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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any male who sends a first message but clearly hasn't noticed that there are two people behind the profile gets ignored, as do the ones making sexual suggestions, obvious copy and pastes, or incoherent waffle. |
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I don't send first contact messages and haven't done in over a year.
I can go for a couple of weeks without receiving any messages and a bust week would only get a couple so replying isn't really a chore.
I reply to any I get but some people have difficulty maintaining a conversation while others assume that because I've got a penis that I'm led by that and will therefore jump at whatever is offered.
They obviously haven't read my profile so my reply is usually short and sweet.
I don't respond to demands, instructions or smoke being blown up my arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any male who sends a first message but clearly hasn't noticed that there are two people behind the profile gets ignored, as do the ones making sexual suggestions, obvious copy and pastes, or incoherent waffle."
The last copy and paste message I got , I sent him back the one he sent me 4 wks previous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any male who sends a first message but clearly hasn't noticed that there are two people behind the profile gets ignored, as do the ones making sexual suggestions, obvious copy and pastes, or incoherent waffle.
The last copy and paste message I got , I sent him back the one he sent me 4 wks previous "
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Any male who sends a first message but clearly hasn't noticed that there are two people behind the profile gets ignored, as do the ones making sexual suggestions, obvious copy and pastes, or incoherent waffle.
The last copy and paste message I got , I sent him back the one he sent me 4 wks previous "
Sorry about that  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Actually and I could be very guilty of this as Im not great with communication
It's easy to answer a message but it can be hard to continue a conversation when the other person answers in one or two words only.
A couple of lines at a time is a big help especially when they have started the conversation
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often I wanna think of a decent response, or dont have time to respond, so i might read it, then mark as unread untill I get a chance to answer it properly.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I reply to my most messages I get tho even if it's a no thank you.I keep filters tight so I don't actually get that many .
But in saying that I'll not reply if people have cheated past my filters or if it's a profile that has made no effort .Or the ones where you get faf,or telling me what they want me to do them or visa versa .Also the fake crude compliments get deleted as well. And if I've already told someone no thanks and they keep messaging they get deleted also .Luckily they don't happen that often tho . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message people that interest me.. if i don't get a reply no worries.. people tend to message me more now, usually by seeing one of my forum comments..
I've found a few good friends on fab.. you know who you are x |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"Any male who sends a first message but clearly hasn't noticed that there are two people behind the profile gets ignored, as do the ones making sexual suggestions, obvious copy and pastes, or incoherent waffle.
The last copy and paste message I got , I sent him back the one he sent me 4 wks previous "
I'd one telling me how they really wanted to meet like minded couples and would we be interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People saying they want to meet you but yet you don't match there preferences at all. Men mailing from couple profiles and pretenting it's the female. people looking for pic s adding you as a friend and not talking. people not even bothering to check your preferences and reading your profile. Have never mailed anyone that has not met my preferences.oneliners no thought put into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oooooh where to start 
Vulgarity
Poor grammar
Bad spelling
Unsolicited vag pics
"Fancy a fuck"
"In your area now"
No pics
Underwhelming profile content
Use of over familiarity
Current mood
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Lack of profile pic/content
Dick pics in mail
References to drugs on profile
Obviously hasn't read my profile
One liners such as hi or meet today?
I rarely even reply to mails now unless I reply to say thanks but I'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooooh where to start
Vulgarity
Poor grammar
Bad spelling
Unsolicited vag pics
"Fancy a fuck"
"In your area now"
No pics
Underwhelming profile content
Use of over familiarity
Current mood
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Heah hun we are passing through U fancy a fuk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooooh where to start
Vulgarity
Poor grammar
Bad spelling
Unsolicited vag pics
"Fancy a fuck"
"In your area now"
No pics
Underwhelming profile content
Use of over familiarity
Current mood
Heah hun we are passing through U fancy a fuk "
But WHY!? It's so well thought out....!? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a message yesterday with 12 pics attached... 12!
Dick from many angles. Selfies. Few action shots.
Leave something to the imagination.. Half a gallery with intro certainly not required and wouldn't be reciprocated! |
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Blank or a one line profile.
Clearly hasn't read mine and thought if we could be compatible or not.
Message full of text speak or with grammar so bad I have to re-read the message to understand.
Profile photo being a face picture won't rule out a reply, but does make me think twice. I'm single, but still require a certain amount of discretion and common sense. We all have lives outside Fab. If they're not being discreet/protecting themselves, would they be discreet with me? |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I don't get many messages so im not going to use the "way to many to read" if I see hi, hey, hello or any how's lockdown or how's Fab treating ye which ive no idea what that's about to mean I don't answer and don't get me started on the lazy ass cut n paste one's... |
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"I don't get many messages so im not going to use the "way to many to read" if I see hi, hey, hello or any how's lockdown or how's Fab treating ye which ive no idea what that's about to mean I don't answer and don't get me started on the lazy ass cut n paste one's..."
Out of interest, how is fab treating you??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone that sends a Hi only message and ones asking for meets at the moment.Usually look at the profile first. If not interested will usually say thanks for the message but not meeting.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually reply to any message I get unless it's a "I'm in your area" message or one with a d8ck pic.."
What about a dick pic in your area?
Some nice local scenic backdrops next to the election? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blank profile. When the say will fill In later but have been here over 1yr.
If their from England. Let's face it...chances of meeting very slim.
Vulgar message ur HI....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blank profile. When the say will fill In later but have been here over 1yr.
If their from England. Let's face it...chances of meeting very slim.
Vulgar message ur HI....
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Yes the fill in later is an annoying one, or even when it's filled it talking about "just signed up etc etc." and are on over a year, well verified and all the trimmings, come on a little update there, ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooooh where to start
Vulgarity
Poor grammar
Bad spelling
Unsolicited vag pics
"Fancy a fuck"
"In your area now"
No pics
Underwhelming profile content
Use of over familiarity
Current mood
Heah hun we are passing through U fancy a fuk "
QUICK! STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING!
BJ alert |
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"Any message with mmmm, or mmmmmm or mmmmmmmmmm.....yukk 
Or an endless supply of haha's and lol's or in a couple of cases the use of my profile name at least six times in the message. "
That haha thing puzzles me greatly, it's like a choking noise at the end of a sentence. Reminds me of 'BOOM BOOM' by Basil Brush |
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"Any message with mmmm, or mmmmmm or mmmmmmmmmm.....yukk
Or an endless supply of haha's and lol's or in a couple of cases the use of my profile name at least six times in the message.
That haha thing puzzles me greatly, it's like a choking noise at the end of a sentence. Reminds me of 'BOOM BOOM' by Basil Brush "
It's like a nervous tic |
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I don't respond to:
Requests for immediate meets - you don't even know what I look like, so clearly you have zero standards and are looking for a hole and not much more
Attached guys - too much hassle, expect you to organise yourself around their wife's schedule, hard pass
Couples - everything needs to be about me, I don't like sharing
Messages with no profile pics - don't even open these, just delete. If you can't expend the effort to upload a pic I don't have high hopes for your ability to make me cum
Profiles with no written bio - see above
Bland shite - basically if a message + profile doesn't spark my interest in some way, I just delete
Long distance - I get a ton of messages from guys in London, which is just a waste of time imo. Even men in other counties now, I'm not gonna have you drive cross country to get a coffee, it creates an expectation
Overall, I don't feel the need to respond to anything that doesn't interest me in some way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres always posts of men complaining about their messages not being answered and being blocked....am just curious what is it that makes ppl not reply to messages?"
Well...if they say hi...I don't see the point in answering, no effort made.  or every pic on profile is with his dick on his hands
Or i. In your area, we should meet up...numerous things really. 
I'm just a fussy bitch |
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"I don't respond to:
Requests for immediate meets - you don't even know what I look like, so clearly you have zero standards and are looking for a hole and not much more
Attached guys - too much hassle, expect you to organise yourself around their wife's schedule, hard pass
Couples - everything needs to be about me, I don't like sharing
Messages with no profile pics - don't even open these, just delete. If you can't expend the effort to upload a pic I don't have high hopes for your ability to make me cum
Profiles with no written bio - see above
Bland shite - basically if a message + profile doesn't spark my interest in some way, I just delete
Long distance - I get a ton of messages from guys in London, which is just a waste of time imo. Even men in other counties now, I'm not gonna have you drive cross country to get a coffee, it creates an expectation
Overall, I don't feel the need to respond to anything that doesn't interest me in some way.
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I hear ya hun I have a list myself pretty much like just what you've said I could of written this myself! I've came across so many folks even with a pic and full on bio turn out very hard to get a convo out off! I've seen more make an effort when I pop a wee thread up on forums...hard to find someone who floats my boat! Lol and am no oil painting or fulla myself but there has to be something amazing to grab my attention x |
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"Theres always posts of men complaining about their messages not being answered and being blocked....am just curious what is it that makes ppl not reply to messages?
Well...if they say hi...I don't see the point in answering, no effort made. or every pic on profile is with his dick on his hands
Or i. In your area, we should meet up...numerous things really.
I'm just a fussy bitch "
Ohhhh I hear wouldn't say am overly fussy but yeah definitely fussy to some degree...making an effort is all I ask of ppl..Nice pics not 101 of their dicks in their hands and great conversation...too much too ask sometimes I wonder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys profiles who say straight...but have an interest in meeting TV/TS.. and if I mention it to them they reply 'oh made profile while I was d*unk r made profile in a hurry'. .. |
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"I don't respond to:
Requests for immediate meets - you don't even know what I look like, so clearly you have zero standards and are looking for a hole and not much more
Attached guys - too much hassle, expect you to organise yourself around their wife's schedule, hard pass
Couples - everything needs to be about me, I don't like sharing
Messages with no profile pics - don't even open these, just delete. If you can't expend the effort to upload a pic I don't have high hopes for your ability to make me cum
Profiles with no written bio - see above
Bland shite - basically if a message + profile doesn't spark my interest in some way, I just delete
Long distance - I get a ton of messages from guys in London, which is just a waste of time imo. Even men in other counties now, I'm not gonna have you drive cross country to get a coffee, it creates an expectation
Overall, I don't feel the need to respond to anything that doesn't interest me in some way.
I hear ya hun I have a list myself pretty much like just what you've said I could of written this myself! I've came across so many folks even with a pic and full on bio turn out very hard to get a convo out off! I've seen more make an effort when I pop a wee thread up on forums...hard to find someone who floats my boat! Lol and am no oil painting or fulla myself but there has to be something amazing to grab my attention x"
Exactly! We're allowed to have standards and decide who we want to engage with! Just being here doesn't mean anyone owes anyone a chance. |
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