FabSwingers.com > Forums > Ireland > Knowing people on fab
Knowing people on fab
Jump to: Newest in thread
On a previous profile a few years ago I got a message from a couple with face pics attached.
He worked for me.
Even if he hadn't I wouldn't have continued the conversation as she was in her 20's and they had bypassed my filters because he was in his 40's but I just said she was too young and left it at that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Her cousin!!!!!!
We were messaging him and his partner back and forward. Then eventually got to sharing face pics. They sent first. Boom. Her cousin and his girlfriend!!!! My wife was mortified and blocked them.
Needless to say that Christmas 2019 had us a little giggly |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
So far maybe just one guy when i joined first he is an aqaintence, the next time i seen him at activities he said here's the head mistress lol. It was a little bit embarrassing but he did tip me off that my face was set to public by mistake. It must definitely us a small world though. Anothee time i thought i seen a close family members tattoo in a picture but didn't see it again afterwards or see their fact picture. Either way they are here for same reasons so not to bothered now any more where as at the beginning i was. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Carlow is a very small place so there's a few id reconise on here.. One couple pass my house regular but they don't know me from here...."
Carlow is a small place  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I bumped into an old friend at my very first social. I nearly died of fright but it turned out brilliant cos he said to me that in order for him to "out" me he would have to "out" himself. It made me relax about it straight away.
I've since come across a few people I know here. It has never been a huge issue. We're all here for the same reasons and all meant to be grown ups and know how to be discreet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Yesterday a guy I went to primary school with recognised me and messaged. I didn't remember him until he sent a picture. I was only in that school for half a year and I wasn't friends with him. I was polite to him until he sent quite an explicit message. I didn't reply. Still trying to figure out how to act when I inevitably bump into him in the small town we live in. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Yesterday a guy I went to primary school with recognised me and messaged. I didn't remember him until he sent a picture. I was only in that school for half a year and I wasn't friends with him. I was polite to him until he sent quite an explicit message. I didn't reply. Still trying to figure out how to act when I inevitably bump into him in the small town we live in. "
Can you just block him in here and ignore in real life after saying to him thats what you are going to do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My early naive days on fab. Chatting to a guy we agreed to swap face pics. I send mine first....stupid I know. But he never sent me his. Just kept going on about he knew me and seen me around. Every now and again he would txt and say...seen u at shop today ur looking well... spooked me out...blocked.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My early naive days on fab. Chatting to a guy we agreed to swap face pics. I send mine first....stupid I know. But he never sent me his. Just kept going on about he knew me and seen me around. Every now and again he would txt and say...seen u at shop today ur looking well... spooked me out...blocked. "
Thats just childish that and spooky puts people off fab altogether a dick like that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My early naive days on fab. Chatting to a guy we agreed to swap face pics. I send mine first....stupid I know. But he never sent me his. Just kept going on about he knew me and seen me around. Every now and again he would txt and say...seen u at shop today ur looking well... spooked me out...blocked.
Thats just childish that and spooky puts people off fab altogether a dick like that"
You said it. But hey you live and learn. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My early naive days on fab. Chatting to a guy we agreed to swap face pics. I send mine first....stupid I know. But he never sent me his. Just kept going on about he knew me and seen me around. Every now and again he would txt and say...seen u at shop today ur looking well... spooked me out...blocked. "
Sorry to hear that happened, what a creep ... instantly block (you did, well done) I would even report him as it may be some harassing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Its happened to us twice, Mr knew one of the people in the couples. Still went on to meet one of them couples for dinner and drinks and it actually great to be able to chat about the lifestyle with them!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My early naive days on fab. Chatting to a guy we agreed to swap face pics. I send mine first....stupid I know. But he never sent me his. Just kept going on about he knew me and seen me around. Every now and again he would txt and say...seen u at shop today ur looking well... spooked me out...blocked. "
I cant figure out the bit bout being stupid!
So it's who sends first tis the silly one!
Were all grown ups here well most,I think if you receive a pix some one are cpl you know well return the complainant to stay of each others paths and forget about getting one over and blocking. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Happened to me at a social! It was a couple I know, she was cool about it and didn’t really care, the male wasn’t so cool about it!
It’s stupid because in order for me to ‘out’ them I’d be doing the same to myself. I am extremely discrete anyway and would never disclose a persons identity under any circumstances. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
To be fair we love being recognised on here by people we know then get to meet. It’s always been exciting.
So far we have found or been found by
Neighbours (multiple)
Old school friends
A customer of our business
Her Aunty |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
In my early days in swing sites (the one that was big before) I would go on cam and give a show. I was legal while I was still in school (did the LC when I was 19), but would be so eager to get on that cam, I'd naively leave the uniform on... Long story short, I got a message from someone to say they were my teacher, knew enough about me for me to know they were, but never let me know who it was and I never sussed anything when I was in school either |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ya quite a few ppl.
One guys was bit 2 mouthy in forums. I recognised him straight away.
Another friend was here and he was going as bi, well verified as well.
He never mentioned it in real life so I didn't either. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
There's been a few times I've met people I knew from outside of fab at events/parties. I just put them at ease by saying that our secret is safe with me and then I just go about my night as normal. I respect everyone's privacy.
If someone I knew mailed a face pic I'd mail one back explaining that we know eachother and that again our secret is safe with me and I expect the same from them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Was within an hour of meeting a couple...almost breaking our no local rule.. face pic revealed I knew him as a customer from work. I posted pic of me back but he didn't recognise me. Would have just chit chatted to him in the past, but still.. I couldn't be dealing with meeting Fab people in everyday life..  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"At my first ever Meet & Greet, the first person to 'greet' me was a lovely girl who used to live on my estate before she moved away (to somewhere posher!!  ) We hung around in the same crowd in our early teens, & she tells me that I was her first kiss  
We didn't recognise each other immediately....but yes...small world
Wasn’t that much posher LOL "
Eh, I've seen how you hold your tea cup |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Met the wife of 1 of my mates here… we didn’t want to swap pics here, so met for a coffee! After the initial shock we had a nice coffee xx
And......."
Let’s just say I still know where she lives!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I did so happen to notice someone I went to secondary school with got on fairly well with her too but it's been ages since I last saw her so I thought I'd say hello 5 mins later she blocks me and pretty sure she left here after about a month it wasn't even Halloween at the time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"At my first ever Meet & Greet, the first person to 'greet' me was a lovely girl who used to live on my estate before she moved away (to somewhere posher!! ) We hung around in the same crowd in our early teens, & she tells me that I was her first kiss
We didn't recognise each other immediately....but yes...small world
Wasn’t that much posher LOL
Eh, I've seen how you hold your tea cup "
And she doesn't come she arrives |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
I know people from my area on here, cples and fems. Some know I'm on here also.
We all give the wee quick glance when in the supermarkets and pretend we don't know. It can be nervous but they are here for the same reasons. Maybe if we bumped into each other in the pub or club it would be brought up but for now, it's just a nice acknowledgment that we are all having tabo fun  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oumlacaMan
over a year ago
waterford |
Very first meet with a couple many years ago I recognised his wife, she was school friend of my sister. Never let on to the husband, following week had a 3sum in their marriage bed. Fantastic couple , we had many exciting adventures with them over the years.
Hubby did find out eventually and got great kick out of it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've been recognised once or twice. I've also had guys claim to know me who were definitely bluffing because I change my location from time to time. Nothing to hide anyway |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Came across a fella from my year at school and a couple I knew from tec ....and another couple the women used to be my bestfriend for like 20+ years and her married bf! Needless to say I just blocked them! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I'm a bi male and met a guy l know. Had been messaging each other for a while and then he sends me a face pic. I instantly recognised him. I sent a face pic back to him and message saying seeing as we both know each other do you still want to meet. He was up for meeting big time as was l. Have had several hot meets since then. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I did recognise the male half of a couple who were on here for a while (profile now seems to be gone) but I only know him to see, though we've mutual acquaintances. I didn't message them, because apart from anything else, I wasn't what they were looking for. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have found neighbours, colleagues and old school friends. I got nervous at first but decided not to hide anything. We are all here for the same reason. It worked out very well in the end with all of them  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My neighbours(who don't know me) started calling me Dave one day. I didn't correct them even though my name isn't really Dave. I am not really sure what to do now. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My neighbours(who don't know me) started calling me Dave one day. I didn't correct them even though my name isn't really Dave. I am not really sure what to do now."
Are you actually called Rodney and is your neighbour called Trigger? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ippje84Man
over a year ago
tipperary |
"Yesterday a guy I went to primary school with recognised me and messaged. I didn't remember him until he sent a picture. I was only in that school for half a year and I wasn't friends with him. I was polite to him until he sent quite an explicit message. I didn't reply. Still trying to figure out how to act when I inevitably bump into him in the small town we live in. "
that is a terrible thing to happen to u or anyone , very creepy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Met a few
Neighbour growing up
Bosses daughter
I think ireland being so small it's bound to happen but is it so bad we are all adults an sex shouldn't treated like a dirty secret.
Ive noticed next generation of fabbers are not as secret as previous generation, alot more face pics on profiles.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've been fortunate enough to come across someone I grew up with on here. I had no bother letting him know who I was because I trust him completely. Can't wait to catch up with himself and his lovely wife in person.
I also had a message from someone else I grew up with and as soon as I realised who he was I blocked him... Mouth the size of the Shannon 
Bee |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Only once on my previous account. It was a platonic friend who I'd seen naked before through her life and erotic modelling and who I often discussed sex with anyway. No awkwardness at all and Fab became just another part of our "how's your sex life been?" chats.
I've never had much reason to worry about being recognised by family, and absolutely zero reason to worry now that I'm living in Dublin. And I'm too old to care about being recognised by friends or colleagues. If it happens it happens. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My really gorgeous mother in law , didn’t mention I knew her as I don’t want her to leave because of it as her verification are showing she is having a lot of fun,
Her husband treats her badly too so fair play to her |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Also anytime I see some local people I know they just join fab and I give them a little message with the dos and don’t on fab without saying I know them.
Tell them “don’t put your home town on your profile “ as it’s a small town
Don’t use your actually name
Take or add a year onto your ages
Don’t have face pic on your profile
Don’t post a pic you have on yo other social media as people could recognise the background of the pic
Don’t talk to people who aren’t Verified in some way , meet, cam or photo and been on here for ages.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I met what turned out to be a childhood acquaintance, it was supposed to be a couple and then he told me he meets single men by himself, pretending to be a couple and robs them.
Account reported when I got home. The profile was old, verified and 100% fake pics. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I met what turned out to be a childhood acquaintance, it was supposed to be a couple and then he told me he meets single men by himself, pretending to be a couple and robs them.
Account reported when I got home. The profile was old, verified and 100% fake pics. "
Were you dressed as a priest or something??
Fessing up may not have been the smartest move. Scary |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I bumped into a school friend at a social. He tried telling me he was at the hotel for another reason. As did I
We were rumbled when a lady fabber who we were both acquainted with wandered up and said hi.
We had a laugh and went out separate ways. We’ve met since but never mentioned it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
