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By *oulman OP Man
over a year ago
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Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.
It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've been here two months and already have two verifications. Seems like you're doing just fine. Also not sure if you're aware but we're in the middle of a pandemic. Might have something to do with people not meeting  |
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There have been many threads on this so ill just highlight the bullet points
You joined in the middle of covid where a lot of people arent meeting and therefore arent engaging with new people
The ratio of men to women is waaaaay out of wack so youre up against 100s of other men
People often have a look at profile/pics before deciding whether or not to reply. If they dont feel the profile fits them they wont reply
Best advice i can give, enjoy the forums and join in, have a bitnof craic, let people see what youre like, and once things are lifted then maybe see how things are.
You need a LOT of patience on here especially as a single male
Best of luck  |
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By *oulman OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
All good points for sure. Yes this topic has certainly being covered before.
Being new I suppose I just would like to engage with people in the hope we get on and meet up at some stage.
Patience is a virtue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres a pandemic and majority of people aren't meeting. And I've seen comments from people that they won't meet anyone who has met other people during the pandemic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ?? "
Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.
I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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There's more than ten times the amount of men than women on here.
A while ago us fab-women tried to take shifts so that every man is looked after in time and regular basis but it was simply not doable.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ?? "
Only so much chatting can be done. It's been a long year and the chat can fizzle out, only so many conversations about the weather, what sex position you like, or what cake you like  |
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By *oulman OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
I’m looking for people who are close by to me so the fun element can still happen. Obviously anyone who is miles outside my radius just won’t work. I agree with the women to men ratio is way off. I can only assume women are bombarded with messages from guys. I get it. |
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"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??
Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.
I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?"
This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague  |
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"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??
Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.
I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?
This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague "
The genuine |
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"I know covid has been a pain in the ass for everyone but I was thinking maybe some people would want to chat with me.... I’m sure people are still meeting up regardless of a pandemic ??
Well obviously they are as one of your verifications shows. But as DD said, the fact you're meeting during the pandemic will put many off. The fact you've met someone who is obviously meeting during the pandemic will deter more again.
I'm unsure why you're claiming that people are time wasters? What do you perceive a time waster to be?
This 100% I know quite a few ladies who have read this thread will take notes and avoid like a the plague
The genuine "
Non genuine surely |
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"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.
It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "
Don't let it get you down, people aren't meeting now, mostly and lots won't want to engage in chats when it's not clear when meets will be a thing again. The forum is good craic! |
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"There's more than ten times the amount of men than women on here.
A while ago us fab-women tried to take shifts so that every man is looked after in time and regular basis but it was simply not doable.....
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Was the ballance better before?? |
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"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.
It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "
Hugo boss is the answer op you'll have to bate them off with a big stick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many people including us are a bit "chatted out" at this stage and are only really chatting on the forums. Join in the chats here for now and you can get to know people that way "
Absolutely this, there's only so many times you can tell someone how lockdown is treating you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.
It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "
PAndemic.... rotation male female... etc etc..
HAve patience ..breath relax |
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"Just wondering why it’s so difficult to get a meet from any ladies.
It seems like there are a lot of time wasters on fab. Is there any genuine ladies out there that actually wants NSA no drama. Finding it frustrating at times. "
Hiding your profile won’t help you either just FYI.
Might have a legit reason but can look like a fella is attached if he stops chatting or hides his profile in an evening/weekend.
Otherwise, lots of good advice already provide
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