed back loop of validation seeking and the type of validation where most people validating them truly don’t give a fuck about them at all

Excellent Point. I firmly believe some peeps are definitely disillusioned and deluded on this site.

No offense to Man-Kind either but some Men will and have proven they will `get up` on just about anything.

Thanks for the new word OP earlier and phrase...lol.

I luuuuuvvve new words.

Rotters who think they're Hotters...

But what's ones rotter may be someone else's hotter !

Very True. I Agree 1000%. We're all different thankfully. If we weren't Planet Earth would be a very boring place.

I'm not forgetting either that beauty is only skin deep. I'm actually referring to peeps who think they're hot when they're actually not at all. Egotistical, on their high horse kinda peeps who have become so disillusioned and deluded by the behaviour of some men on here not all some who'd basically fk anything and will say or do anything to get that fk. Once again no offense to anyone. I'm stating facts.

That's a bit of a contradiction though, is it not. To say beauty is only skin deep and then conversely say some think they're hot when they're not? "Hot" is subjective. "Hot" is about more than looks. We often hear it said that self confidence, belief in oneself, feeling comfortable in one's own skin is part of what makes someone hot. It's seen as a desirable thing. And yet when a woman displays those qualities, whether it's acceptable or not, whether it's seen as self belief or as egotistical/conceit, often boils down to whether they fit with the societal norms of beauty

Hotness includes personality also. Some beautiful people become rapidly ugly when their personality stinks. I've witnessed this personally when I dated some extremely good looking men and as I said they became instantly ugly.

What are the societal norms of beauty though...are they the make-up, fake nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows, fake tan etc...

2 guys actually sued their wives for fraud quiet recently lol when they saw them without make-up for the first time. True Story.

Haha the last line lol. Lots of fab women be suddenly hiding their wallets lol

And personality totally matters in real life. Here, very much more down the pecking order

https://www.kiis1065.com.au/entertainment/man-sues-wife-after-seeing-her-without-makeup/

It's True.

A few more recent cases also.

Thankfully I'm all natural in every way and only make-up I wear is mascara. No mask of fakeness or whatever.

I remember reading something before about this I think it was an Italian couple they had been married a good few years how did she hide it from him.for that long?

I usually glue my eyelid together if I try to put on false eyelashes.

Lol too funny... Yes and thanks Devine. There's been a few cases around the world. I don't know how they kept so made up without hubbies ever seeing them without make up. But I do know of a girl, not personally but she would get up 2 hrs before hubby to put on her face and go to bed with it on and wait till he was asleep to remove it. Very sad really. Insecurities."

That is so sad people do things like that x you're right too about beauty is only skin deep. Personality is a must x great comments you have said on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sure its like Facebook post what u want on your status. Same as your pics post what u want. I can't get a close up of mine as I'd need a wide

angle lens to fit it "

Exactly. My Status my Business. Sometimes I may have to update mine a few times a day... Depending on typos or what may happen on Fab...i.e fked up msgs...alot of us know what the fked up msgs are...Anyway as I always say if my status updates annoy peeps...Ye know where the block feature is.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman  over a year ago

outside belfast x

Awwk surely it's all about either attracting some attention or having a laugh at your own expense...I change mine regularly to suit my mood! But wouldn't go outta my way to offend someone though personally! It's my status after all...sometimes I just like keeping ppl in suspense...

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